what do you think?
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My good buddy is facing this situation, he know this girl, but he is confused somewhat perplexed
1. girl goes out with him , always arm in arm, initiative by her, started by may i hold your hand?
2. when alone always resting her body against him, back to front sometimes front to front, inevitably a hugging position
3. constantly touching or prompting him to touch her face hands or pulling his hand to touch her not sexually though
4. farewell and greeting is always a kiss on the cheek or sometimes neck and a tight hug,
what signals is this?
is she cosmopolitan or is this the age of a new generation or he is old fashioned , he is confused by the signals
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If the gal still treats yr friend as best friend after all these gestures..... WOW!Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:My good buddy is facing this situation, he know this girl, but he is confused somewhat perplexed
1. girl goes out with him , always arm in arm, initiative by her, started by may i hold your hand?
2. when alone always resting her body against him, back to front sometimes front to front, inevitably a hugging position
3. constantly touching or prompting him to touch her face hands or pulling his hand to touch her not sexually though
4. farewell and greeting is always a kiss on the cheek or sometimes neck and a tight hug,
what signals is this?
is she cosmopolitan or is this the age of a new generation or he is old fashioned , he is confused by the signals
what do you think?
I got nothing to say abt this girl....
Tell yr friend to state clearly with this gal. Ask yr friend to ask her after all these gestures which are a clear sign of affection , does she treats him as bf? -
That girl is delusional.
Tell your friend to run as far as he can. -
make his stand clear..
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what do you mean?Originally posted by euc:That girl is delusional.
Tell your friend to run as far as he can.
what if my friend is interested in her too? -
reminds me of someone.
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Cosmopolitan? i think not. i dont think it is normal/platonic to kiss someone on the neck unless it is done with an intention to sexually arouse or hint that some one or lead the person on. Neither is it normal/platonic to rest one's body constantly on another's (unless the person is very sick).Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:My good buddy is facing this situation, he know this girl, but he is confused somewhat perplexed
1. girl goes out with him , always arm in arm, initiative by her, started by may i hold your hand?
2. when alone always resting her body against him, back to front sometimes front to front, inevitably a hugging position
3. constantly touching or prompting him to touch her face hands or pulling his hand to touch her not sexually though
4. farewell and greeting is always a kiss on the cheek or sometimes neck and a tight hug,
what signals is this?
is she cosmopolitan or is this the age of a new generation or he is old fashioned , he is confused by the signals
what do you think?
Anyway, how old are both of them? why dont your friend just find out more rather than sitting there thinking alone, since he is interested in her. Be a man, the lady is already throwing herself at him (literally), does he really expect the lady to verbalise her intention?
"hey man, want to be my man"
or more crudely
"hey man, want to go to bed"
Pun intended. -
Check her background.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:My good buddy is facing this situation, he know this girl, but he is confused somewhat perplexed
1. girl goes out with him , always arm in arm, initiative by her, started by may i hold your hand?
2. when alone always resting her body against him, back to front sometimes front to front, inevitably a hugging position
3. constantly touching or prompting him to touch her face hands or pulling his hand to touch her not sexually though
4. farewell and greeting is always a kiss on the cheek or sometimes neck and a tight hug,
what signals is this?
is she cosmopolitan or is this the age of a new generation or he is old fashioned , he is confused by the signals
what do you think?
Ask if she is the sleeping around type or the normal good gal type. -
Hey, can i replaced your buddy.. if i were your buddy, i will sleep with her. Seriously, cuz that gal is a ONS type..Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:My good buddy is facing this situation, he know this girl, but he is confused somewhat perplexed
1. girl goes out with him , always arm in arm, initiative by her, started by may i hold your hand?
2. when alone always resting her body against him, back to front sometimes front to front, inevitably a hugging position
3. constantly touching or prompting him to touch her face hands or pulling his hand to touch her not sexually though
4. farewell and greeting is always a kiss on the cheek or sometimes neck and a tight hug,
what signals is this?
is she cosmopolitan or is this the age of a new generation or he is old fashioned , he is confused by the signals
what do you think? -
NORMAL GAL WONT BE THAT HORNY !Originally posted by zeny:Check her background.
