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my gf has been in her new job for 2 months now. and i suspect she is having an affair and cheating behind my back.
history: we have known each other for 2years+ and have been together for 1yr+. she started in this new job for 2months already and i started noticing that she has sorta been distancing in the things we talk about and in the schedule of her daily life. so for the past 2 months i trusted her and spent time with her as usual. there was a period of 2weeks where i was super busy and couldnt meet up with her, she didnt even call OR sms me unless i initiated it. i felt we were drifting apart.
she had a history of lying to me about things previous, small matters, white lies in her own words.
but yesterday i guessed her email password and managed to get in.
she has been having a private correspondence with a guy in office, chatting over email, 100s a day.
as i started prying deeper.
they had sex on many ocassions. (i recalled and on those days she said she was tired and slept as early as 9pm)
their conversations were explicit. detailed.
he asked her if they were dating. she said yes. (inside i was hurting)
they flirted with each other. courted each other. called each other nick names. stole kisses and groped each other when no colleages were around.
my god i was hurt. and am still hurting so bad.
i felt i needed to confront them. but am afraid of losing this relationship...
how should i go about this??
depressed.distressed.dejected.
the hardest part is to hold a forced smile when i see her. sigh.
we had plans to get married next year. we had so many plans. but she couldnt even resist this simple temptation. while i have been holding on ever SO staunchly to this rs. sigh. he was in the right place. at the right time. i guess that was stronger than the 2years of bond we have built.
many times she said he was just a colleague, one that gives her a lift to work everyday. i cant. cos i live too far. on the other end of the island.
he sends her home everyday too. sometimes they head to the beach afterwork. sometimes they go back to their place. and coincidentally her last sms to me would be "fone low bat, ttyl!".
and the emails on the next day would be full of explicit details. which i shall spare you guys of.
we had promised each other to a monogamous relationship. but now that i cant even believe her words, what is there left?
please help me salvage us...
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Originally posted by Ferret:huh ?
this kind one u still wanna hang on ?
why ?
i dunno.... cos i love her too much?
i spoke with a few close friends. the guys told me to dump her.
there was a girl whom said something
"..that if you love her, you shouldnt even consider breaking up.."
im confused on what i should do. could he be a fling? sigh... i am confused. i dont know what to believe.
:'(
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well, dun see any point in carrying on the r/s? Unless u r a loser and a wimp.
Be a mean son of a b'itch: do this
Just end it or carry on treating her as wh0re to vent your frustration till u get over and find urself a better ger.
Be a gentlemen: tell her what you found out and square it out.
Or
try the funny way: Catch them in the act, or tape them in the act and see how they react. Should be fun!!!
Edited by EarlNeo 10 Oct `07, 5:07PM
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Will you forgive her?
i made up a story claiming that i saw her pecking that guy when he came to pick her up.
she got tense when i said she was cheating on me.
i stopped contacting her for a few days and when we decided to meet. she begged for forgiveness and i gave in.
now.
it is still going on....
i dont want to reveal what i know because it would just crack us up even more.
i forgave her once. but just giving it more time to see how it is.
i WANT to catch her cheating on me. so i can give myself a closure permanently. instead of tearing myself up inside.
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there was a girl whom said something
"..that if you love her, you shouldnt even consider breaking up.."
Wrong: If u love her, u should let her fly instead of dragging it on while her heart is no longer with u.
bro, i feel sad for u but trust me, u will find another gf better thanher. She's not worth waiting anymore. Let her fly, she will one day regret what she had done to u.
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Originally posted by andrewtvp:i made up a story claiming that i saw her pecking that guy when he came to pick her up.
she got tense when i said she was cheating on me.
i stopped contacting her for a few days and when we decided to meet. she begged for forgiveness and i gave in.
now.
it is still going on....
i dont want to reveal what i know because it would just crack us up even more.
i forgave her once. but just giving it more time to see how it is.
i WANT to catch her cheating on me. so i can give myself a closure permanently. instead of tearing myself up inside.The emails are evidence. What are you still waiting for?
It's difficult, no doubt. But can you live with it? A cheating partner, who doesn't even feel guilty.
Unless you can ACCEPT and FORGIVE all that she has done and she has proven sincere in stopping all her rendevous, if not I suggest you move on.
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.......... my gf has been cheating on me for the last few months
also. I knew, but i dont blame her. Just seeing how and where this
thing goes. I wait until she come break up with me. It was her good
friend that told me about 2 months ago.
she gone out gai gai liao 
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