Not allowed to know the relationship

• coldzero

  11 Jul 07, 19:57

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?
• ispyyy

  11 Jul 07, 20:00

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  yes...
  "er (4) ren(2) shi(4) jie(4)" = 2 person world
  
  
• Yunhaier

  11 Jul 07, 20:20

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  If the relationship is not glorious enough to survive in light, then probably it's never meant to be there in the first place.
  
  All sub-rosa relationships often promise deception (Neptune-influenced BGR).
  
  What's your reason for such secrecy? (presuming that you are in such crisis)
  
  Cheers
• mancha

  11 Jul 07, 20:30

  Who are the other people?
  
  Family, friends, relatives, colleague these are all important people in your lives, you know.
  
• AndrewPKYap

  11 Jul 07, 20:37

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  What are you toking about har?
• coldzero

  11 Jul 07, 20:43

  Originally posted by mancha:

  Who are the other people?
  
  Family, friends, relatives, colleague these are all important people in your lives, you know.
  

  Mainly friends and schoolmates.
• mancha

  11 Jul 07, 21:00

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Mainly friends and schoolmates.

  Its reasonable not to want friends and schoolmates know, for the time being.
  Especially schoolmates.
• lostlostlost

  11 Jul 07, 21:10

  keep it low first
  slowly the r/s will be found out by others
• AndrewPKYap

  11 Jul 07, 21:21

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Mainly friends and schoolmates.

  So what do you think are the reasons not to go on (or to go on) and we see if you have good reasons or bad reasons for thinking like that.
• smudgey

  11 Jul 07, 21:48

  I'll never stay with a guy who is ashame of our relationship
  
  my relationship have to be fit to let everyone know!
  
  
• zeny

  12 Jul 07, 08:57

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  What reason did the girl give?
• de_middle

  12 Jul 07, 08:57

  it depends really, understand each other well to know what's the reason for hiding.
• ironpeasant

  12 Jul 07, 16:59

  i rather keep a relationship discreet. Some ppl like to show off to others that they are in demand.
• mundanE

  12 Jul 07, 21:48

  Originally posted by lostlostlost:

  keep it low first
  slowly the r/s will be found out by others

  that's how i got caught last time
• zix1

  12 Jul 07, 23:17

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  Is there still a reason to go on together if the relationship between a guy and a girl is not allowed for other people to know?

  If i m u, i will feel kind of trapped, insecure. But I will sort out my thoughts then approach the other party to talk about it.
• ghirlhie

  17 Jul 07, 18:23

  if you two really love each other, there's no reason to stop it. and why don't you let others know about your relationship?
• rainee

  17 Jul 07, 18:38

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  If the relationship is not glorious enough to survive in light, then probably it's never meant to be there in the first place.
  
  All sub-rosa relationships often promise deception (Neptune-influenced BGR).
  
  What's your reason for such secrecy? (presuming that you are in such crisis)
  
  Cheers

  well-said!