Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

Do you feel that your workaholic tendencies are getting in the way of letting you enjoy life?

Originally posted by fudgester:

Do you feel that your workaholic tendencies are getting in the way of letting you enjoy life?

Not really. i love my job.

but sometimes i do feel like sleeping whole day. hahah.

whenever im not working on weekend, i would swim in the pool the whole day. thats life!!!

i'd love to love my job.

workaholic no money !!
mai kay siao..

Have you taken some time off and see if there is anything wrong wif the time management? If there are too many things and too little time after a serious look, have a talk wif ur superiors.

Having to work ur a55 off on a weekend frequently will slowly erode ur time wif frens and inadvertably, affects ur morale and this instances... cuts ur opportunity to open ur social circle too.

what job do you have?

Originally posted by Båseline:

Have you taken some time off and see if there is anything wrong wif the time management? If there are too many things and too little time after a serious look, have a talk wif ur superiors.

Having to work ur a55 off on a weekend frequently will slowly erode ur time wif frens and inadvertably, affects ur morale and this instances... cuts ur opportunity to open ur social circle too.

no la. i work on weekends is "for fun" one. coz if not going out wif frens/family on weekends, stay at home nua also waste time also...at home surf net also waste time...in the end i find myself doing work. LOL..

no. i dont club also....

oh.. a web based job.

How about meeting girls online?

Originally posted by array0:

no la. i work on weekends is "for fun" one. coz if not going out wif frens/family on weekends, stay at home nua also waste time also...at home surf net also waste time...in the end i find myself doing work. LOL..

no. i dont club also....

hah. Extend ur social circle via ur fren's sister's frens and so forth. One thing may leads to another.

Join some of the outings orgnised by the ppl here if u dun mind. There's regulars and newbies like u alike.. so dun worry.

Originally posted by DC+:

what job do you have?

road sweeper

lol... must get this straight...

"u r not happy due to u r a workaholic because u r single "

OR

"u r not happy due to u r single because u r a workaholic "

lol

Cant seem to noe yr problem...

socialise with your colleague lor...

Well, time for you to find a lifetime partner as well.

Just be happy!
Thats the real aim of everyone!

you got your equation wrong,

you are still single because you are an workaholic.

Originally posted by array0:

Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

you are a workaholic but have no money???

Originally posted by array0:

Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

Increase yr chances and increase yr social circle!

Telling yrself no look and money is just an excuse.

What prevents u from getting a partner is just yr plain laziness to work on this area. As some say,u may join a forum outing. A activity club that can pick up new skill or something to help increse yr social circle!

Originally posted by array0:

Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

You sweep the roads when you're lonely? I sure hope you live around me.

Get a life, dude.

Originally posted by array0:

Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

Nope. You're still single because you're a workaholic. Wait a second, it doesn't make sense. You're single and you're workaholic by choice. Now that sounds more like it.

Originally posted by array0:

road sweeper

u are a blangadash who owns internet right....

You are experiencing the Ostrich syndrome - hiding in the office and working your life away on the excuse that you have no girlfriend, no looks etc. You certainly do realise that you have an area lacking in your life - your personal/social life. It is understandable if you slog hard to acquire a foothold in your career but which does not seem to be your case.

The first step to improvement is to acknowledge your inadequacy. You seem to have done this already by identifying your social need. Now just get out from your own little shell and socialise.... see the world man. What have you to lose since you haven't got it in the first place?

There are plenty of SgF outings from time to time. Go join in and polish your social skills. Then there's SDU/SDS too.

It's your life. Only you control how great it is..... Stop pitying yourself! Go join a club. There are lots around if you care to search. Good luck!

Originally posted by array0:

Hi.

Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.

Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......

Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money

hahahaa

I have few friends, no looks, no money but have rather pretty girlfriends... It's character, dude

And btw, workaholic and no money is not an equation to start with....

as long as ur enjoying what ur doing, that's most important.....as least there is a purpose for you in life.

I would very much like to bury myself in work too & take my mind off the emptiness in life but my current job doesn't require me to do so.

Perhaps i should find other things to do now

Originally posted by de_middle:

as long as ur enjoying what ur doing, that's most important.....as least there is a purpose for you in life.

I would very much like to bury myself in work too & take my mind off the emptiness in life but my current job doesn't require me to do so.

Perhaps i should find other things to do now

I think the most rational thing for u to do now is to get to know more girl, de_middle da ge... I seriously doubts that u would like to stay single forever... As u said, u like to resign it to fate but i will like to tell u that we are in control of our fate... let's not stay passive, go out meet more girls and eventually meet our destined one... I am still young, so i can still play around, but u are not de_middle... Remember the first piece of advice u give me? --> post a new thread when i have a gf? Now i will like u to PM me when u get one, ok? I am no longer whining but just heartaching, will get over soon though... TIME is catching up, so go fight for ur future

i know ppl who are workaholics because they are attached...

no joke...

me oso workacholic... soon to be single... no money ... no looks...

how??