I will say all these are minor problems.Originally posted by lavastar:This problem is bothering me for a few months..hope to get some advice.
i am a jc1 student this year. now in a jc different from in the first three months(PAE).
In the first three months, me and my classmates did not kick off that well as majority of them like sports like soccer, tennis. Everyday after school they will go engage in sports games together. i have no interest in them as im not fit and not physically active. It was just hi and bye for majority of my classmates and they didnt kept in contact with me since then.
Now i have changed jc . things changed for the better as i could communicate well with my male classmates , but not for the opposite sex. They would talk to me only when they need help in their homework or for project work stuffs. Im not one whos crazy for special attention from girls but at least a hi will make my day. But some of them walk past me without initiating a hi or bye while im walking to or leaving from school. I felt so lonely. Im shy when comes to communicating with girls, but i have tried to open up by cracking some jokes when we meet in project work.. but they laugh over it and its back to square.
whenever my friends share with me about what they did in their class outings, i would get jealous. How i wish i could be like them. The only time i get to go out and have fun is with my secondary school classmates. I wanted to catch the latest Harry Potter movie but all of them watched with their present classes already. The thought of watching alone makes mi forget that thought. My friends said i should be happy since i passed most of my subjects.. but im not happy at all deep inside.. they dont know i feel lonely sometimes
Does appearance play a big part in this problem i have?
I have experience what you feel before and it takes quite some times for me to recover.Originally posted by lavastar:This problem is bothering me for a few months..hope to get some advice.
i am a jc1 student this year. now in a jc different from in the first three months(PAE).
In the first three months, me and my classmates did not kick off that well as majority of them like sports like soccer, tennis. Everyday after school they will go engage in sports games together. i have no interest in them as im not fit and not physically active. It was just hi and bye for majority of my classmates and they didnt kept in contact with me since then.
Now i have changed jc . things changed for the better as i could communicate well with my male classmates , but not for the opposite sex. They would talk to me only when they need help in their homework or for project work stuffs. Im not one whos crazy for special attention from girls but at least a hi will make my day. But some of them walk past me without initiating a hi or bye while im walking to or leaving from school. I felt so lonely. Im shy when comes to communicating with girls, but i have tried to open up by cracking some jokes when we meet in project work.. but they laugh over it and its back to square.
whenever my friends share with me about what they did in their class outings, i would get jealous. How i wish i could be like them. The only time i get to go out and have fun is with my secondary school classmates. I wanted to catch the latest Harry Potter movie but all of them watched with their present classes already. The thought of watching alone makes mi forget that thought. My friends said i should be happy since i passed most of my subjects.. but im not happy at all deep inside.. they dont know i feel lonely sometimes
Does appearance play a big part in this problem i have?
Why don't you smile and initiate the "Hi, you look so pretty today." first, instead of waiting for others to initiate. Once you break the ice, it would be easier for future conversations.Originally posted by lavastar:This problem is bothering me for a few months..hope to get some advice.
i am a jc1 student this year. now in a jc different from in the first three months(PAE).
In the first three months, me and my classmates did not kick off that well as majority of them like sports like soccer, tennis. Everyday after school they will go engage in sports games together. i have no interest in them as im not fit and not physically active. It was just hi and bye for majority of my classmates and they didnt kept in contact with me since then.
Now i have changed jc . things changed for the better as i could communicate well with my male classmates , but not for the opposite sex. They would talk to me only when they need help in their homework or for project work stuffs. Im not one whos crazy for special attention from girls but at least a hi will make my day. But some of them walk past me without initiating a hi or bye while im walking to or leaving from school. I felt so lonely. Im shy when comes to communicating with girls, but i have tried to open up by cracking some jokes when we meet in project work.. but they laugh over it and its back to square.
whenever my friends share with me about what they did in their class outings, i would get jealous. How i wish i could be like them. The only time i get to go out and have fun is with my secondary school classmates. I wanted to catch the latest Harry Potter movie but all of them watched with their present classes already. The thought of watching alone makes mi forget that thought. My friends said i should be happy since i passed most of my subjects.. but im not happy at all deep inside.. they dont know i feel lonely sometimes
Does appearance play a big part in this problem i have?
