Just started.. how to maintain and keep it going?
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hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz.. -
luv,Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz..
Isn't how much U show u can get..
but How much u Can Give..
iTz not abt Giving up But holding On..
Not abt How u say "I LOVE U"..
But how u show iTz TRUE... -
learn as u go along. if you break up, just take it as a learning experience.
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Heck care this girl... she dun appreciate u... who knows she outside got other men.. girls are like this.. u got preyed.. she source for better one...
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U both must be very young? If she really don out her heart into this r/s. It will really turn into a big problem. Btw,just one month already like that,how is this r/s going to go on?Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz..
Maybe u can find one good time ,sit down and have a good talk with her of what u think and find out what she thinks.... -
skinship....
i had a lack of that and we ended, juz like that -
try dun contact her for a while..see she will contact u ma..if nv means...she dun really mean abt this relationship..shes not serious towards u..
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try to think somethin.dun be a loser like me..JIAYOU!!
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Put down yr ego and yes..be less sticky
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its jz end of honeymoon period.... how u know her? u cant expect equal la... not hapi then go talk wif her... its a r/s after all...Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz.. -
just on ur sharingan la..n control her..simple
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ur constant sticking around shows insecurity & now ur getting tired...or should i say burned out simply becoz u feel she isn't reciprocrating.Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz..
at the rate ur going, trust me, u ain't gonna survive past 6 months. I may sound cruel but its true.
either you learn to seriously chill out a little or u ought to move on & look for someone who knows how to embrace ur kind of character.
don't be offended, i'm not saying ur wrong to behave this way but u just need a girl who needs such attention & as of now, this girl doesn't.
Correct me if i'm wrong
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To keep it going.Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz..
You need to make her feel " COMFORTABLE".
Pay attention to her needs.
NOT, give her attention by being in her face all the time.
Love her, not suffocate her.
Concern for her, not control her.
Care for her, not smother her.
You must be the person she feels at ease with.
Like a sanctuary, not a cemetery.
When you ignore her, you are doing the exact opposite of what you set out to achieve.
Do not test the bonds of love, for it is fragile even when love is at it's strongest.
Good luck. -
keep it natural between u two,do the normal phone calls,going out,maybe plan a getaway this year end...as u two just started,give urself time to understand her more and you will know what she wants in this r/s...Originally posted by Itachi:hi.. im currently attached wif a girl for like jus nearly 1mth. been going thru lots of problems already. really stressed up n painful sometimes. i've been sticking to her.. giving her alot of attention, care and concern. but i guess i've been too sticky.. till i feel tt she is starting to take me for granted.. she is now less sweet to me when we jus started. and i tink i need to give her more freedom n breathing space. so i try treating her less gd once in awhile, hoping tt she will appreciate me better. but all my attempt fail.. too soft hearted. haiz..
sometimes i just couldnt feel her love and appreciation. like i din receive as much as i gif. mayb it's jus the starting part, so we tend to expect more from each other. thru her experience... she dun1 us to put in 100% into the relationship. i duno ah.. sometimes i feel abit zhi zhuo duo qing lidat. stress myself.. den giving her stress oso when i tell her how i feel. now im worried abt how should i keep it going........ haiz.. -
For me to know & for you to find out..........
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i just fcuking agreedOriginally posted by thelesis:Heck care this girl... she dun appreciate u... who knows she outside got other men.. girls are like this.. u got preyed.. she source for better one... -
no need to be so direct oso mahOriginally posted by kiss_my (_i_):i just fcuking agreed -
just be who you are..along the years things will change, you will change, she will change. Most likely not together oso. At the end of the day, when you are intending to get married, the question will be whether she suits u rather than what u can do to keep her.
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you must be another underage kid, who has not grow enough pubic hairs, and still want to engage in a relationship
focus on your studies first lah, -
i noe u got alot of pubic hair. but im not underage.Originally posted by allentyb:
you must be another underage kid, who has not grow enough pubic hairs, and still want to engage in a relationship
focus on your studies first lah, -
*thumb up* vv trueOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:luv,
Isn't how much U show u can get..
but How much u Can Give..
iTz not abt Giving up But holding On..
Not abt How u say "I LOVE U"..
But how u show iTz TRUE... -
I was wondering how much pubic hair you have?Originally posted by allentyb:
you must be another underage kid, who has not grow enough pubic hairs, and still want to engage in a relationship
focus on your studies first lah, -
NPNT him !!!Originally posted by itaji:I was wondering how much pubic hair you have?
Anyway reply to TS.
""Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give -- which is everything." -
okie.. thanks everyone for ur replies.. no need to maintain liao.. she's gone.. back to her ex..
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see! no one understand woman..Originally posted by Itachi:okie.. thanks everyone for ur replies.. no need to maintain liao.. she's gone.. back to her ex..
nv3 ren2 dou1 shi4 shan4 bian4 de4