For her good problem
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Lets say you have a stubborn girlfriend.
Sometimes she will do things that is against her welfare , like skip lunch.Other things also la..like see her home etc etc etc
When you offered to buy meals for her she will stubborn say dun wan.
but you know that is for her own good. will you be stubborn too and buy or give in? -
buy.
im a da nan ren.
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how is 'seeing her home' not good for her welfare?Originally posted by tek_koh:Other things also la..like see her home etc etc etc -
that means she is not interested in u.Originally posted by tek_koh:Lets say you have a stubborn girlfriend.
Sometimes she will do things that is against her welfare , like skip lunch.Other things also la..like see her home etc etc etc
When you offered to buy meals for her she will stubborn say dun wan.
but you know that is for her own good. will you be stubborn too and buy or give in?
She rather skip lunch then to face u. -
she say dun wan to mah fan me wad...but i really dun mind leh
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actually quite unlikely GF will turn you down....somethings not right here i think
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as her if there's something wrong
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There's this movie "Diary of a Tired Black Man". Very good for BGR tips.
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she just wants her own life i guess. dont want bf to affect her daily life so much
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shes a nu qiang ren
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juz buy and bring it there, she dun1 u makan
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then u have to coax her.
nv ren shi xu yao hong de.
last time i sick.. gastric flu.. still insisted going to school..
my bf then.. he smsed me "tell u see doc u dun listen"
at that moment i tot he angry leh.. and i know he was really worried.. so i immediately replied 'ok ok darling... i'll go see doc"
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fwah. my husband tell me that I sure flare up oneOriginally posted by browniebaobao:then u have to coax her.
nv ren shi xu yao hong de.
last time i sick.. gastric flu.. still insisted going to school..
my bf then.. he smsed me "tell u see doc u dun listen"
at that moment i tot he angry leh.. so i immediately replied 'ok ok darling... i'll go see doc"
NB sick liao bobian need to go work cos got something need to get done
still kenna suan.
come back home sure kenna left right centre
me neh, is eat soft dont eat hard. I also dont like guys to make me feel like they sacrifice a lot for me. So if send me home need to ASK me like "i send u home ok?" or "i buy food for u okaay?" then i sure will say NO.
But if send me home as matter of course "come, let's go home" then I will be impressed.
if come tt time buy my favourite food, I also sure happy one.
hai.. but sometimes too happy buy food too much also not good lah. -pat tummy- burp! -
haha..Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:fwah. my husband tell me that I sure flare up one
NB sick liao bobian need to go work cos got something need to get done
still kenna suan.
come back home sure kenna left right centre
me neh, is eat soft dont eat hard. I also dont like guys to make me feel like they sacrifice a lot for me. So if send me home need to ASK me like "i send u home ok?" or "i buy food for u okaay?" then i sure will say NO.
But if send me home as matter of course "come, let's go home" then I will be impressed. if come tt time buy my favourite food, I also sure happy one.
hai.. but sometimes too happy buy food too much also not good lah. -pat tummy- burp!
im the xiao nv ren type.. and im v soft hearted in front of someone i love.
im same as u.. if bf ask me whether he can send me home, i'll say NO most of the times.. bcos i dun want to tire him out.. i can walk home myself, so that he can get an early rest. If he wants to bring me to a nice restaurant and enjoy a good meal, i'll say no.. coz dun want him to spend money on me.
sometimes i think im beyond hope.. treat them so good for wat? Break up le, they dun even look me up or think of me and the things i did. haiz. -
yalor tt is why i think treat men cannot treat too goodOriginally posted by browniebaobao:haha..
im the xiao nv ren type.. and im v soft hearted in front of someone i love.
im same as u.. if bf ask me whether he can send me home, i'll say NO most of the times.. bcos i dun want to tire him out.. i can walk home myself, so that he can get an early rest. If he wants to bring me to a nice restaurant and enjoy a good meal, i'll say no.. coz dun want him to spend money on me.
sometimes i think im beyond hope.. treat them so good for wat? Break up le, they dun even look me up or think of me and the things i did. haiz.
must treat them good when they don't expect it
everytime treat them good only will be taken for granted one
and then they try harder to please u *heh heh heh*
anyway it is not effective if 'reward' indiscriminately if
no. 1, reward is not what recipient desires
no. 2, it is too easy to get rewarded then no meaning in the 'reward' -
yalor.. i learned it the hard way..Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:yalor tt is why i think treat men cannot treat too good
must treat them good when they don't expect it
everytime treat them good only will be taken for granted one
and then they try harder to please u *heh heh heh*
anyway it is not effective if 'reward' indiscriminately if
no. 1, reward is not what recipient desires
no. 2, it is too easy to get rewarded then no meaning in the 'reward'
and now got no chance to put what i learned into practice. -
what if she is the da nu ren im the xiao nan ren
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ShrodingersCat & browniebaobao
are really difficult to please.... haiz... -
then u must be really love her a lot.. if not, cannot last long de.Originally posted by tek_koh:what if she is the da nu ren im the xiao nan ren -
wat makes u say that?Originally posted by Uncertain:ShrodingersCat & browniebaobao
are really difficult to please.... haiz...
like wat FI mentioned... girls pay for their own, guys de ego cannot take it.. girls dun wana pay, guys think girls are sponging on them.
guys are the ones who are really difficult to please. -
For her welfare or your own ego? Why can't you let her live her own life and get a life yourself?Originally posted by tek_koh:Lets say you have a stubborn girlfriend.
Sometimes she will do things that is against her welfare , like skip lunch.Other things also la..like see her home etc etc etc
When you offered to buy meals for her she will stubborn say dun wan.
but you know that is for her own good. will you be stubborn too and buy or give in? -
Most guys got ego, i didn't say i don't have but as far as i can afford, i will pay for everything whenever i date a girl out... this is being gentleman. If i cannot afford then go dutch lor cannot be helped... But the girls the FI refers to are those who INSIST guy to pay for everything whenever we guy date them out, and that's y guy think the girl is sponging on them.Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat makes u say that?
like wat FI mentioned... girls pay for their own, guys de ego cannot take it.. girls dun wana pay, guys think girls are sponging on them.
guys are the ones who are really difficult to please. -
if i live my own she will be '' in a mess'' sick la...carry lots of heavy stuff which will hurt her back.. gastric...etc etcOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:For her welfare or your own ego? Why can't you let her live her own life and get a life yourself?
im sure you dun wan yr loved one to be like that right? -
if I do this to my gf, she will sms:Originally posted by browniebaobao:then u have to coax her.
nv ren shi xu yao hong de.
last time i sick.. gastric flu.. still insisted going to school..
my bf then.. he smsed me "tell u see doc u dun listen"
at that moment i tot he angry leh.. and i know he was really worried.. so i immediately replied 'ok ok darling... i'll go see doc"
"I sick and u still blame me" -
i dun think paying for everything = being gentleman leh.Originally posted by Uncertain:Most guys got ego, i didn't say i don't have but as far as i can afford, i will pay for everything whenever i date a girl out... this is being gentleman. If i cannot afford then go dutch lor cannot be helped... But the girls the FI refers to are those who INSIST guy to pay for everything whenever we guy date them out, and that's y guy think the girl is sponging on them.
if the girl dun like u, u everytime pay also means nothing to her.. juz that she always get free meals.
Gentleman? Fake gentleman? or juz plain stupid?