Ask if she is the sleeping around type or the normal good gal type. -
okay, take away the kissing on the neck part, is the rest of the behavoir just plain simple flirting and thats it?Originally posted by Zarks:NORMAL GAL WONT BE THAT HORNY !
not really that big of deal in today society isnt it? I mean he might not want to read too much into it -
are you sure its ons?it maybe she is just feeling affectionate towards him..maybe warm and fuzzy thats allOriginally posted by Zarks:Hey, can i replaced your buddy.. if i were your buddy, i will sleep with her. Seriously, cuz that gal is a ONS type.. -
take away the kissing , what do you think now?Originally posted by blu_sky:Cosmopolitan? i think not. i dont think it is normal/platonic to kiss someone on the neck unless it is done with an intention to sexually arouse or hint that some one or lead the person on. Neither is it normal/platonic to rest one's body constantly on another's (unless the person is very sick).
Anyway, how old are both of them? why dont your friend just find out more rather than sitting there thinking alone, since he is interested in her. Be a man, the lady is already throwing herself at him (literally), does he really expect the lady to verbalise her intention?
"hey man, want to be my man"
or more crudely
"hey man, want to go to bed"
Pun intended.
does age matters, well both of them are young , of course he is older but the main point is the norms of the current society now, what is the message being projected to him. -
The girl's using your buddy as practice to be a GRO in some KTV / nightclub.......
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Thats is where you are wrong.Originally posted by Zarks:NORMAL GAL WONT BE THAT HORNY !
Studies have shown that normal gals do not have sex at all will be more in need than gals who have been doing it more often. -
that means she is asking for sex rather than relationship?would that be the view from a male perspective?Originally posted by zeny:Thats is where you are wrong.
Studies have shown that normal gals do not have sex at all will be more in need than gals who have been doing it more often.
how about from the female perspective? -
taking the kiss away... hmmm... the constant resting of body against body? that is really a message you know. It shows the girl does not think much about body contact i think. May be she is really liberal sort who doesnt think much about intimacy.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:take away the kissing , what do you think now?
does age matters, well both of them are young , of course he is older but the main point is the norms of the current society now, what is the message being projected to him.
Age and background play a big part. Last i heard from a friend (she is mid-20s), ons or even 3some is not such a big deal among the youngsters these days. I was stunned, speechless for at least 5 minutes. But of cos, my friend is in the PR line, such industries are always more liberal than my kind. -
Female perspective? i will never rest my body on a male friend's (let alone all the time) nor will i ever kiss a male friend's neck! Unless i want to throw myself at him, seduce him and dont mind portraying the image of being easy.Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:that means she is asking for sex rather than relationship?would that be the view from a male perspective?
how about from the female perspective? -
speechless
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By the looks of it.
The girl seem interested in him.
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so you are saying that she is trying to seduce him?Originally posted by blu_sky:Female perspective? i will never rest my body on a male friend's (let alone all the time) nor will i ever kiss a male friend's neck! Unless i want to throw myself at him, seduce him and dont mind portraying the image of being easy. -
Originally posted by blu_sky:taking the kiss away... hmmm... the constant resting of body against body? that is really a message you know. It shows the girl does not think much about body contact i think. May be she is really liberal sort who doesnt think much about intimacy.
Age and background play a big part. Last i heard from a friend (she is mid-20s), ons or even 3some is not such a big deal among the youngsters these days. I was stunned, speechless for at least 5 minutes. But of cos, my friend is in the PR line, such industries are always more liberal than my kind.
why age plays a big part? -
Originally posted by blu_sky:Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:
why age plays a big part?
taking the kiss away... hmmm... the constant resting of body against body? that is really a message you know. It shows the girl does not think much about body contact i think. May be she is really liberal sort who doesnt think much about intimacy.
Age and background play a big part. Last i heard from a friend (she is mid-20s), [color=orange]ons or even 3some is not such a big deal among the youngsters these days[/color]. I was stunned, speechless for at least 5 minutes. But of cos, my friend is in the PR line, such industries are always more liberal than my kind. -
i have some friends they are in 30-40 and they indulge in such activities too, unbelieveable it may be , sometimes the older they are the more wild they become.Originally posted by blu_sky:Originally posted by blu_sky:
taking the kiss away... hmmm... the constant resting of body against body? that is really a message you know. It shows the girl does not think much about body contact i think. May be she is really liberal sort who doesnt think much about intimacy.
Age and background play a big part. Last i heard from a friend (she is mid-20s), [color=orange]ons or even 3some is not such a big deal among the youngsters these days. I was stunned, speechless for at least 5 minutes. But of cos, my friend is in the PR line, such industries are always more liberal than my kind.[/color] -
What do you think it is?Originally posted by fourfourtwo8:so you are saying that she is trying to seduce him?
Be true to yourself.