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Hello. Well basically, Im in a Secondary school.
I have this relationship with a boy one year older then me.
Weve been together for 3 months. He was my first love.
Well, Im the sort of quiet type person, average normal looking girl.
Im not good in sport or studies, no talent whatsoever. Which make me feel so bad about it, which result in low confidence?
I and my bf are in the same CCA.
Just a few days back, I got a match and I lost.
I heard some senior not far away passing unkind remarks about me.
Saying that Im not good in sports or I dun deserve to be in the team.
Plus they say my bf dun deserve a girl like me
Some of my team mates (my age) were also near them wherever they look into my direction, I dared not look at them. And the feeling was terrible.
Thinking back what they have said, I do really think that my bf deserve a better girl unlike me their words hurts me till today...
Can anyone regain my confidence back? And advise how to be a better person who can excel in sports? Thanks
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Excel in sport? You need to commit and put in 101% of yourself. It's all about sheer determination.
Please don't let the remarks affect you and your relationship with your boyfriend. Have you heard of this statement, "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"? You must be strong.
You know. Love is not about giving up but holding on. Do you love him? And does he love you?
If you love each other dearly, then never mind about others criticize or bad comments.
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Hi MISI,
In the first place, there's no such thing as someone don't deserve another person just because the other person might not be as good in certain areas. If you love the person, he or she is what you loved.
Also, I feel that everyone should be able to excel in something. You need to find your strength in a certain area and excel in it. If you can't do sports, what about singing? dancing? writing? dressing? cooking? designing? drawing? I am sure there's something you can do well.
As for sports, you can look at sports that are more skills-based and not so much those that requires physical strength and stamin. Sports like bowling, pool might be easier for you than to run, swim or jump.
Lastly, don't feel bad that you lost a match. It's not your fault. Since you were placed in the team, there must a reason for your existence. If you can't do well in the match, try being the person to link your team together. Make sure everyone is happy and harmonious and be the person that everyone likes. This is another way you can contribute to the team as well.
A Luv Guru
Originally posted by MISI:Hello. Well basically, Im in a Secondary school.
I have this relationship with a boy one year older then me.
Weve been together for 3 months. He was my first love.
Well, Im the sort of quiet type person, average normal looking girl.
Im not good in sport or studies, no talent whatsoever. Which make me feel so bad about it, which result in low confidence?
I and my bf are in the same CCA.
Just a few days back, I got a match and I lost.
I heard some senior not far away passing unkind remarks about me.
Saying that Im not good in sports or I dun deserve to be in the team.
Plus they say my bf dun deserve a girl like me
Some of my team mates (my age) were also near them wherever they look into my direction, I dared not look at them. And the feeling was terrible.
Thinking back what they have said, I do really think that my bf deserve a better girl unlike me their words hurts me till today...
Can anyone regain my confidence back? And advise how to be a better person who can excel in sports? Thanks
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MSI
Hardwork and patience are the 2 main keys to success
combination of these 2 will assure you excelling in sports
and what Exactly is the sports are you doing anyway ?
sound like a individual sports
if it is a team sports it depend on everyone not only on 1 person but making urself the key player is importantEdited by ghimpheng 26 Oct `07, 6:14AM
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Originally posted by MISI:Hello. Well basically, Im in a Secondary school.
I have this relationship with a boy one year older then me.
Weve been together for 3 months. He was my first love.
Well, Im the sort of quiet type person, average normal looking girl.
Im not good in sport or studies, no talent whatsoever. Which make me feel so bad about it, which result in low confidence?
I and my bf are in the same CCA.
Just a few days back, I got a match and I lost.
I heard some senior not far away passing unkind remarks about me.
Saying that Im not good in sports or I dun deserve to be in the team.
Plus they say my bf dun deserve a girl like me
Some of my team mates (my age) were also near them wherever they look into my direction, I dared not look at them. And the feeling was terrible.
Thinking back what they have said, I do really think that my bf deserve a better girl unlike me their words hurts me till today...
Can anyone regain my confidence back? And advise how to be a better person who can excel in sports? Thankswhen you are in a sport - it does not matter if you are good in it , the key is to enjoy it and have fun playing it !!!
Your senior is = nuts ! Why so good in sport is not going to get you $$$ and boyfriends.
It is the characters that counts more then brute strenghts.
Maybe that is why your bf attracted to you, just to have fun together and not when together must die die be good at sport and win this and that.
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