How many of u out there broke up & got together again
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Jz wan to noe abt true love
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u mean u wanna know whether ppl who r reali in love can break up n get back tgt anot isit?Originally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love -
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yupOriginally posted by darkhour:u mean u wanna know whether ppl who r reali in love can break up n get back tgt anot isit? -
can....but dangerous...dun try....dun even think of tryin....onli some can make it thru, not all...some types once u break is break for good...no turning back liao...Originally posted by lostlostlost:yup -
Depends on the reason of breaking up
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True Love is about giving. Selfless thoughts and unconditional. if you break, den patching up will not do good. Scars are wounds not healed completely. It will always be there. move on kid...Originally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love
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depends la...sometimes breakups r caused by reckless behaviour n not thinking of the consequences...sometimes its juz a confusion of thoughts....not reali all is no hope of going back or no use going back la...Originally posted by mach10:True Love is about giving. Selfless thoughts and unconditional. if you break, den patching up will not do good. Scars are wounds not healed completely. It will always be there. move on kid... -
I have seen a couple of couples do that and now they are divorced... errr right now I cannot think of any that I know for sure broke up and are got together and are still happily married... oh wait... I remember one... now still married but I won't say "happily"...
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i have..
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There's 2 ways to look at this.
For example a vase: Once broken, even though u super-glue back. There are still the cracks visible there.
Another example: The sole of the shoe has broken off, you send it to the clobber and fix it. It becomes better than before.
Applies to different people and different situation, it all depends on how bad it is...
Most of the time the former occurs more than the latter one. -
i did. twice somemore. but it still ended for good now. what some people say is true, what's broken, really is broken. he/she who isn't the right one, just isn't the right one.
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Same here. I had that kind of off-and-then-on-again experience with at least two people, at different times of course. It just isnt the same anymore. We just didnt treasure each other like before and our lives really hit rock botom at times with the frequent disagreement. It was like, nothing else can be worse than what we had experienced, so why bother.Originally posted by ghast.:i did. twice somemore. but it still ended for good now. what some people say is true, what's broken, really is broken. he/she who isn't the right one, just isn't the right one. -
erm sometimes theres no right or wrong. love is a feeling. just follow ur feelings. i am sure at some point of time in life we know someone is just not the one for us but it is beyond our control
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if you think like that... *sigh* you are heading for trouble...Originally posted by thawhammer:erm sometimes theres no right or wrong. love is a feeling. just follow ur feelings. i am sure at some point of time in life we know someone is just not the one for us but it is beyond our control
Love is a feeling like hunger is a feeling and just as when you are hungry, you have to handle that hungry feeling well... know what food to eat to stay healthy, avoid poisonous food and so on... you too must know how to handle your feelings of love well or you will be in trouble... -
agree...once break no turning back already...Originally posted by darkhour:can....but dangerous...dun try....dun even think of tryin....onli some can make it thru, not all...some types once u break is break for good...no turning back liao...
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I second that.Originally posted by ilovethesun:agree...once break no turning back already...
It's like super-gluing 2 broken piece together; there will always be a crack there. -
That's why we need companies like 3M to invent something which doesn't leaves crack.Originally posted by eagle:I second that.
It's like super-gluing 2 broken piece together; there will always be a crack there. -
that will be even worse. It will be an unseen crack that is still the weakest partOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:That's why we need companies like 3M to invent something which doesn't leaves crack. -
Actually everything have cracks, it's just that we can't look at molecular level.Originally posted by eagle:that will be even worse. It will be an unseen crack that is still the weakest part -
HaHa, this definitely sounds like an advertisement. You sure you are not a knowledgeble bot?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:That's why we need companies like 3M to invent something which doesn't leaves crack. -
Originally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love
You reckon that those that broke up and got back together equate to true love?
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not me...
But however, I have friends that broke up and got together again... Not only they r together, they r married liao...
True love ,hah??? Seems so easy to understand but seems so hard to experience...
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True love comes in many different stories which each one of u experience through life. Every single one of us view true love differently.Originally posted by lostlostlost:Jz wan to noe abt true love
For example
1) A couple has been together for 15 years then got married, to them true love is able to overcome all odds to be together.
2) To some girls out there who loves money, true love to her is to find a rich man to get married so that she can spend more and more.
3) To some guys out there finding the most beautiful woman in the world and get married to her is true love.
4) To some girls after sleeping with many guys and finally found a man who loves her not for her looks or boobs but her character is true love. -
Coloured in red ones means the couples are not ready. so if both are not ready for any serious relationship, getting back together only post a potential 2nd break up. got it?Originally posted by darkhour:depends la...sometimes breakups r caused by reckless behaviour n not thinking of the consequences...sometimes its juz a confusion of thoughts....not reali all is no hope of going back or no use going back la...
So its really no point thinking about the past, just move on and life will be brighter.