How do i noe if a ger likes mi or not?
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I had known a ger for abt 2 mths and she is from my workplace but she is not in the company anymore. I tried to get close to her by helping her with her work and it is very obvious until almost everyone in the company already noe tat i like her. I have not feel so strongly for a ger b4, therefore i tink she is the one for mi after interacting and finding out more abt her. I even sent her home for a couple of times and even she is not in the company anymore, i msg her everyday and with positive reply each time. The problem i have is tat i dunno if she likes mi or not and i dun have previous experience to rely on..... Can anybody tell mi wat should i do next or should i ask her if she likes mi or not this early, cos i scare this might scare her away..... Any signs that i can see if she is interested in mi also?
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observe her actions.
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for example? I tink she feel comfortable when she is with mi alone, cos she can chat freely with mi.... Any other signs tat i should look out for?
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Chatting freely with u could just mean that she see u as a godo buddy whom she can confide in,u know?Originally posted by daniu82:for example? I tink she feel comfortable when she is with mi alone, cos she can chat freely with mi.... Any other signs tat i should look out for?
Date her regularly and see if she accepts.
If she is not interested,she will find excuses or reasons to decline.
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useless piece of crap.
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I tried to date her out 2 times, the 1st time she is not free to go cos her friend having birthday party and the 2nd time is this wk, but last min she is sick cannot go..... but i dun tink she is finding excuses not to go leh after knowing more abt her.....
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The flower test.
Ask her what's her favourite flower, and later that day give her flowers. If she like it a lot, then the probability of her liking you is increase. -
I found out that she likes a specific cartoon character, then i bought stuffs regarding the character already.... flowers? Is it too early to give her flowers?
her best friend in the company says tat i have a chance after talking to her, but dun rush into things.... slowly progress, but i dunno when is the right time to ask her.... -
Can try the flower method.... Just one will do. See her reaction!Originally posted by daniu82:I found out that she likes a specific cartoon character, then i bought stuffs regarding the character already.... flowers? Is it too early to give her flowers?
her best friend in the company says tat i have a chance after talking to her, but dun rush into things.... slowly progress, but i dunno when is the right time to ask her....
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Sometimes, u can feel it.
If u cant, go ask.
I mean, if u can feel it, sooner or later u have to ask.
SO juz go ask. -
Officially try to date her. Just ask can i officially ask you out on a date?
If she agrees, then you're good to go. -
I tried 2 times already, 1st time her friend having birthday party, 2nd time last min cannot go cos she is sick..... I dun think it is an excuse lor....
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When she is highly interested, a birthday party is not going to stop her from going out with you.Originally posted by daniu82:I tried to date her out 2 times, the 1st time she is not free to go cos her friend having birthday party and the 2nd time is this wk, but last min she is sick cannot go..... but i dun tink she is finding excuses not to go leh after knowing more abt her.....
Maybe she's not finding excuses, maybe you are.
If you insist on going after some one who has mild interest in you to begin with, you are going to need a lot of patience. -
Originally posted by missqi:useless piece of crap.
and sotong. -
I bet to different.... It might be her best friend birthday party. Her maybe 10yrs friendship is not going to stop just by a possible candiate bf of 2 months acquitance..Originally posted by curiousOrange:When she is highly interested, a birthday party is not going to stop her from going out with you.
Maybe she's not finding excuses, maybe you are.
If you insist on going after some one who has mild interest in you to begin with, you are going to need a lot of patience. -
Ya... i tink the same also.....Originally posted by CannyOng:I bet to different.... It might be her best friend birthday party. Her maybe 10yrs friendship is not going to stop just by a possible candiate bf of 2 months acquitance.. -
Observe her action lor. When she declined your
date because of her friend's birthday, did she
arrange another time with you? If she did, most
likely she is interested in you also. -
dats true.Originally posted by lionsault:Observe her action lor. When she declined your
date because of her friend's birthday, did she
arrange another time with you? If she did, most
likely she is interested in you also.
if she showed interest in u, she would have set up another date with u.
not pouring cold water over u, but somehow she doesn't seem so interested in a relationship.
i've been through the same to tell u this.. i.e. receiving msgs with positive responses..chatting on phone for hours..etc..
ended up she juz confided in me as a good friend.
unless ur pretty damn sure she is into u, e.g. getting strong hints of love from her, teased and flirted with her and u can tell she really enjoys it by laughing it out loud, i dun think u should spoil the relationship with her for now by confessing.
i feel that a slow and steady progress would rake in a win. -
well ask her out on another date... ask her to set a date for u instead of YOU setting a date for her...
good luck -
u can try to approach and talk to other girls.
show other girls in ur company more attention.
best if more than wad u shower her with.
see for urself wad her reponse is.
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LetÂ’s imagine a scenario then.Originally posted by CannyOng:I bet to different.... It might be her best friend birthday party. Her maybe 10yrs friendship is not going to stop just by a possible candiate bf of 2 months acquitance..
You have been eyeing this girl in your office for about 2 months.
You play James Blunt’s “You’re beautiful” every night and stalk her every night in your dreams.
You are interested to know anything about her, her hobbies, her habits, her love life etc.
Then one day, she gives you a call and asks you for a date.
Are you going to say no?
Yes, you have some birthday party you need to attend.
Think again! The girl of your dream just called!
Are you really going to say no because itÂ’s impolite to reject a friend of 10 years?
CanÂ’t you arrange something else after the party? Or maybe ask her to join the party?
The above scenario would hopefully make my point clear to you.
If you want a girl to say yes to dating and possibly smooching you after a matter of 2 months, you have to play your cards right and she has to be HIGHLY INTERESTED.
When I say highly interested, it means you are right up there in her wanted list.
She views you as equal importance to her best friends.
In this case, I probably have to flip several pages before I can see your name on that list.
Obviously, you can simply ask her whether sheÂ’s ready to be your girlfriend.
Her most likely reply is she needs time. -
Orleng back liao ah.
long time no see. -
open ur mouth and ask...
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Originally posted by curiousOrange:
My wife did that to me!
LetÂ’s imagine a scenario then.
You have been eyeing this girl in your office for about 2 months.
You play James Blunt’s “You’re beautiful” every night and stalk her every night in your dreams.
You are interested to know anything about her, her hobbies, her habits, her love life etc.
Then one day, she gives you a call and asks you for a date.
Are you going to say no?
Yes, you have some birthday party you need to attend.
[b]Think again! The girl of your dream just called!
Are you really going to say no because itÂ’s impolite to reject a friend of 10 years?
CanÂ’t you arrange something else after the party? Or maybe ask her to join the party?
The above scenario would hopefully make my point clear to you.
If you want a girl to say yes to dating and possibly smooching you after a matter of 2 months, you have to play your cards right and she has to be HIGHLY INTERESTED.
When I say highly interested, it means you are right up there in her wanted list.
She views you as equal importance to her best friends.
In this case, I probably have to flip several pages before I can see your name on that list.
Obviously, you can simply ask her whether sheÂ’s ready to be your girlfriend.
Her most likely reply is she needs time.
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It's true..
I asked her for date during initial stages of courtship and was rejected as she need to attend a outing with a very good friend of her(plus the event was not even a birthday)
Btw,if the lady just for the sake of a 2months acquitance candiate future bf outing and rejected to attend the birthday of her good friend of 10yrs? What does it says abt her integrity??? Therefore,I strongly disagree with yr view! -
good idea..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:The flower test.
Ask her what's her favourite flower, and later that day give her flowers. If she like it a lot, then the probability of her liking you is increase.
but later the gal say crysantinum how?