Yesterday would be a day which i cant forget in my life.

Sent X home after some event and on the way, I told her that I like her. I already anticipated that I would be rejected but yet I still choose to tell her.

Told her that I already expected that she would reject me but its just want to let her know about how I feel about it. Similarly, she let me know that she just want to concentrate on her studies first and not go into relationship and she treats everyone as her friends currently.

The thing that made me so attracted to her is probably her personality. She's so different from other girls in terms of attitude and behavior. Thats probably why she have so many suitors as well. And on top of that, she seemed to have rejected all of them in the past as well.

Heard from a friend that during the time when i sent her home, she was feeling abit sick from something she drank and would like to be alone when going home. My presence she said, kind of irritated her...

I am having mixed feeling about this incident. Firstly, I'm feeling quite happy that at least I've got the guts to tell her face to face. Secondly, I'm feeling abit saddened by her rejection, but at least from what I've know, she rejected other guys in the past as well. But the thing now is I do not know if I should continue waiting or just give up. She's a good girl from what I can see...

at least u had the balls to tell her

Hi I have not posted for a very long time but when I saw your post I was so reminded of the situation I was in.

I have to advise you not to wait. I know the feeling is terrible right now, but you will get better if you harden your resolve to get her out of your mind. I do not want you to experience the potential heartache and disappointment eventually.

Been there done that. Waited for a year and a half and it turns out that she likes someone else. Maybe it just was not meant to be.

But ultimately, the choice is yours.

your situation is pretty similar to mine...

I wonder why do we still go ahead even when we know that they dont like us...

http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=288067

no need to wait…..just continue with ur daily life.

many many fishes out there...

many many trees out there...

enjoy ur singlehood b4 u get tied down...

i guess perhaps i should just focus on something else instead. i’m still young after all.

let it go and play the confidence game.

show her that you are good bf material while not overdoing it.

Just be urself.

Rejected ah? Then move on lor~

3 person with similar situation? To be honest, MY situation is also kind-of similar! Such coincidence

well the part i'm sooo glad about is that at least i've got the guts.

i mean, those who did it face to face should know much guts it need. and this is the first time i'm doing it

Originally posted by Perception:

well the part i'm sooo glad about is that at least i've got the guts.

i mean, those who did it face to face should know much guts it need. and this is the first time i'm doing it

Grats for you first time...
Yea that's one thing that you won't regret in life...

Originally posted by Perception:

Yesterday would be a day which i cant forget in my life.

Sent X home after some event and on the way, I told her that I like her. I already anticipated that I would be rejected but yet I still choose to tell her.

Told her that I already expected that she would reject me but its just want to let her know about how I feel about it. Similarly, she let me know that she just want to concentrate on her studies first and not go into relationship and she treats everyone as her friends currently.

The thing that made me so attracted to her is probably her personality. She's so different from other girls in terms of attitude and behavior. Thats probably why she have so many suitors as well. And on top of that, she seemed to have rejected all of them in the past as well.

Heard from a friend that during the time when i sent her home, she was feeling abit sick from something she drank and would like to be alone when going home. My presence she said, kind of irritated her...

I am having mixed feeling about this incident. Firstly, I'm feeling quite happy that at least I've got the guts to tell her face to face. Secondly, I'm feeling abit saddened by her rejection, but at least from what I've know, she rejected other guys in the past as well. But the thing now is I do not know if I should continue waiting or just give up. She's a good girl from what I can see...

C another me in u... if she doesn't like u, dude better find other target dun waste ur time.

well, i dont know why, but in fact i wasnt feeling as emo as i expected myself to be.

yes moving forward but i'm not finding another target anytime sooner. got hurt like 3 or 4 times already so my hands are off these things for now.

Originally posted by kenny8787:

your situation is pretty similar to mine...

I wonder why do we still go ahead even when we know that they dont like us...

http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=288067

To be honest your situation is looking a lot better than his wor..

Perhaps its due to the fact that I'm forcing myself not to think of it.

