Originally posted by MISI:Hello. Well basically, IÂ’m in a Secondary school.
I have this relationship with a boy one year older then me.
WeÂ’ve been together for 3 months. He was my first love.
Well, IÂ’m the sort of quiet type person, average normal looking girl.
IÂ’m not good in sport or studies, no talent whatsoever. Which make me feel so bad about it, which result in low confidence?
I and my bf are in the same CCA.
Just a few days back, I got a match and I lost.
I heard some senior not far away passing unkind remarks about me.
Saying that IÂ’m not good in sports or I dun deserve to be in the team.
Plus they say my bf dun deserve a girl like meÂ…
Some of my team mates (my age) were also near themÂ… wherever they look into my direction, I dared not look at them. And the feeling was terrible.
Thinking back what they have said, I do really think that my bf deserve a better girl unlike meÂ… their words hurts me till today...
Can anyone regain my confidence back? And advise how to be a better person who can excel in sports? Thanks
when you are in a sport - it does not matter if you are good in it , the key is to enjoy it and have fun playing it !!!Originally posted by MISI:Hello. Well basically, IÂ’m in a Secondary school.
I have this relationship with a boy one year older then me.
WeÂ’ve been together for 3 months. He was my first love.
Well, IÂ’m the sort of quiet type person, average normal looking girl.
IÂ’m not good in sport or studies, no talent whatsoever. Which make me feel so bad about it, which result in low confidence?
I and my bf are in the same CCA.
Just a few days back, I got a match and I lost.
I heard some senior not far away passing unkind remarks about me.
Saying that IÂ’m not good in sports or I dun deserve to be in the team.
Plus they say my bf dun deserve a girl like meÂ…
Some of my team mates (my age) were also near themÂ… wherever they look into my direction, I dared not look at them. And the feeling was terrible.
Thinking back what they have said, I do really think that my bf deserve a better girl unlike meÂ… their words hurts me till today...
Can anyone regain my confidence back? And advise how to be a better person who can excel in sports? Thanks