I really like him.what should I do?
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Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for. -
too young to talk abt that..Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for.
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Thats what I think FBI...but he is very mature for his age. But I still worry.
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I think get to know him first... the rest can be discussed at a later stage.
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dun rush into relationship yet...be friend for the time being...
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yeah like wat ant said, get to know him first..Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Thats what I think FBI...but he is very mature for his age. But I still worry.
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he has just under a year left on his ns.....i don't know about the financila ability,and to be honest,I don't care.....money isn't important to me, I like to work to support myself.
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yeah but if u wanna settle down the guy must have some money rightOriginally posted by ozzy_gurl:he has just under a year left on his ns.....i don't know about the financila ability,and to be honest,I don't care.....money isn't important to me, I like to work to support myself. -
yeah but i believe that both the husband and wife should work to support the family,its what we do here in australia. a lot of times, the wife only works and the husband doesn't. its up to the couple. i dont like things to be handed to me, i like to work for what i have.
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Where one is hasty, they will face difficult decisions and destinations.
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don't get me wrong, I don't want to rush into a relationship. but maybe we should be friends until he's a bit older and more ready for life?
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Yo, let take the easy way out, Love first, talk later.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
I like him a lot, and I would love to be with him, but I don't want him doing anything he's not ready for. -
correctOriginally posted by ozzy_gurl:don't get me wrong, I don't want to rush into a relationship. but maybe we should be friends until he's a bit older and more ready for life?
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Forget it.... it takes two to make it work and just because you really really like him, does not mean that it will work.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:Ok....there is this guy who lives in singapore,who likes me a lot and has asked me to get to know him and his family and one day settle down. I am planning to move to singapore to live and work next year....so there is no distance issues. However, he is younger than me..he is 19. I'm 21. I just don't know if he is really ready to settle down like he says he wants to. What should I do?
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Noo, you guys can go into a relationship, just not the settling down part yet.
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you guys can go into a relationshipw ithout settling down first. try it out and if all is fun and nice, then give thoughts to settling which cna be done later.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:don't get me wrong, I don't want to rush into a relationship. but maybe we should be friends until he's a bit older and more ready for life?
but truth to say at age of 19 i'm not exactly convinced the relationship will be that long lasting anyway
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lol 19 talking bout settling down.. sorry TS not meant to disrespect, do you really think 19 wud really think it so seriously ?
Talks are always sweet.. but i just think its too early for both of you to talk bout this.. just have fun and steady for the nex 5 years then see how -
seen each other on the flesh already?
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i spent 7 weeks working with him every day last year.....we know each other.
i told him i want to take time to see how things work out. -
MOve slow and see the nature's flow la... at the time being, just have fun with him .. dont have to think bout marriage or anything yet..
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know and understanding each other is 2 different matters.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:i spent 7 weeks working with him every day last year.....we know each other.
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You are older and more matured that is why you understand the need for "time to see how things work out" .... he is too young for you. Actually, he is too young to be in a relationship, any relationship.Originally posted by ozzy_gurl:i spent 7 weeks working with him every day last year.....we know each other.
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Who said he is too young, my bf also this age mah, my great grandfather married at 17yo ok. Love hv no age limit nor boundary ok.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You are older and more matured that is why you understand the need for "time to see how things work out" .... he is too young for you. Actually, he is too young to be in a relationship, any relationship. -
will brek soon de no worriesOriginally posted by angel7030:Who said he is too young, my bf also this age mah, my great grandfather married at 17yo ok. Love hv no age limit nor boundary ok.
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Life, then, during your grandad's time... was simpler/less stressful.Originally posted by angel7030:Who said he is too young, my bf also this age mah, my great grandfather married at 17yo ok. Love hv no age limit nor boundary ok.