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  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
  • Gackt247's Avatar
    19,154 posts since Jun '04
  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
  • Gackt247's Avatar
    19,154 posts since Jun '04
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      the problem is, how? Neutral

      u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..

      from there start to act like one..

      confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round..

  • dbowie's Avatar
    4,041 posts since Mar '07
    • wad dun kill u makes u stronger
      so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
      u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm

  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by dbowie:
      wad dun kill u makes u stronger
      so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
      u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm

      Shocked Shocked Shocked

      Laughing Laughing Laughing

  • Lorry`'s Avatar
    4,961 posts since Oct '05
    • what is the thing that demoralise you.... makes you lose confident? whats it?

      looks, or what?

      must find out before there're solutions to act upon it Wink

  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by Gackt247:
      u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..

      from there start to act like one..

      confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round..

      in the mirror or something like that ah?

  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by Lorry`:
      what is the thing that demoralise you.... makes you lose confident? whats it?

      looks, or what?

      must find out before there're solutions to act upon it Wink

      think its looks Confused

  • speakupforyourrights's Avatar
    1,334 posts since Oct '07
    • i think trying to date 4 girls and 2 gays at one time will give u a super confidence boost.

      wads more, the 6 of them shld be frens, ur confidence level sure shoot high high Laughing

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    1,527 posts since Dec '06
  • gigabyte14's Avatar
    17,651 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by sunny3510:
      read widely.

      pple wif knowledge are usually pple wif high self confidence

      what do you mean by read widely?

  • Darkness_hacker99's Avatar
    31,720 posts since Jun '05
    • Originally posted by sunny3510:
      read widely.

      pple wif knowledge are usually pple wif high self confidence

      Agree to a certain extent........

      So what you are the most knowledgeable around?

      Edited by Darkness_hacker99 12 Oct `07, 5:31AM
  • Short Ninja's Avatar
    4,331 posts since Jan '07
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      as above Sad

      When you start to recognize your achievement and success even in the small things that you do.As for falilures,tell me who doesnt have one?

  • ShrodingersCat's Avatar
    6,250 posts since Jul '04
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      think its looks Confused

      The strange thing about lack of confidence about outward appearance is that - if given an opportunity to seriously change it, i.e. plastic surgery etc - not many people will opt for it.

      Even investing lots of money to change hairstyle, change clothing attire or investing time to visit the gym, waste hours at the pool getting an even tan that will also give u skin cancer, etc - all these require loads of effort and most people are just dissatisfied with how they look without wanting to go through all these pain.

      The reality is - deep down inside - we also have a little hope that we could be attractive despite how ordinary they look.

      So which type are you? Are you willing to do all sorts of stuff to improve your appearance? Be warned - you may still have lack of confidence even after you look like damn good. Else you can spend more time cultivating your character and knowing you are someone who deserves a place on this earth - flaws and all.

  • AndrewPKYap's Avatar
    12,382 posts since Oct '06
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      as above Sad

      you should really read my book.... even if you don't buy, you can borrow from the library... (when available)

  • caleb_chiang's Avatar
    6,889 posts since Jul '05
  • Agenda's Avatar
    6,076 posts since Jan '06
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      in the mirror or something like that ah?

      there is nothing wrong with looks, in fact you look better than the average guys.

      it's all about hiding your flaws and flaunting your beauty

  • <Precious>'s Avatar
    6,568 posts since Jul '06
    • This essentially is a discovery of your own strengths and the extent of those strengths.

      Start with doing small things and doing them well. When you discover your success in doing small things well, learn to be proud of that achievement and move on to more challenging stuff. Repeat the same process in trying to get them done well.

      Building self confidence is a step-by-step thing that has to be built. The success you get will drive you on to want greater sucesses. There is a multiplier effect...... Very Happy

      Good luck! Wink

  • <Precious>'s Avatar
    6,568 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by dbowie:
      wad dun kill u makes u stronger
      so go propose to more gals for stead and get rejected everytime
      u will be so frickin daring tt u even dare ask potianak asgm

      LMAO! Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

  • <Precious>'s Avatar
    6,568 posts since Jul '06
    • Originally posted by Gackt247:
      u have to start telling urself u r not a loser.. u r a winner..

      from there start to act like one..

      confidence is from inside projected out.. not the other way round..

      Gacky has learnt well wor! Mr. Green Sure sign of maturity..... Razz

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    8,724 posts since Apr '06
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    34,461 posts since Jul '00
  • vIn.Warrior's Avatar
    2,971 posts since Sep '04
    • Dress Good.

      Find up more about current fashion and trend.

      i believe you're a youngster, so by looking good, you'll be confident. Physical appearance and turnout bearing reflects a lot to people.

      however, you ought to know tt appearance is only one of the fundamental factor tt contributes to being confident. Other aspects are important too; like your speech, actions, and self mentality.

      Being positive will help too! Wink

  • Nata|ie's Avatar
    5,078 posts since May '03
    • Originally posted by gigabyte14:
      as above Sad

      I don't think you look tat bad. You are actually quite good looking.

      It's all bout your thinking, change it.

      The way you carry yourself, will help as well.

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