o levels ending soon...
there's this girl that ive liked for 4 years, same class in first 2 years but after we stream, we went different classes......and up till now im still not confirmed whether she likes me though.. lol feeling pretty sad over that as a emo retard... sometimes i have e feeling she treats me like im transparent during class/group outings, but in chalets she opens up and becomes more cheery towards me..
last time ive read from dunno where, there is a liking between both parties when a boy and a girl can lock eyes for a few secs when their eyes meet...which interestingly enough happens to me and her, our eyes will meet for a while and stand there like idiots grinning at each other(its a darn powerful feeling though, usually i feel like she's made my day after that haha), and its happened many times this year whenever we meet....and thats my only clue about her feelings for me T.T
even for msn she hadnt even initiated any(not even 1) conversations this whole yr, down from the few which she did last yr, and the only 2 reasons i can give is...1) she cant find topic to chat abt(which im having a hard time with also), cuz though we meet in sch but its just like walking past each other, dont really talk to each other, and 2) is pretty obvious..she got no interest in me....

so how would u people rate my chances...
nevertheless im still gonna give it a try, nothing to lose anyway...usually many would say..go for movies...so...what kinda movies u guys suggest?

or what other interesting ways to express my feeling for her...and how to...
its not like u can just walk together halfway and go 'i like you', thats seems dam crap lol. and no fancy restaurants, i dont have so much $ for that

seeking help~

my situation is the same as yours.

if she have no interest then i say dont be so die-hard, you might just make her dislike you. of course im not saying dont try, just dont push it

yeah, go for it

for movies, choose light-hearted romantic comedy

for ur age, i think cartel, swensens, fish & co, kenny rogers all these shd be good enough.....

Go for it !!

jia you!

ask her out!

why not go haagen dazs just after ur o's, den ask her when u both eat ice cream, " do u like me " ?

Originally posted by FireIce:

yeah, go for it

for movies, choose light-hearted romantic comedy
.

Yeah, Saw 4s just out over here, I imagine to be out soon in s'pore...

yeayeayea saw4 lol. saw 3 wasnt bad. i liked the ending hehe.
eating ice cream isnt a bad idea...though the only ice cream shop around where i can ask her out for a movie only has swensens...and ive only been there to eat...only once. zzz. later i go in there blur blur dunno wad to ask. lol.

think i'll settle for a funny movie...any suggestions?
maybe i should go swensens take a look too.

if ice cream dont work out got any other ways? mmm lol...

counting down : 3 week more!
still...studies first though..

for movies u go browse www.gv.com.sg
though i dunno wats hot 3 weeks later

if u want solely ice-cream, might as well go Ben & Jerry's

or can go try fondue at haagen dazs or chocz

ya lo. man man lai.

Originally posted by FireIce:

yeah, go for it

for movies, choose light-hearted romantic comedy

for ur age, i think cartel, swensens, fish & co, kenny rogers all these shd be good enough.....

yeah go watch death at a funeral......very nice

Hi,

You should try asking her out then it will be easier for us to see if you have any chance or not.

You never know if you don't try.

Good luck.

A Luv Guru

If she really likes you, even if you confess her while you are in the toilet sh!tting and her outside waiting. She would accept you.

But i've got a classic, "Do you like mee". "No",

"How about bee hoon?"

CONFIRM you got chance!

GO FOR IT!

Originally posted by dbowie:

why not go haagen dazs just after ur o's, den ask her when u both eat ice cream, " do u like me " ?

Remember to use this if u kena reject:

"how about beehoon"

first , plz dun thk of stupid things bout guy boy meet eyes for short period.. oh.. seems sweet isnt it.. but its really bullshyt man.. since im so experienced with women, no matter how they look at u, it doesnt mean they like u or wat.. btw, its just a stare.. theres nothing much,. so quit dreaming bout that dude..

and for your case.. seems u pretty confident to go for it, i suggest u go ask her out one day and see how.. try ask her what movie is good to watch, this will at least respect on what she want to watch also..

anyway, just go for it.. i think u can try call her or chat with her more often than asking her out for a movie and silence all the time..

call her once a while, chat with her... see how she response

if she response good, perhaps shes just friendly, perhaps it means something.

then try ask her out

if u ask her out for the 10th but she always come up with any excuses.. then forget it man.. trust me.. until the 10th she still with her excuses and putting u on the btm list.. meaning shes not interested at all..

good luck

Originally posted by Uncertain:

Remember to use this if u kena reject:

"how about beehoon"

He can say it but the expression on his face shows it all ! .. cannot hide

"How bout beehooon? *with trembling voice almost wanna cry*

i tot point number 2 you made by TS himself sum up his chances already

Originally posted by absol:

o levels ending soon...
there's this girl that ive liked for 4 years, same class in first 2 years but after we stream, we went different classes......and up till now im still not confirmed whether she likes me though..

Do you intend to find out or you intend to continually asking us?

Originally posted by absol:

lol feeling pretty sad over that as a emo retard...

What do you expect/ Everyone feels anxious over something that is important to them but they are unsure, uncertain about that thing that is important to them.

Originally posted by absol:

sometimes i have e feeling she treats me like im transparent during class/group outings, but in chalets she opens up and becomes more cheery towards me..

Well people behave differently and have different feelings at different times..... What are expecting, you expect her to be a robot?

Originally posted by absol:

last time ive read from dunno where, there is a liking between both parties when a boy and a girl can lock eyes for a few secs when their eyes meet...which interestingly enough happens to me and her, our eyes will meet for a while and stand there like idiots grinning at each other(its a darn powerful feeling though, usually i feel like she's made my day after that haha), and its happened many times this year whenever we meet....and thats my only clue about her feelings for me T.T

It is better you be sure than to imagine this and that. Maybe she is just curious why you are staring at her while you are the only one getting a high from it. To her she is "qway si mi?"

Originally posted by absol:

even for msn she hadnt even initiated any(not even 1) conversations this whole yr, down from the few which she did last yr, and the only 2 reasons i can give is...1) she cant find topic to chat abt(which im having a hard time with also), cuz though we meet in sch but its just like walking past each other, dont really talk to each other, and 2) is pretty obvious..she got no interest in me....[/quote]You want her to initiate? tan ku ku... and in the mean time, another boy initiate and tell her he likes her and you can tan ku ku forever.
[quote]Originally posted by absol:
[b]so how would u people rate my chances...

Zero if you d not initiate anything and are not going to initiate anything.

Originally posted by absol:

nevertheless im still gonna give it a try, nothing to lose anyway...usually many would say..go for movies...so...what kinda movies u guys suggest?

or what other interesting ways to express my feeling for her...and how to...
its not like u can just walk together halfway and go 'i like you', thats seems dam crap lol. and no fancy restaurants, i dont have so much $ for that

seeking help~

OK this is the only positive attitude that you have, at last... yes, go out, talk and when you are sure she likes you and you are comfortable to do it and when she is comfortable to hear it, tell her that you are in love with her.

Don't tell her too early or too late but before the time is right, date her out so you know when is the right time to tell her.