How to go after girls ?

• Xlashes

  10 Jul 07, 23:16

  My situation : I only go after girls that show interest, but then when I go after them, they dun seemed so enthusiastic anymore.. dun go after them, they really think you wasting their them, wad to do.. how to strike a balance
• zix1

  10 Jul 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by Xlashes:

  My situation : I only go after girls that show interest, but then when I go after them, they dun seemed so enthusiastic anymore.. dun go after them, they really think you wasting their them, wad to do.. how to strike a balance

  go attend a course to learn.
• parn

  10 Jul 07, 23:40

  Originally posted by Xlashes:

  My situation : I only go after girls that show interest, but then when I go after them, they dun seemed so enthusiastic anymore.. dun go after them, they really think you wasting their them, wad to do.. how to strike a balance

  Be yourself and you will realised that there will be someone out there who will appreciate and like you for who you are.
• Cool-gal

  10 Jul 07, 23:49

  then wait for gals to woo u lor.
  
• sEphIrOth

  11 Jul 07, 01:01

  call sdu
• bananaking

  11 Jul 07, 01:02

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  then wait for gals to woo u lor.
  

  X2..that's for me la..wait 4 girls come woo me...
• de_middle

  11 Jul 07, 09:20

  Originally posted by Xlashes:

  My situation : I only go after girls that show interest, but then when I go after them, they dun seemed so enthusiastic anymore.. dun go after them, they really think you wasting their them, wad to do.. how to strike a balance

  there is no way to learn of for us to teach you how. the golden rule is just be yourself......love yourself & others will love you in return.
  
  Of coz, you do not sit there & wait, shld you fancy a girl.....do your part & hopefully she takes fancy in you. If she doesn't, don't despair, try again
• ordinaryguy32

  11 Jul 07, 10:00

  Be sincere
  Be earnest
  Be a gentleman
  
  
• Beckhamagic

  11 Jul 07, 14:47

  Originally posted by Xlashes:

  My situation : I only go after girls that show interest, but then when I go after them, they dun seemed so enthusiastic anymore.. dun go after them, they really think you wasting their them, wad to do.. how to strike a balance

  There are not rules... every girl are unique in one way or another...
  
  Most importantly is that you should the true side of yours and dunn ever mind.. the more u hide.. the more u need to cover up in the future...
  
  Just be yourself...
• boka

  11 Jul 07, 15:03

  First golden rule:
  Never seem more enthu than the other party.
  This is how it is played.
  When u crave for the other parter day and night,it means they are in control over your emotion,they make u think of them all day.
  
  When u msg her,make it short and simple,do not make your msg overly enthu.
  When u have to reply her,dun do it straight away.
  do it only after half a day and when she ask why the late reply...says "i got other activities"
  This shows that u are not needy of her and that she is not in your centre of life.
  When gals know u are revolving around them,they automatically lose intrest because thats how they act.
• bkbatboy

  11 Jul 07, 15:07

  be urself can liao. that the best piece of advice around man.if the gal dosent like u being urself and she's still with you then she probably not really interested in u.
  
  sooo...1st step be more sociable.make more frens.widen frens network..
• smudgey

  11 Jul 07, 15:31

  Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:

  Be sincere
  Be earnest
  Be a gentleman
  
  

  yup...
  
  be all that but be you too.
  
  if not the gal will feel like "kena cheated"