http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 en-US 60 <p>TS. If you like your current lifestyle now then we can’t say much. Many pple have different opinions on “how to be happy” or “happiness” thus we cant judge whether you are doing it well or not. If you are happy with it, den go on. Be happy, no one can stop you from being happy. =D</p> Sun, 29 Jul 2007 01:22:28 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6907995 akinos http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>Some advice given is really easier said than done. For example, contact ex-school friends to meet up again after leaving school for a relatively long period of time, how many will really be interested to get in touch again?</p> Sun, 29 Jul 2007 00:11:27 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6907545 Ms Poh http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Uncertain:</div> <div class="quote_body">I thought u think hahaha in posting is weird? then y are u "hahahaha"ing... <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /></div> </blockquote> <p>If you can't beat them, join them. That is what i am doing hahaha! <img title="Embarassed" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_redface.gif" alt= "Embarassed" /></p> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 13:17:09 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6905239 angel7030 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by array0:</div> <div class="quote_body">Hi.<br /> <br /> Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.<br /> <br /> Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......<br /> <br /> Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money<br /> <br /> hahahaa</div> </blockquote> <p>if you feel lonely.. than try to make more frens..<br /> <br /> contact your colleagues, ex- pri and sec and poly/jc frens to meet up once in a while la..<br /> <br /> being single and just because of the single status u choose to be a workaholic is a excuse and you are avoiding something...perhaps due to low confidence like you said you have no looks?<br /> <br /> if you wanna get over this obstacle of remaining single, than face the problem head on, and learn to solve it..<br /> <br /> I myself is also a workaholic, but i still get to mix around with people, although not often but i will still get to know more people thanks to the nature of my employement..<br /> <br /> if you don't want to be single, than arrange some time out, catch up with your frens.. a lot of BGR started from frens as well..so if you have no frens = no gf..<br /> <br /> of course when u have more confidence of yourself..than you will be able to pick up a gf anywhere and everywhere...that's a skill which i'm still learning, partly due to the requirements to meet before able use this method..<br /> <br /> Go out more often..make more frens..it will definately help you.</p> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 12:47:15 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6905119 the_fallen http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>When i single , i also work ma.. work like hell. But i also play like there is no tomorrow. <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /><br /> <br /> I got gf also work like hell.. it just means less time on other things like do to make time for gf. so all the less adds up to more time. <img title="Razz" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_razz.gif" alt="Razz" /> say..time for gf. LOL!</p> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 10:58:54 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6904745 BadzMaro http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>frankly, you're a workaholic because you WANT to be one..<br /> <br /> even if you have a girlfriend, family or whatever, you'll still be working..<br /> <br /> it's something you are because you chose to be.. you could do anything else.. don't use your single status as an excuse..<br /> <br /></p> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 10:27:17 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6904679 the Bear http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by array0:</div> <div class="quote_body">Hi.<br /> <br /> Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.<br /> <br /> Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......<br /> <br /> Sometimse damn sad la. <span style="color: red;">No galfren / no looks / no money</span><br /> <br /> hahahaa</div> </blockquote> <p>hahahha, I say its No Joke!</p> Sat, 28 Jul 2007 10:23:36 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6904672 TheGoodEarth http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>Hi TS.<br /> <br /> Think you're still single because you're a workholic</p> Fri, 27 Jul 2007 12:24:37 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6899768 airgrinder http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>Well well, my two cents' worth is that you shouldn't let work take over your life. If you let that happen, you would be losing the meaning of life, which is to spend times with family and friends and doing all the things they and you like.<br /> <br /> How many horror stories have we heard of 12 to 14 hour workdays and get home only to see their children sleeping (and maybe the wife or husband too)?<br /> <br /> There's no point earning tons of money and having no time to spend it all. You will be carrying it to the grave in a nice gold coffin... but what's the use?<br /> <br /> My friend, you got to get out there, know more people through other people and soon you can accomplish your "mission". All the best!</p> Fri, 27 Jul 2007 11:33:27 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6899619 krautfuher http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Båseline:</div> <div class="quote_body">Have you taken some time off and see if there is anything wrong wif the time management? If there are too many things and too little time after a serious look, have a talk wif ur superiors.