They didnt hi-bye to me i will have an impression of myself being a cold and anti-social person thats why they dont even bother toOriginally posted by mistyblue:you have guy friends. Its ok mah. Why do you expect the girls to say hi and bye to you. Then would you feel they hi-bye you alot and make use of you for homework.
To have friends is nice but to have a many false friends is a waste of time. Its important to have a couple of true friends. But seriously, if you feel the need to hi-bye, why don't you hi-bye these people. Perhaps they are just more shy... so you need to take the first step
y msut gals say hi to u? u cannot start? go read more books on interaction... now study is more impt...Originally posted by lavastar:This problem is bothering me for a few months..hope to get some advice.
i am a jc1 student this year. now in a jc different from in the first three months(PAE).
In the first three months, me and my classmates did not kick off that well as majority of them like sports like soccer, tennis. Everyday after school they will go engage in sports games together. i have no interest in them as im not fit and not physically active. It was just hi and bye for majority of my classmates and they didnt kept in contact with me since then.
Now i have changed jc . things changed for the better as i could communicate well with my male classmates , but not for the opposite sex. They would talk to me only when they need help in their homework or for project work stuffs. Im not one whos crazy for special attention from girls but at least a hi will make my day. But some of them walk past me without initiating a hi or bye while im walking to or leaving from school. I felt so lonely. Im shy when comes to communicating with girls, but i have tried to open up by cracking some jokes when we meet in project work.. but they laugh over it and its back to square.
whenever my friends share with me about what they did in their class outings, i would get jealous. How i wish i could be like them. The only time i get to go out and have fun is with my secondary school classmates. I wanted to catch the latest Harry Potter movie but all of them watched with their present classes already. The thought of watching alone makes mi forget that thought. My friends said i should be happy since i passed most of my subjects.. but im not happy at all deep inside.. they dont know i feel lonely sometimes
Does appearance play a big part in this problem i have?
if u follow what he say hi with the u look so pretty please tell me the respond u get.Originally posted by maurizio13:Why don't you smile and initiate the "Hi, you look so pretty today." first, instead of waiting for others to initiate. Once you break the ice, it would be easier for future conversations.
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Appearance plays BUT a small part.Originally posted by lavastar:This problem is bothering me for a few months..hope to get some advice.
i am a jc1 student this year. now in a jc different from in the first three months(PAE).
In the first three months, me and my classmates did not kick off that well as majority of them like sports like soccer, tennis. Everyday after school they will go engage in sports games together. i have no interest in them as im not fit and not physically active. It was just hi and bye for majority of my classmates and they didnt kept in contact with me since then.
Now i have changed jc . things changed for the better as i could communicate well with my male classmates , but not for the opposite sex. They would talk to me only when they need help in their homework or for project work stuffs. Im not one whos crazy for special attention from girls but at least a hi will make my day. But some of them walk past me without initiating a hi or bye while im walking to or leaving from school. I felt so lonely. Im shy when comes to communicating with girls, but i have tried to open up by cracking some jokes when we meet in project work.. but they laugh over it and its back to square.
whenever my friends share with me about what they did in their class outings, i would get jealous. How i wish i could be like them. The only time i get to go out and have fun is with my secondary school classmates. I wanted to catch the latest Harry Potter movie but all of them watched with their present classes already. The thought of watching alone makes mi forget that thought. My friends said i should be happy since i passed most of my subjects.. but im not happy at all deep inside.. they dont know i feel lonely sometimes
Does appearance play a big part in this problem i have?
then there will be ppl who will bamblast your @ss saying u trying to be a sweet talkerOriginally posted by maurizio13:Why don't you smile and initiate the "Hi, you look so pretty today." first, instead of waiting for others to initiate. Once you break the ice, it would be easier for future conversations.
Flattery will get you everywhere.![]()
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