involve with someone replied by playersINC @ Wed, 25 Jul 2007 11:15:41 +0800

playersINC — Wed, 25 Jul 2007 11:15:41 +0800

hmmmm.... As how are the nationality are formed so are the different groups there are today, the lesbians, the gays , the butches, the swingers, the chiongster, the emos, and so forth........

Guy you have stepped into the players reign, she is definitely not your type or group. Careful where you walk or u will burn in fire! ..... We do not hurt intentionally, you have been warned.

She did the players way to tell you about her status and views. Her door is opened and you agree to venture in. Her door is open and you may at anytime leave. ......

involve with someone replied by sillyme @ Tue, 24 Jul 2007 15:10:54 +0800

sillyme — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 15:10:54 +0800

So now that you know that you were wrong to start with AA, what should you do?

Nothing will happen if you don't do anything.

Go and do what is right.

involve with someone replied by BadzMaro @ Tue, 24 Jul 2007 14:52:45 +0800

BadzMaro — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 14:52:45 +0800

*watches as T.S digs himself a deeper hole...*

And do u even know the real meaning of having a mistress ?

Anyways we are only human. We are weak. Easily seduced by the pleasures of the flesh.

At least you have a conscience and trying to find some way out or perhaps trying to have the best of both worlds , having both but u know inevitably the longer it is sustained , the deeper it goes the harder u gonna climb out and deeper the sh|t its gonna be for you. So yeah.

Hope ur *unf unf* buddy is clean. U know condoms dont protect u from herpes right ? he he... not necessary at the private parts o!

involve with someone replied by caleb_chiang @ Tue, 24 Jul 2007 14:29:20 +0800

caleb_chiang — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 14:29:20 +0800

Break with both…. cause you’re just a bas**rd that do not deserve any of them.

involve with someone replied by ordinaryguy32 @ Tue, 24 Jul 2007 13:34:47 +0800

ordinaryguy32 — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 13:34:47 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

I hope you can become a better person from this experience...

There is a reason why both of u are together in the first place.

And make it up to your gf, if she still decides to stay with you, after you have confessed to her.

There is a high chance she will continue to stay with you, if u have genuinely changed for the better.

Good luck!

involve with someone replied by Ah-BarD @ Tue, 24 Jul 2007 08:26:43 +0800

Ah-BarD — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 08:26:43 +0800

shes more or less ur s3x partner or prolly 1 of her flings…dun take it too seriously…cherish ur gf.

involve with someone replied by zeny @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:48:06 +0800

zeny — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:48:06 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

You love your gf of 2 years?
You treat her well but she orders you around?
Does your gf gives you sex or are you bored with your gf?

AA can handle the it well cos she knows in her heart she loves someone else.
She does not mind having sex with you cos you are not important to her. You are just like the other guys she had slept before. Are you sure she is STD or AIDS free? She is willing to risk it all but are you ? My advice is to stop going out with AA first and go for health check.

Imagine you got STD or AIDS and pass it to your gf who loves you so much and does not sleep around. Do you think is fair to her?

I do not care whether you admit is your fault or not. The most important is your action that counts. What the point of craping so much and you still go out with AA?

Time will come when your gf plays behind your back.
Are you sure she will not do it ?
You can sleep around and she cannot?
Maybe you are the dumb one not her.

Imagine you day your gf comes to you, telling you to go doctor for a checkup cos she finally admitted she got STD or AIDS cos she slept around behind your back. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?

I know your type just only know how to crap but does nothing and let life goes on. Just feel sad to call you a real man cos you are not even one.

involve with someone replied by soul_rage @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:40:51 +0800

soul_rage — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:40:51 +0800

Originally posted by Uncertain:

Knowing ur mistake and corrects it early is a virtue...
Since u have done something wrong, it is at best do something that can redeem ur past mistake... first go tell ur gf that u have an affair with AA then apologise to her for ur selfishness and lust... ACCEPT UR VERDICT AFTER THAT

Leave AA as well, u still want to be with a lady who can have causal sex with anyone? Wake up ur idea, leapord cannot change its spot... even if u two are together, she will still behave the same... have causal sex..