<br /> <br /> Having to work ur a55 off on a weekend frequently will slowly erode ur time wif frens and inadvertably, affects ur morale and this instances... cuts ur opportunity to open ur social circle too.</div> </blockquote> <p><span style="color: indigo;">yalor..<br /> <br /> when it's time to rest, juz rest!</span></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:50:33 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6883325 browniebaobao http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p><span style="color: indigo;">im single but im not a workaholic..<br /> <br /> wat for work my life away?<br /> <br /> there's more things in life that i wana cherish..</span></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:48:57 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6883316 browniebaobao http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>i face the same situation. i slog myself out to block myself from the inadequacy of having no gf. but the sloggin hard goes by other means. I go to the gym, and research interesting topics.<br /> <br /> by doing something like increasing knowledge or physique would do u good for future social meetings.<br /> <br /> i tried to slog myself but end up doing all the work too fast, leaving me free, time which i used to idle away, but now, i think we should find something to interest us time and time again<br /> <br /> <img title="Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 22:23:27 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6883122 sEphIrOth http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>my name is bill and i'm an alcoholic.<br /> wait..this is workaholic !</p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:07:21 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6881268 dbowie http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by angel7030:</div> <div class="quote_body">You know boy, the problem with you is that you dun like to go out and meet peoples, so call non sociable and also for a start, please stop making those <span style= "color: red;">hahaha</span> in your posting, it is really weird.<br /> <br /> The world has no limit, it all up to you to seek yr own happiness, if not, marry yourself to work. <span style= "color: red;">hahhahha</span></div> </blockquote> <p>I thought u think hahaha in posting is weird? then y are u "hahahaha"ing... <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 17:02:38 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6881258 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>You know boy, the problem with you is that you dun like to go out and meet peoples, so call non sociable and also for a start, please stop making those hahaha in your posting, it is really weird.<br /> <br /> The world has no limit, it all up to you to seek yr own happiness, if not, marry yourself to work. hahhahha</p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 16:37:42 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6881122 angel7030 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Uncertain:</div> <div class="quote_body">Gd to hear that u are still scouting ---&gt; meaning u are still hopeful about going into a marriage... Gd luck and hope u get a girl faster than me.... haha<br /> <br /> Heartache cannot be helped one, should be getting over soon still emo at times though... but as promised when i get attached i will PM u... likewise this applies for u, k? <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /></div> </blockquote> <p>no problem........ <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt= "Very Happy" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:57:51 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880923 de_middle http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by de_middle:</div> <div class="quote_body">hey thks bro <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /> hmmm.....must go scouting <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="Very Happy" /> actually i'm quite over the hill already but i'm gonna keep my chin up <img title="Wink" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /><br /> <br /> aiya, dun heartache liao............hope you'll find a decent girl soon <img title="Smile" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" /></div> </blockquote> <p>Gd to hear that u are still scouting ---&gt; meaning u are still hopeful about going into a marriage... Gd luck and hope u get a girl faster than me.... haha<br /> <br /> Heartache cannot be helped one, should be getting over soon still emo at times though... but as promised when i get attached i will PM u... likewise this applies for u, k? <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 15:49:05 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880885 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Uncertain:</div> <div class="quote_body">I think the most rational thing for u to do now is to get to know more girl, de_middle da ge... I seriously doubts that u would like to stay single forever... As u said, u like to resign it to fate but i will like to tell u that we are in control of our fate... let's not stay passive, go out meet more girls and eventually meet our destined one... I am still young, so i can still play around, but u are not de_middle... Remember the first piece of advice u give me? --&gt; post a new thread when i have a gf? Now i will like u to PM me when u get one, ok? I am no longer whining but just heartaching, will get over soon though... TIME is catching up, so go fight for ur future <img title="Wink" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /> <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="Very Happy" /> <img title="Twisted Evil" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_twisted.gif" alt= "Twisted Evil" /></div> </blockquote> <p>hey thks bro <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /> hmmm.....must go scouting <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="Very Happy" /> actually i'm quite over the hill already but i'm gonna keep my chin up <img title="Wink" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /><br /> <br /> aiya, dun heartache liao............hope you'll find a decent girl soon <img title="Smile" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 14:59:01 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880648 de_middle http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>me oso workacholic... soon to be single... no money ... no looks...