Real confused.
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hi AA.
recently, about 2-3weeks ago. i tell a girl that i like her, but before the time that i actually tell her that i like her, i been secretly liking her for like about 3 weeks to 1 month already. when i tell her that i like her, she says she dunno how to talk to me regarding this matter, but what i want is to know that whether im given this chance or not. so i asked again and she says that shes willing to give it a try.
after i confess to her, it was like all well during the first week, we are talking alot and stuffs.but after the 1st week. she kept "ignoring" me. whenever i sms her, she take quite awhile to actually reply and as time goes by, the replies are getting shorter and longer, sometimes she didnt even reply. same for msn, she give short replies compare to the past, and takes sometime to reply.
sometimes i think that shes just busy, shes in jc and she did quite badly for her exam so she gotta study hard. but thinking in the other way. i just think that she just cant be bothered with me. but if she really dont like me, she should just reject me from the start and not actually giving me hope by saying shes willing to try.
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How old are you ?
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17 this year.
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give her some spaceOriginally posted by Technomage:hi AA.
recently, about 2-3weeks ago. i tell a girl that i like her, but before the time that i actually tell her that i like her, i been secretly liking her for like about 3 weeks to 1 month already. when i tell her that i like her, she says she dunno how to talk to me regarding this matter, but what i want is to know that whether im given this chance or not. so i asked again and she says that shes willing to give it a try.
after i confess to her, it was like all well during the first week, we are talking alot and stuffs.but after the 1st week. she kept "ignoring" me. whenever i sms her, she take quite awhile to actually reply and as time goes by, the replies are getting shorter and longer, sometimes she didnt even reply. same for msn, she give short replies compare to the past, and takes sometime to reply.
sometimes i think that shes just busy, shes in jc and she did quite badly for her exam so she gotta study hard. but thinking in the other way. i just think that she just cant be bothered with me. but if she really dont like me, she should just reject me from the start and not actually giving me hope by saying shes willing to try.
i dont know what to do now. can anyone give me any suggestions? -
Poly ?Originally posted by Technomage:17 this year. -
best advice is to go asexualOriginally posted by Technomage:17 this year.
if not break up.
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no private O atmOriginally posted by dbowie:Poly ? -
give it up & please concentrate on ur Os......i suppose ur repeating right
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"Age, Family background and Education does not matter" These lines can be often seen in tv or movies.
Be realistic! If you really love her then work hard in your studies and try to catch up with her, this is Singapore we're first world country and sad to say we're also practical and realistic. We talk about cert & money before anything else.
Anyway if you want to give it a try, then give her some space. Perhaps is your woo-ing methods is scaring her away. Give her some time and don't be too impatient. -
Read my thread and u will get the answer:Originally posted by Technomage:hi AA.
recently, about 2-3weeks ago. i tell a girl that i like her, but before the time that i actually tell her that i like her, i been secretly liking her for like about 3 weeks to 1 month already. when i tell her that i like her, she says she dunno how to talk to me regarding this matter, but what i want is to know that whether im given this chance or not. so i asked again and she says that shes willing to give it a try.
after i confess to her, it was like all well during the first week, we are talking alot and stuffs.but after the 1st week. she kept "ignoring" me. whenever i sms her, she take quite awhile to actually reply and as time goes by, the replies are getting shorter and longer, sometimes she didnt even reply. same for msn, she give short replies compare to the past, and takes sometime to reply.
sometimes i think that shes just busy, shes in jc and she did quite badly for her exam so she gotta study hard. but thinking in the other way. i just think that she just cant be bothered with me. but if she really dont like me, she should just reject me from the start and not actually giving me hope by saying shes willing to try.
i dont know what to do now. can anyone give me any suggestions?
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=263716
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=266870 -
im not taking my Os this year, im slowly taking it. the private school im studying lets us study 2 years before taking Os again. so im taking my Os next year.
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Hmm.. seriously.. do you think the r/s can last even if you managed to win her heart?Originally posted by Technomage:im not taking my Os this year, im slowly taking it. the private school im studying lets us study 2 years before taking Os again. so im taking my Os next year.
After your O's, she's already in final year of her JC or waiting to go Uni. After your tertiary studies and NS, she's already out in the working society. Problems will sure surface soon once she finished her Uni, a long term r/s seems impossible. So why not study hard in the mean time and get yourself a good cert? -
i dunno man. i jus wanna walk 1 step, count 1 step. meanwhile i will study hard as well.Originally posted by ALW:Hmm.. seriously.. do you think the r/s can last even if you managed to win her heart?
After your O's, she's already in final year of her JC or waiting to go Uni. After your tertiary studies and NS, she's already out in the working society. Problems will sure surface soon once she finished her Uni, a long term r/s seems impossible. So why not study hard in the mean time and get yourself a good cert? -
I think she gave it a "try" and decide that it will not work with you.... just too bad... try another girl bah...Originally posted by Technomage:i dunno man. i jus wanna walk 1 step, count 1 step. meanwhile i will study hard as well. -
love is stupid..
i hate love..
no gerl ever like me
admire me
i cannot say im ugly
because u muz think good of yourself
i think i have to wait till old den get married(50-70)
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ya lor ya lor SG here mean no cert no future. imagine u only O lvl graduate after NS while ur gf is U graduate and oredi finding job. there is so much huge different btw u 2. unless u r one of those lucky guy who open shop and manage to earn millions of dollar. ur gf friend will also gossip askin y ur gf choose to be wif u when there are better guys in her JC.
so i oso suggest mean time u study 1st, love can stand aside since she oso like avoidin u nw. silence break is much better. try to find gal tat u like in de same sch as u if possible. -
In all honesty, I think she's just not that interested in you right now, but doesn't want to be the "bad guy" who tells it to you. Both of you are very young, and at an age where most would still be experimenting with the whole BGR thing. I suggest you don't take it to heart, try to focus on excelling in your studies and hobbies.. a good popular male student would have no shortage of female attention.. put it this way - when many other girls are interested in you and speak well of you, you'll appear that much more attractive and interesting in her eyes, too.
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Yeah, spinsugar is right. Dude buck up on your studies first.Originally posted by spinsugar:In all honesty, I think she's just not that interested in you right now, but doesn't want to be the "bad guy" who tells it to you. Both of you are very young, and at an age where most would still be experimenting with the whole BGR thing. I suggest you don't take it to heart, try to focus on excelling in your studies and hobbies.. a good popular male student would have no shortage of female attention.. put it this way - when many other girls are interested in you and speak well of you, you'll appear that much more attractive and interesting in her eyes, too. -
back off for a bit... see if she contacts u...Originally posted by Technomage:hi AA.
recently, about 2-3weeks ago. i tell a girl that i like her, but before the time that i actually tell her that i like her, i been secretly liking her for like about 3 weeks to 1 month already. when i tell her that i like her, she says she dunno how to talk to me regarding this matter, but what i want is to know that whether im given this chance or not. so i asked again and she says that shes willing to give it a try.
after i confess to her, it was like all well during the first week, we are talking alot and stuffs.but after the 1st week. she kept "ignoring" me. whenever i sms her, she take quite awhile to actually reply and as time goes by, the replies are getting shorter and longer, sometimes she didnt even reply. same for msn, she give short replies compare to the past, and takes sometime to reply.
sometimes i think that shes just busy, shes in jc and she did quite badly for her exam so she gotta study hard. but thinking in the other way. i just think that she just cant be bothered with me. but if she really dont like me, she should just reject me from the start and not actually giving me hope by saying shes willing to try.
i dont know what to do now. can anyone give me any suggestions?
but chances are that she's not interested