But each time on msn, the habits of checking to see if she's online will still occur. Cant be help cause for the past few months I've been talking to her very frequently online. Perhaps 80% of the time for the past 6 months when I'm online.

OK WE GET YOUR POINT!
It seems like this forum has become some whinehouse whatsoever!

U guys have any SAD STORIES OR REGRETS,JUST BROWSE THE PAST THREAD AND READ THE ADVICES!

Originally posted by kenny8787:

your situation is pretty similar to mine...

I wonder why do we still go ahead even when we know that they dont like us...

http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=288067

One word-stupity

Don't deny.
would u continue betting in a casino game if u are constantly losing?
U won't so why would u continue pursuing a gal even when there is no chances of winning her?

stupidity.

Originally posted by boka:

One word-stupity

Don't deny.
would u continue betting in a casino game if u are constantly losing?
U won't so why would u continue pursuing a gal even when there is no chances of winning her?

stupidity.

i differ.

because i know this time i really like her, maybe even more then like. Different from the past.

I respect myself the the girl, i dont like someone for the sake of liking someone.

Actually its very simple. I like a person, and its not easy to stop thinking. I am not playing game or whatever, if i stopped just like that, it means that i am not being serious, which i am, and i am not respecting her, nor myself.

Would you simply walk out of the house if your mum says she wants to disown you?

Originally posted by kenny8787:

i differ.

because i know this time i really like her, maybe even more then like. Different from the past.

I respect myself the the girl, i dont like someone for the sake of liking someone.

Actually its very simple. I like a person, and its not easy to stop thinking. I am not playing game or whatever, if i stopped just like that, it means that i am not being serious, which i am, and i am not respecting her, nor myself.

Would you simply walk out of the house if your mum says she wants to disown you?

Whether u are serious or not is not the issue here.
The issue is why are humans strange beings?
why would they walk out of a casino room when they are constantly losing yet in the pursue of a gal,not?

Originally posted by boka:

Whether u are serious or not is not the issue here.
The issue is why are humans strange beings?
why would they walk out of a casino room when they are constantly losing yet in the pursue of a gal,not?

Oh i am sorry...

Ya i would say its stupidity?

Originally posted by kenny8787:

Oh i am sorry...

Ya i would say its stupidity?

Think rationally,be logical,even if it means becoming that ass in buridan's ass who does not have instinct.

lol big mistake. if u like her and want to have any chance of scoring with her u shouldnt confess. girls who have guys after them all the time are interested when guys seemingly AREN’T interested in them. hard to explain complex workings of female mind but yeah im sure many girls can verify that.

Originally posted by Perception:

Yesterday would be a day which i cant forget in my life.

Sent X home after some event and on the way, I told her that I like her. I already anticipated that I would be rejected but yet I still choose to tell her.

Told her that I already expected that she would reject me but its just want to let her know about how I feel about it. Similarly, she let me know that she just want to concentrate on her studies first and not go into relationship and she treats everyone as her friends currently.

The thing that made me so attracted to her is probably her personality. She's so different from other girls in terms of attitude and behavior. Thats probably why she have so many suitors as well. And on top of that, she seemed to have rejected all of them in the past as well.

Heard from a friend that during the time when i sent her home, she was feeling abit sick from something she drank and would like to be alone when going home. My presence she said, kind of irritated her...

I am having mixed feeling about this incident. Firstly, I'm feeling quite happy that at least I've got the guts to tell her face to face. Secondly, I'm feeling abit saddened by her rejection, but at least from what I've know, she rejected other guys in the past as well. But the thing now is I do not know if I should continue waiting or just give up. She's a good girl from what I can see...

She rejected u not becos she really wanted to study and not keen into a r/s.Cos she haven found her one...
She rejected u same as all other guy cos u don't have the personality be her bf.
So,don't be too relieved abt u being rejected same as other guys and my advise to u is give up on her.....

Originally posted by CannyOng:

She rejected u not becos she really wanted to study and not keen into a r/s.Cos she haven found her one...
She rejected u same as all other guy cos u don't have the personality be her bf.
So,don't be too relieved abt u being rejected same as other guys and my advise to u is give up on her.....

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