true friends are kinda hard to find these days..
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hmm..i dunno abt u guys..but i find that true friends are kinda hard to find these days..hmm..i'm a secondary school student now..and i think that my friends sometimes concentrate more on their studies than on friendships..in chinese we call them 'yi qi'...
right...i have a 4 hr tuition on every sun..while my 3 other frens come for a 2 hr tuition becoz i have math and sci tuition while they only have sci tuition..and so when it's sci class,they wld den join me in the class..and so...4 hrs tuition..imagine that..wld u be dam hungry after the tuition?i wld..and so everytime after tuition..i wld ask if they wanna go for some snacks or teabreak what so ever de..and guess wad..they said they wanna go home study..sometimes i really bui tahan..and so i said i wld treat them and wld kinda beg them to accompany me for teabreak..and when they heard the word 'treat'..they wld change their mind and said ok le..wth?
and sometimes among these 3 frens,there's a couple..everytime when the couple quarrel,my male fren wld always come and ask me how to solve the prob de..hmm..we're frens wad,so i dun mind spending time giving him advice...but..everytime when i have prob,and when i tell him abt it..he's always not being serious abt it..it's like he wld give replies like ...'i dunno?' or...' sry..i nv encounter these kind of prob before' ..seriously,i felt very lost at that point and therefore i'm here to hear frm u guys for ur comments..what should i do?Do u think i shld ignore him in future when he has prob?
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Decide and determine who your friends are in times of adversity,not in times of prosperity.
In times of prosperity,ANYONE can be your friend.They are around u to be happy and make merry.
In times of adversity,open up your eyes and see.Those who are still around and stick with you thru bad times are the ones worth keeping.
But sad to say,it's everyone for themselves. -
You cannot choose your parents but you can choose your friends.
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ya..and true friends like them are hard to find..haiz..Originally posted by Patrik:Decide and determine who your friends are in times of adversity,not in times of prosperity.
In times of prosperity,ANYONE can be your friend.They are around u to be happy and make merry.
In times of adversity,open up your eyes and see.Those who are still around and stick with you thru bad times are the ones worth keeping.
But sad to say,it's everyone for themselves. -
yes this i agree.Originally posted by kenizaton:ya..and true friends like them are hard to find..haiz.. -
yar.. Huan nan jian zhen qing.
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Read my siggyOriginally posted by kenizaton:hmm..i dunno abt u guys..but i find that true friends are kinda hard to find these days..hmm..i'm a secondary school student now..and i think that my friends sometimes concentrate more on their studies than on friendships..in chinese we call them 'yi qi'...
right...i have a 4 hr tuition on every sun..while my 3 other frens come for a 2 hr tuition becoz i have math and sci tuition while they only have sci tuition..and so when it's sci class,they wld den join me in the class..and so...4 hrs tuition..imagine that..wld u be dam hungry after the tuition?i wld..and so everytime after tuition..i wld ask if they wanna go for some snacks or teabreak what so ever de..and guess wad..they said they wanna go home study..sometimes i really bui tahan..and so i said i wld treat them and wld kinda beg them to accompany me for teabreak..and when they heard the word 'treat'..they wld change their mind and said ok le..wth?
and sometimes among these 3 frens,there's a couple..everytime when the couple quarrel,my male fren wld always come and ask me how to solve the prob de..hmm..we're frens wad,so i dun mind spending time giving him advice...but..everytime when i have prob,and when i tell him abt it..he's always not being serious abt it..it's like he wld give replies like ...'i dunno?' or...' sry..i nv encounter these kind of prob before' ..seriously,i felt very lost at that point and therefore i'm here to hear frm u guys for ur comments..what should i do?Do u think i shld ignore him in future when he has prob?
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this 1 really need our youngest mod to settle liao
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Sometimes u need to stay in jail to see who ur real friends are. 9 Months is enough .... for me
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wait till u step into the society u will find frens even worst than wat u hav in sch days
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:Sometimes u need to stay in jail to see who ur real friends are. 9 Months is enough .... for me
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ya... true...Originally posted by Saint`:wait till u step into the society u will find frens even worst than wat u hav in sch days -
my buddies are from sec sch.
its hard to find one in worklife esp everyone is killing each other.
but if u manage to find one or two, treasure them for its a bonus. -
hmmm... to be exact a bit, probably, as u go older, u will find that the meaning of friends began to diverge. Then, there are many many many types of friends...
I like (eat snake friend) and (entertainment friend) >< -
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You've seen nothing yet... Wait till you see 'friends' who say one thing in front of you and stabs you behind your back...
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oh..ya..i will try to do that before the holis..man..thx for ur advice..wont noe how lost i wld be without all the replies i got..thx guys!Originally posted by RonDaGuy:not all friends can present or express themselves well.
i have a close guy fren for 10 years plus since we met in kindergarden.
i treat him as my only best friend other then my gf.
but he doesnt say much to me, doesnt express himself well. however on the other hand, i am sure i did express myself and show my appreciation.
Does not really matter to me.
if i meet someone like myself or you meet someone like yourself, i am sure the friendship will repel worse...
they dont have to show it or express to you how they feel deep down about you. everyone has different personality.
yeap i am usually the one who takes extra efforts to bond everyone.
Oh since you are only in secondary, i am sure most of them dont have the money to go chill everytime. wait till your exams are over, i am sure they will want to go out. Remember to initiate and start planning for gatherings during holidays before everyone gets a part time.... It's a trend ...
do let your friend read your thread
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hmm..ya..i heard that there are lots of back-stabbing going on in the society..i'm mentally prepared for that..but dun ppl always make thier best friends in secondary schools?and if friends in secondary schools already with those kind bo chap bo chap attitude to the friendship le..how wld the friendship last long????hmm..curious..Originally posted by Devil1976:You've seen nothing yet... Wait till you see 'friends' who say one thing in front of you and stabs you behind your back... -
ya..i totally agree man..but to me..my 'nan' doesnt seems to have alot leh..very hard to see zhen qing..haiz..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:yar.. Huan nan jian zhen qing. -
Naw.. You have a choice on whether they're frens of yours or not.
Cheers.
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hmm..wad's youngest 'mod'?Originally posted by gigabyte14:this 1 really need our youngest mod to settle liao -
ya..but i wld wanna make more friends as possible..and that's one of the problems i'm facing ..that's y i posted it in the forum..haiz..Originally posted by CKeer:Naw.. You have a choice on whether they're frens of yours or not.
Cheers.
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Oh i see. Join the outings lo.Originally posted by kenizaton:ya..but i wld make more friends as possible..and that's one of the problems i'm facing ..that's y i posted it in the forum..haiz..
Sure meet alot of crappy people one. 
Cheers.
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haha yea like u rite?=pOriginally posted by CKeer:Oh i see. Join the outings lo. Sure meet alot of crappy people one.
Cheers.
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Keep searching...Originally posted by kenizaton:hmm..ya..i heard that there are lots of back-stabbing going on in the society..i'm mentally prepared for that..but dun ppl always make thier best friends in secondary schools?and if friends in secondary schools already with those kind bo chap bo chap attitude to the friendship le..how wld the friendship last long????hmm..curious..