men men bu le

• angel7030

  9 Oct 07, 16:15

  Originally posted by Aaron8209:

  i everyday oso men men bu le...no one notice....

  Because you never put up the notice mah? For we gals is men men bu le, ...as for you guys, it should be women women bu le.
• <Precious>

  9 Oct 07, 16:23

  Try to improve communications between you and your boyfriend as it is apparent it isn't very well established......
  
  This inadequacy is often fatal if not nipped in the bud
• ordinaryguy32

  10 Oct 07, 14:10

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Actually, girls also need personal space, not just guys.
  
  So why do guys restrict their girls from traveling ?
  
  Kinda double standard isn't it ?
  

  Yes, girls need personal space too, of course.
  
  Sometimes guys might be overprotective, but that's no excuse for having double standards.
• ordinaryguy32

  10 Oct 07, 14:12

  Originally posted by petti:

  he came back last nite and we met up today.
  
  he said he could sense that i was unhappy during his numerous phone calls to me in bangkok. i tried explaining why i was unhappy. and he said that i dont trust him, i tried many times that i do trust him, and also tried to explain why i was unhappy. but he just insisted that i dont trust him.
  
  he said i have to understand how important his career is to him and i have to understand he has to go. i said i understand and i tried to explain why i was unhappy again, but it just wont go through. and he said i have to understand how important his career is to him and i have to understand he has to go. and he cant afford to understand why i am unhappy. he said since i am so unhapy we should take a break and cool down, he doesnt want to see me unhapy. so i agreed and was firm to break off despite he tried to strike more conversation before i left.

  I think a cooling off period is good, and will soften him up to see your point of view.
  
  I agree he's a real thickhead in this instance.
  
  But that's a common mistake guys make.
  
  Good luck.
• smudgey

  10 Oct 07, 15:01

  Gal.
  
  Try writing him a letter.
  
  hand it to him and tell him. I have been trying to tell u what i am upset abt. but u won't listen. it is all in here. read it, or not. it is up to u.
• gforce199

  10 Oct 07, 15:39

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  Gal.
  
  Try writing him a letter.
  
  hand it to him and tell him. I have been trying to tell u what i am upset abt. but u won't listen. it is all in here. read it, or not. it is up to u.

  i am not experiance in tis type of problem but i think tis is good..=)
  
  cheers =)
• Guardx

  11 Oct 07, 08:05

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  Gal.
  
  Try writing him a letter.
  
  hand it to him and tell him. I have been trying to tell u what i am upset abt. but u won't listen. it is all in here. read it, or not. it is up to u.

  lets hope this works
• smudgey

  11 Oct 07, 13:36

  Originally posted by Guardx:

  lets hope this works

  this may or may not work...
  
  but IMO, when i have taken the trouble to write down my feelings into a letter, and hand it to him, the ball is now in his court...
  
  whether he wanna continue to assume he know's what's bothering me, or he choose to read the letter and find out what is TRUELY bothering me, that is his decision to make...
  
  TS, if u do write a letter to him, write it calmly and in clear manner... take the trouble to further explain. cos in a letter it is also easy to misinterprete
• browniebaobao

  12 Oct 07, 00:14

  wah u got so many days leave a yr ar?
• jojobeach

  12 Oct 07, 00:35

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  wah u got so many days leave a yr ar?

  Maybe a teacher lah.