Types of Rejections faced in BGR
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Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
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And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!! -
u look so sad
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You ask her to be your GF but she says she's taken... standard one.
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for mine :
1. the girl will say she thinks that us being friends now is very great le.
2. i like u but im not ready
3. i dono if u reli lk u or some other guy anot -
sound true!!! but i like the num 5 de.. lol.. funny
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"i think we should both concentrate on our studies. Lets just be friends..."
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Reasons I or my friends heard when we kenna rejected
1)I like you too, but right now, I rather concentrate on my studies. Let's talk about this later, k?
2)My type of love is not the same as yours. I love u like a sister loves her brother.
3)I would have loved you too if not for the fact my best friend love u too.
4)My parents do not want me to be with a guy who they see as someone with no future
5)Our age gap is too big.
6)You flirt too much with girls, thus making me insecure
7)You are too nice a person. I am worry that you don't know how 2 say "No" to other girls.
Your hp are all filled with girls' smses. How do I know you won't two-time me?
9) You are too immature
10)You are too ugly. -
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with persistence you will succeed
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with persistence you'll only get your heart hurt again and again...Originally posted by sEphIrOth:with persistence you will succeed -
this 2 is more then enough to kill the gal liao..Originally posted by nanren4ever: Your hp are all filled with girls' smses. How do I know you won't two-time me?
10)You are too ugly. -
maybe persistence with the same person is not too good, try out with others.
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Well my advice will depend on your age:
How old are you exactly? I'm guessing no older than 12. -
1)A girl asked me if she wanted to stead before. I dont like that girl .
So what I did to shake her off was to tell her I would set a date where we will get into a BGR . And for the weeks until the event, I acted stone cold towards her, rejecting anything she gave me .
2) A girl asked me if i'm taken , i said i'm gay ( when i'm not , just telling her i dont want to get involved with her) -
you asked a girl for her phone number. Instead, she asked you for your phone number and say will call back but never will call back........
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this kind of relationship is guarantee a one-sided relationship. The girl is just trying out the relationship for the first time and see how it goes.Originally posted by law_chng:Well, I have been thru all the highs and lows of BGRs and I just wanna share the types of rejections that I have faced in my life in regard to BGRs. Anyway I have got over them a long time ago and what doesn't kill you definately makes you stronger. For the ppl who are currently in the downs of relationship, I can say that it is very natural and it is just a part of the whole process. In this world, there is no such thing as perfect relationship, but there is thing such as best relationship! ^_^
Anyway, enough said. I would like to share the rejections that I faced in the previous BGRs and here it goes...
1. You say you like her, but then the gal in return say she like you too and she also said that she like her classmates, her parents, her teachers, her siblings, blah blah blah...
2. The gal borrow something from you for a period of some 3 months. But then out of the blue, three weeks later, she sms you and say to meet up to return you something. You meet up at the proposed meeting place. But then that gal didn't turn up. Instead another unknown friend turn up in place of her and return you the borrowed item. After receving back the item, you sms the gal and even call the gal, but no reply.
3. A gal that you know sms you and ask you to be her boyfriend. You reply back and say okay. The next day you meet up with her, she talk to you with a cheeky smile and say "Let's be brother and sister, okay?"
4. You ask the same girl out for so many times but then in every outing, she always bring her younger brother along and it is just so difficult to strike up a decent conversation with her 'cos she is always engaging in small talks with her younger brother. And you are no difference from a lamp post.
5. You never hold that girl's hand before. One day, you cautiously hold her hand at the right moment. You are nervous and your hand is shaking a bit already. And then the girl calm you down and tell you not to worry 'cos she is always holding hands with her younger brother.
6. After many weeks and months of going out with the same girl, you realise that it is always you who initiate the outing and plan out all the activities but the gal never organised anything with you at all in the first place.
7. You and the gal went to home visit a neighbour. The neigbour ask the gal whether the guy is her boyfriend. The gal replied by saying that he is just a classmate. After hearing that, you are already looking away.
8. Sometimes the gal last minute throw paper aeroplanes at you and it is not just one time, but many many times.
.
.
.
And many many more BGR rejections that I have probably forgotten. And anyway, I have already gotten over all these emo-feelings of these lows and I have already move on with my life and re-creating myself anew to be a better person now! ^_^
Feel free to add on!
Have a good weekend everyone. Cheers!!! -
You smoke and I can't stand people smoking. Inhaling too much smoke my throat will be itchy. Can't imagine being kissed by a smoker.
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not even 12 got 10 bad experience is damn sad larOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Well my advice will depend on your age:
How old are you exactly? I'm guessing no older than 12. -
cloud210 my clone is it?
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concentrate on ur studies! dont be attached juz for the sake of being in a relationship.
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wtf u den my clone lor... i 2006 join liao u 2007 only..Originally posted by xcloud23x:cloud210 my clone is it?
SOME1 BAN HIM -
have you ever been rejected by 8 girls in just 1 week? i did
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sounds like u went through alot
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Actually you are damn sad, writing this thread is just to self contain yourself, nothing more, nothing less.
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There is only two types of rejection.
Boy rejects girl.
Girl rejects boy.
That is all.