If ur girl accept ur misdoing and reaccept u again, gd luck... be a better guy to her and be prepared for her to use this as an excuse to kick u hard in the ass if u misbehave or ill-treat her in the future...

It's ur life... the choice is urs

I seriously suspect this person will continue to 2-time his galfren

his pangs of guilt are just temporary nothing more, based on his postings which are very ego-centric.

I think he feels better being scolded, but I doubt he will change.

involve with someone replied by Sakuraflower @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:15:51 +0800

Sakuraflower — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:15:51 +0800

oh no... u have sex with her!!!

hm.... i know u r a guy but she is only 20 yrs old.

hm...u bettr stop doing the things that u have been doing.

involve with someone replied by Uncertain @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:13:35 +0800

Uncertain — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:13:35 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

Knowing ur mistake and corrects it early is a virtue...
Since u have done something wrong, it is at best do something that can redeem ur past mistake... first go tell ur gf that u have an affair with AA then apologise to her for ur selfishness and lust... ACCEPT UR VERDICT AFTER THAT

Leave AA as well, u still want to be with a lady who can have causal sex with anyone? Wake up ur idea, leapord cannot change its spot... even if u two are together, she will still behave the same... have causal sex..

If ur girl accept ur misdoing and reaccept u again, gd luck... be a better guy to her and be prepared for her to use this as an excuse to kick u hard in the ass if u misbehave or ill-treat her in the future...

It's ur life... the choice is urs

involve with someone replied by browniebaobao @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:01:16 +0800

browniebaobao — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 23:01:16 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

i suspect i know u wor.

involve with someone replied by browniebaobao @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:52:08 +0800

browniebaobao — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:52:08 +0800

i tot men are v rational wan?

can distinguish between sex and love?

involve with someone replied by Darkness_hacker99 @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:07:32 +0800

Darkness_hacker99 — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:07:32 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

I would be more appreciated if you next time don't discuss so much about religious this here.

I am quite sensitive.

involve with someone replied by soul_rage @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:01:20 +0800

soul_rage — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:01:20 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

don't need to thank anyone here. I most certainly wouldn't want to be associated with you, a shame for the male population.

you better self-reflect on yourself.

if you insist on coming here and pretending that you are feeling bad, but then still continue going down the road of deceiving ur gf and continuing to go out with AA, I hope you get your just retribution.

involve with someone replied by crazy monkey @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:53:06 +0800

crazy monkey — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:53:06 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

Hi.. Will appreciate forumers' comments.. I am 25 yrs, attach with my girlfriend for 2 yrs.. Recently, i got involve with a 20yrs lady.. She is a student.. Lets call her AA.. The lust and excitement got AA and me involve in a relationship.. We meet, hv sex, chat, etc.. She is very open-minded to our "relationship".. Both of us accepted the non-committment aspect of our "relationship".. However, I am the one who is terribly troubled now.. I have gradually become emotionally attach to her.. I do not feel good abt her mentioning her guy frds, the dates she had, etc.. Remember, it was me who does not want emotional attachment in the very beginning, and I am the one falling into it now.. AA is handling our relatinoship much better than me.. I know I will never have the heart to break off with my gf for AA.. Yet, this "feelings of the heart" with AA is making me haywire.. Guess it is indeed true with the advice of, "never get involve with having a mistress".. I thanks you in advance for any serious comments and advices...

hope you get dump by AA and your gf.

involve with someone replied by love kitty @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:50:22 +0800

love kitty — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:50:22 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

I love my gf and I treat her the best that I can.. I know if I end it with my gf over her, I will nv be the same.. I will be forever guilty, like Judas.. Nevertheless, I admit I am a Basta## to get involve with AA.. The lust makes me sin..

so getting involve with another gal is giving ur best to ur gf? ur gf is so ka lian pls break up with her u don deserve her pls don hurt her like tt. JERK!

involve with someone replied by haywir @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:45:12 +0800

haywir — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 20:45:12 +0800

Dear forumers.. I have spend very good time reading all your comments.. All your advices, comments, I really appreciate it and read it through not once but countless.. I admit I am a basta### and i apologise if my situation leaves a bad taste on any of you.. One day, heaven will give me the sentence I deserve, no doubt.. I will accept it because I deserve it.. Nevertheless, I really thanks everyone of you from the bottom of my heart.. It is good to hear all your comments.. I appreciate your time to share your views..

