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She has taken the last straw.
Last Friday, she went out and never came back for the night.
Guy called her at 2:00 am, she never replied.
Gal sms at 2:30 saying she is ok, and will be home shortly.
Guy called Gal at 3:30am, Gal said she is in office, never went out for the KTV (as planned previously). Guy inquired more, Gal said she with a male colleague in the office.
Now still got hdb flat, no kids.
Decide to have a conversation tonight to conclude the whole thing.
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from what i gather, why ROM in the 1st place........
Dun think its anything serious, just give her some space & she'll be fine....anyway the 1st 3 years was blissful wasn't it....so why the sudden change again....yup have a good talk, please be patient ok....dun mess the thing up.
gd luck
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ehh..if i were you i am totally flabbergasted..you still can wait..i think since u waited it for so long..just continue waiting lor..anyway..everyone have bad lucks..i think you running into bad lucks only la..
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all.. the.. best..
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I think you are trying to interrogate her, that's what she feels. I can sense you are feeling insecure, what's more with the male colleague with her now.Originally posted by OutOfIdeasHusband:This year old thread is no longer active
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She has taken the last straw.
Last Friday, she went out and never came back for the night.
Guy called her at 2:00 am, she never replied.
Gal sms at 2:30 saying she is ok, and will be home shortly.
Guy called Gal at 3:30am, Gal said she is in office, never went out for the KTV (as planned previously). Guy inquired more, Gal said she with a male colleague in the office.
Now still got hdb flat, no kids.
Decide to have a conversation tonight to conclude the whole thing.
I think to her, any cute guy with her now would have pushed you out of her mind.
I say you leave her alone. Let things happen naturally. Carry on with your life.
doko -
Yea ask above. since its over already just carry on with life
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Let your story end dude
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Guy is a jerk.
No wonder the girl don't want to commit and don't want to come home.
Because she don't want to go back home to a marriage prison.
This guy is so pathetic.
The more he grips, the faster she slips. -
i feel pity for the guy.
wrong decision at the wrong time. -
Guys,
Please don't go and believe the craps about being married/attached but living separate lives.
Those can happen, but it seldom lasts.
If the lifestyle of your potential partner is very different from yours, please reconsider before taking the plunge.
Chances are, you will enjoy the wind in your face while it last, thereafter, you will hit the bottom and get your heart smashed to pieces.
Yes love may be blind. ONLY at the initial phase.
What happens when love no longer has the power to blind you ?
When reality blows clear your sight?
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Good luck for the talk......................
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Conclude amicabily.
Do not hope anymore.
Do not try anymore.
Do not pass Go.
Do not collect $200.
Just negotiate for a no contest divorce.
Discuss the flat.
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Discuss and agreed on divorce.
no heated arguments or anything, just calm and peaceful talk.
gal admits since counselling, she knew she was not ready but did not tell guy, cos she don want to lose him.
gal told guy that if he wants to sell the house, gal would take it. but if guy wants it, gal will let guy have it.
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Outofideahusband,Originally posted by OutOfIdeasHusband:Discuss and agreed on divorce.
no heated arguments or anything, just calm and peaceful talk.
gal admits since counselling, she knew she was not ready but did not tell guy, cos she don want to lose him.
gal told guy that if he wants to sell the house, gal would take it. but if guy wants it, gal will let guy have it.
jus this morning, gal tell guy she will miss him.
When she tells you she will miss you. It was only a feel good remark for her.
All you have to respond is a calm face and a simple " Yes , I will too. And we all know this decision is for the better."
When I broke off with my ex-s I also say the same thing to them, in a way to make them feel good, and to make myself feel good.
But nothing more. In my heart, it was relief this is finally over.
She may ask for the last kiss, a last hug, maybe a last round of sex.
But don't think too much into it.
It was only meant as a goodbye gift.
A souvenir for a place not to be visited again. -
with that said & done, time to move on
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strike a chord in me.Originally posted by jojobeach:Outofideahusband,
When she tells you she will miss you. It was only a feel good remark for her.
All you have to respond is a calm face and a simple " Yes , I will too. And we all know this decision is for the better."
When I broke off with my ex-s I also say the same thing to them, in a way to make them feel good, and to make myself feel good.
But nothing more. In my heart, it was relief this is finally over.
She may ask for the last kiss, a last hug, maybe a last round of sex.
But don't think too much into it.
It was only meant as a goodbye gift.
A souvenir for a place not to be visited again.
Not everything in life will end with a good-will.
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jojo...
so pro....
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she day 1, u day 15 lor...
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I dun understand...
ROM already means married in the eyes of law.
since married liao, why did she still say she duno whether u are the one for her?
If cancelling the wedding dinner can save the marriage, then cancel lor.
but if the prob doesn't lie with the wedding dinner, good luck to u. -
gone case liao laaaaaaaaa
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Thanks jojo,Originally posted by jojobeach:Outofideahusband,
When she tells you she will miss you. It was only a feel good remark for her.
All you have to respond is a calm face and a simple " Yes , I will too. And we all know this decision is for the better."
When I broke off with my ex-s I also say the same thing to them, in a way to make them feel good, and to make myself feel good.
But nothing more. In my heart, it was relief this is finally over.
She may ask for the last kiss, a last hug, maybe a last round of sex.
But don't think too much into it.
It was only meant as a goodbye gift.
A souvenir for a place not to be visited again.
now we guys know words mean nothing from girls.
doko -
Yes, it is true.Originally posted by dokono:Thanks jojo,
now we guys know words mean nothing from girls.
doko
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ROM is also a form to show to HDB to buy HDB house, it is also helped some to get PR or citizenship status, and finally it is a document that must be produce during divorcing. So it not merely mean married ya. It just a registration, marry is in church or wedding. That is why many blur blur go and ROM than later kenna tricked.Originally posted by browniebaobao:I dun understand...
ROM already means married in the eyes of law.
since married liao, why did she still say she duno whether u are the one for her?
If cancelling the wedding dinner can save the marriage, then cancel lor.
but if the prob doesn't lie with the wedding dinner, good luck to u.