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• unclebutcher

  3 Jul 07, 11:06

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  
• gigabyte14

  3 Jul 07, 11:07

  msn.
  
  get her email, then chat and chat
  
  you'll soon have the courage to talk to her in class when the time is ripe.
  
  happened to someone here too
• kiss_my (_i_)

  3 Jul 07, 11:15

  me like tht too when i sec...
  
  but now...hehe...
  
  u shy, u pop no cherry
• lostlostlost

  3 Jul 07, 11:18

  
  U have to break the ice
  
  If not u will have to regert not trying
• X k

  3 Jul 07, 11:25

  start by asking how's her day...then can continue from there~
  show concern n interest in her~
• AndrewPKYap

  3 Jul 07, 11:29

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  Please don't trust your imaginations.... convos on windows live not bad already wat.... be satisfied lah... no need to take it to another level wat... just let it happen naturally...
• nanren4ever

  3 Jul 07, 12:11

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:
  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  Everyday before going to school, go to 7-11 and buy sweets. Don't give it to anyone except her first. Ask her if she wants some. Then from there on, find some conversation to say. If she decline politely, then ask if its because she don't like the brand of sweet u buy. Ask her what brand she likes, and then buy it.
  
  I paved the way for u, now u have to go build ur own house. Gd luck.
• de_middle

  3 Jul 07, 13:01

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  ur school got girls
• unclebutcher

  3 Jul 07, 13:45

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  ur school got girls

  i no more in sji la
  
• de_middle

  3 Jul 07, 14:02

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  i no more in sji la
  

  oh ok.......why shy.......dun be like me
• jojobeach

  3 Jul 07, 14:53

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  Why do you lack the courage ?
  What have you got to lose ????
  
• unclebutcher

  3 Jul 07, 14:53

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  oh ok.......why shy.......dun be like me

  i liddat one...mus change
• zeny

  3 Jul 07, 14:56

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  i liddat one...mus change

  can you change?
  lets be honest lar
  can you really do it ?
  
  Take your time rushing things will only keep your mouth shut.
  
  
• unclebutcher

  3 Jul 07, 15:04

  Originally posted by zeny:

  can you change?
  lets be honest lar
  can you really do it ?
  
  Take your time rushing things will only keep your mouth shut.
  
  

  haha. im quite passive(read:laidback) by nature so that shouldnt be a prob i guess
• relax_crown

  3 Jul 07, 15:14

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  practise la. i also very shy... but i believe if u plan something like say plan something to say first. hi,today A, how are u?what to go out together? something like that always smile you can practise at mirror. courage not one day build. need many many days.
• sgFish

  3 Jul 07, 18:37

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  i no more in sji la
  

  then where you go
• plodlite

  3 Jul 07, 20:18

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  tok la!!!
  
  gals wan guys take 1st initiative mahz...
• darkhour

  3 Jul 07, 20:22

  Originally posted by plodlite:

  tok la!!!
  
  gals wan guys take 1st initiative mahz...

  to b exact...the girl alrdy took the first initiative by talkin to him in reality...
• plodlite

  3 Jul 07, 20:24

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  to b exact...the girl alrdy took the first initiative by talkin to him in reality...

  becuz de gal tired of waitin liaox la
  
  guy muz tok more!!!
• unclebutcher

  3 Jul 07, 21:09

  Originally posted by plodlite:

  becuz de gal tired of waitin liaox la
  
  guy muz tok more!!!

  u ever got the feeling or not...whenever the person u like is near u cant talk properly to him/her. actually u cant think properly too
• darkhour

  3 Jul 07, 21:11

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  u ever got the feeling or not...whenever the person u like is near u cant talk properly to him/her. actually u cant think properly too

  yep...i used to haf that feeling for all pretty girls... seriously...thats y i was nvr good with talkin to girls...onli online...
• Darkness_hacker99

  3 Jul 07, 21:13

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  u ever got the feeling or not...whenever the person u like is near u cant talk properly to him/her. actually u cant think properly too

  I got!
  
  
  
  Haiz.. I missed too many opportunities le.. I don't want you to follow me.
  
  Yar. the sweets method might work.
• popikachu

  3 Jul 07, 22:38

  Alot of people have miss the chance and regreted...
  
  Don't make the mistake again...
  
  Take initiative, take courage.
  
  Live life without regrets...
  
  haiz me and my dar dar also liddat shy shy one de... everytime we both alone nia last time no talk de...
  
  i just take initiative and talk to her lor...
  then again take courage to ask her to be my darling...
  
  haha
• caleb_chiang

  3 Jul 07, 22:39

  ... try communicate using papers just like what you did on msn... write and pass to her...
• Yunhaier

  3 Jul 07, 23:28

  Originally posted by unclebutcher:

  theres this girl la...lets call her A. i like A. i think A likes me too. but the prob is, both of us are too damn shy. every time i alone with her, in class or whatever, we dun talk. damn quiet. every time i want to talk to her but i just got no courage to start a real conversation.most of the time is she talk to me. i seem to be able to carry out a normal conversation with everyone except her. the only true convo's we have are on windows live. how?????????i wanna get to know her more but just lack the courage dammit.
  
  

  To walk a mile, you must begin your first step.
  
  If you cannot find the courage to speak, I suggest you drop the idea of knowing her better.
  
  You must find ways to surmount your weakness.
  
  Weakness is a state of mind - impossible is nothing. Therefore being shy is but an excuse to avoid your true self.
  
  Cheers