<br /> <br /> how?? <img title="Confused" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_confused.gif" alt="Confused" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 14:05:00 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880329 sunny6110 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>i know ppl who are workaholics because they are attached...<br /> <br /> no joke...<br /> <br /> <img title="Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 14:01:52 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880305 GHoST_18 http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by de_middle:</div> <div class="quote_body">as long as ur enjoying what ur doing, that's most important.....as least there is a purpose for you in life.<br /> <br /> I would very much like to bury myself in work too &amp; take my mind off the emptiness in life but my current job doesn't require me to do so.<br /> <br /> Perhaps i should find other things to do now <img title="Confused" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_confused.gif" alt= "Confused" /></div> </blockquote> <p>I think the most rational thing for u to do now is to get to know more girl, de_middle da ge... I seriously doubts that u would like to stay single forever... As u said, u like to resign it to fate but i will like to tell u that we are in control of our fate... let's not stay passive, go out meet more girls and eventually meet our destined one... I am still young, so i can still play around, but u are not de_middle... Remember the first piece of advice u give me? --&gt; post a new thread when i have a gf? Now i will like u to PM me when u get one, ok? I am no longer whining but just heartaching, will get over soon though... TIME is catching up, so go fight for ur future <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /> <img title= "Very Happy" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt= "Very Happy" /> <img title="Twisted Evil" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_twisted.gif" alt= "Twisted Evil" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 13:26:58 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880162 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>as long as ur enjoying what ur doing, that's most important.....as least there is a purpose for you in life.<br /> <br /> I would very much like to bury myself in work too &amp; take my mind off the emptiness in life but my current job doesn't require me to do so.<br /> <br /> Perhaps i should find other things to do now <img title="Confused" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_confused.gif" alt= "Confused" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 13:01:13 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6880082 de_middle http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by array0:</div> <div class="quote_body">Hi.<br /> <br /> Many ppl said that im workaholic. I even work on weekends sometimes because don't have galfren to go out with. If i dont have family commitments or frens outing, i would stay at home and do some work.<br /> <br /> Sometimes i do feel lonely...when that comes i will star to do work...hahah......<br /> <br /> Sometimse damn sad la. No galfren / no looks / no money<br /> <br /> hahahaa</div> </blockquote> <p>I have few friends, no looks, no money but have rather pretty girlfriends... It's character, dude <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt= "Very Happy" /><br /> <br /> And btw, workaholic and no money is not an equation to start with.... <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 08:05:39 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6879170 Delphian http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <p>You are experiencing the Ostrich syndrome - hiding in the office and working your life away on the excuse that you have no girlfriend, no looks etc. You certainly do realise that you have an area lacking in your life - your personal/social life. It is understandable if you slog hard to acquire a foothold in your career but which does not seem to be your case.<br /> <br /> The first step to improvement is to acknowledge your inadequacy. You seem to have done this already by identifying your social need. Now just get out from your own little shell and socialise.... see the world man. What have you to lose since you haven't got it in the first place? <img title="Mr. Green" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_mrgreen.gif" alt= "Mr. Green" /><br /> <br /> There are plenty of SgF outings from time to time. Go join in and polish your social skills. Then there's SDU/SDS too. <img title= "Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt= "Laughing" /><br /> <br /> It's your life. Only you control how great it is..... Stop pitying yourself! Go join a club. There are lots around if you care to search. Good luck! <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /><br /> <br /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 08:02:45 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6879167 <Precious> http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by array0:</div> <div class="quote_body">road sweeper <img title="Very Happy" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_biggrin.gif" alt= "Very Happy" /></div> </blockquote> <p>u are a blangadash who owns internet right.... <img title= "Laughing" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt= "Laughing" /> <img title="Laughing" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" /> <img title="Cool" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_cool.gif" alt="Cool" /></p> Mon, 23 Jul 2007 07:39:31 +0800 www.sgforums.com:12:269752:6879134 Uncertain http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/269752