involve with someone replied by RonDaGuy @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 16:25:39 +0800

RonDaGuy — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 16:25:39 +0800

TS, your girlfriend had just read this topic.
Good luck.

involve with someone replied by nutpinko @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:18:36 +0800

nutpinko — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:18:36 +0800

Originally posted by soul_rage:

Thanks, true remorse, there is still redemption. Face the music, accept the punishment, and learn from it.

hypocritical behavior? If his gf is my sister, I would personally beat him up.

"If you can't control your urges, then you aren't a human being, becoz that's what differentiates us from animals, ie self-control"

involve with someone replied by nutpinko @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:14:27 +0800

nutpinko — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:14:27 +0800

the whole entire thread evolves around AA and not ur gf.
u are sooo sick u know?
i seriously hope that your gf is reading this.

*note: what comes around, goes around.

involve with someone replied by soul_rage @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:10:51 +0800

soul_rage — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:10:51 +0800

Originally posted by ordinaryguy32:

Thanks, I see and accept your point.

Thanks, true remorse, there is still redemption. Face the music, accept the punishment, and learn from it.

hypocritical behavior? If his gf is my sister, I would personally beat him up.

"If you can't control your urges, then you aren't a human being, becoz that's what differentiates us from animals, ie self-control"

involve with someone replied by ordinaryguy32 @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:09:29 +0800

ordinaryguy32 — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:09:29 +0800

Originally posted by soul_rage:

I have a colleague that was two-timed by a guy.
He kept his other relationship in the dark from her for many years
She only found out about his other relationship the day he was going to get married to the other gal.

He still had the cheek to tell her that he is basically still a nice guy, coz he let her know before he was getting married.

Ya, I suppose she should feel grateful that he let her know and not continue to two-time her after his marriage?

Crap.

That's truly awful...

involve with someone replied by ordinaryguy32 @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:03:15 +0800

ordinaryguy32 — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:03:15 +0800

Originally posted by soul_rage:

This is the ONE BIG nail on the head. The fact is, I can summarize his attitude as follows:
- He hesitates to break from his gf coz AA may not accept him as her bf
- Then he talks about feeling guilty, and not once about his gf's feelings
- Its all about his image. He does not want to look like a basta## in this society.

Basically, remorseful??? I seriously doubt so, given the self-centred postings made.

One big a**hole? Yes definitely.

Thanks, I see and accept your point.

involve with someone replied by ordinaryguy32 @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:00:59 +0800

ordinaryguy32 — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:00:59 +0800

Originally posted by haywir:

I put both hands up and agree it is morally incorrect of me, to get involve with AA.. It hurts my conscious and it goes against my own standing on how a person should behave morally.. I am going haywire myself.. I hate the fact that I handled it so badly, compared to AA.. I got attach emotionally and she does not.. AA is handling our "relationship" much better than me..

TS, somehow it sounds like you're feeling like a sore loser for "hating the fact that AA is handling better than you".

It may sound like you don't want to end this relationship with AA on a losing note. Or rather, you may wish that she would be at least as tearful as you if you end this relationship.

Your ego is sorely hurt that AA doesn't need you as much as your gf does, or she can discard you like a piece of junk.

I think the first step to redemption is that you need to start from basics, e.g. build your ego up all over again with a different foundation (on true love perhaps, but not on the fact that you can play with girls better than they can with you), while perhaps accepting that you are not as cool a guy as you might think you are.

I hope that isn't too harsh for you to read.

involve with someone replied by soul_rage @ Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:00:34 +0800

soul_rage — Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:00:34 +0800

I have a colleague that was two-timed by a guy.
He kept his other relationship in the dark from her for many years
She only found out about his other relationship the day he was going to get married to the other gal.

He still had the cheek to tell her that he is basically still a nice guy, coz he let her know before he was getting married.

Ya, I suppose she should feel grateful that he let her know and not continue to two-time her after his marriage?

Crap.

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