The hidden cruel truth
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Juz canÂ’t bear to tell any of my friends,need a place to vent it out and it seems this is the only place
Feeling very down and sad now.IÂ’ve been liking this gal for 1 year already and IÂ’m very involved into her thinking about her everyday,miss her very much when I canÂ’t see her for a few days.Well,I muz say the actions,words that exsist between us create this illusion that I probably HAVE chance to be with her when finally 1 fine day I want to confess with her. IÂ’ve been dropping hints here and there and responses were still quite positive. Some what she still engages with me quite often. We are quite close that she tells me of her daily problems, we exchange sms and msn nearly every day.Close friends of mine said I stand a very gd chance somemore.Haix! I used the word illusion cause I juz knew the cruel truth Juz yesterday..
The happy and naïve me was always still harbouring hopes that I may stand a chance but now it seems it will never happen. Maybe that’s her,getting so close with me but only treat me as a fren to her.I dun even know where the hell do I stand in her heart among so many guys in her daily life.
Juz knew that she has a guy in mind and sheÂ’s kind of in the same situation like me,like how I like her.Totally taken aback coz she nv told me anything about this.I knew that she had rejected a guy who planned romantic birthday for her but never knew that sheÂ’s been liking this guy and she felt helpless sometimes when she dun get the reciprocated love. And from what I know,they can be together anytime.
I m rather confused to whether should I still confess to her although it seems that the chance of me getting her is like 10%?.. Cause she may not know that I like her as a girl NOT as a friend only, donÂ’t feel like giving up. Juz wanna bring my point and thoughts across. Being there for her and stuffs made me happy for so long.So,what should I do.. -
u need to stop being too nice coz u can't handle it.
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ur case is bad man,, ur gal seems too friendly with all guys and never know that they somehow give hope to guys who be too good with her..
pity man, ur case is over.. -
back off and give them your blessings.
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one thing u can do is that try to find out who she have in her mind,., try to dig out till she confess the guy she likes.. then u know.. game over.. no need be gentleman who make gifts for her anymore...
just stay out already when she already tell u the guy she like and its not u...
treating her nice like usual will only hurt u deeply... sigh... there are other gals ... ignore her liou -
i agree that i'm nice to her,always listen to her bring her stuff she needs without conditions.Originally posted by Zarks:one thing u can do is that try to find out who she have in her mind,., try to dig out till she confess the guy she likes.. then u know.. game over.. no need be gentleman who make gifts for her anymore...
just stay out already when she already tell u the guy she like and its not u...
treating her nice like usual will only hurt u deeply... sigh... there are other gals ... ignore her liou
but there's still this temptation to tell her that i love her very much. -
By exchanging SMS and MSN, who initiates the conversation first?
Do u and her go out often? In pair or in groups? Who calls who out? -
initial outings together...she was the one who initiated..subsequently..also,but i did ask her out also,but quite sway ,she everytime busy..Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:By exchanging SMS and MSN, who initiates the conversation first?
Do u and her go out often? In pair or in groups? Who calls who out?
sms n msn i was initiating actively in the beginning stage...wishing her well,chat..but it comes to a point that she will initiate msn coversation with me everyday without fail when i come online...to tok although we will be discussing the same few stuffs most of the time.. -
its a tat bit too late for confession.....dun do it
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is it possible that the "guy" she likes is actually u?Originally posted by F.raon.I.R:initial outings together...she was the one who initiated..subsequently..also,but i did ask her out also,but quite sway ,she everytime busy..
sms n msn i was initiating actively in the beginning stage...wishing her well,chat..but it comes to a point that she will initiate msn coversation with me everyday without fail when i come online...to tok although we will be discussing the same few stuffs most of the time..
Just tht she is too shy to admit?
btw, what do u 2 talk about? does she laugh at ur jokes? -
even u thought probably i have some hope,so can't really help the fact that i thought so all along ...but haix.It's confirmed,the guy isn't me.Some one else which i don't know much.Don't know face,study or working,age..maybe i should start popping up the question-"u fancy anyone now?'Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:is it possible that the "guy" she likes is actually u?
Just tht she is too shy to admit?
btw, what do u 2 talk about? does she laugh at ur jokes? -
The problem is not with her.
It is with you.
You have too high expectations.
Your friends also pumped you up abit.
You therefore are encouraged.
All this while she is clueless.
She is right in treating you as a friend.
You should review your expectations.
Treat her as a friend too.
Not as revenge, but because it is the way to go about these things.
I always wonder
why a boy can't seem to have a girl as an acquaintence. Girls must be girlfriend, or else heartbroken.
Girls don't seem to have that problem with boys.
What happened, boys, you're supposed to sow your wild oats.
You are supposed to have many girlfriends.
Now its the girls that have many boyfriends.
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LOLx like reading my own story...but i told her...she rejected me...still good friends now...Never regreted telling her...you should tell her...if not she never know...if you guys are true friends...i'm sure you'll still remain friendsOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:Juz canÂ’t bear to tell any of my friends,need a place to vent it out and it seems this is the only place
Feeling very down and sad now.IÂ’ve been liking this gal for 1 year already and IÂ’m very involved into her thinking about her everyday,miss her very much when I canÂ’t see her for a few days.Well,I muz say the actions,words that exsist between us create this illusion that I probably HAVE chance to be with her when finally 1 fine day I want to confess with her. IÂ’ve been dropping hints here and there and responses were still quite positive. Some what she still engages with me quite often. We are quite close that she tells me of her daily problems, we exchange sms and msn nearly every day.Close friends of mine said I stand a very gd chance somemore.Haix! I used the word illusion cause I juz knew the cruel truth Juz yesterday..
The happy and naïve me was always still harbouring hopes that I may stand a chance but now it seems it will never happen. Maybe that’s her,getting so close with me but only treat me as a fren to her.I dun even know where the hell do I stand in her heart among so many guys in her daily life.
Juz knew that she has a guy in mind and sheÂ’s kind of in the same situation like me,like how I like her.Totally taken aback coz she nv told me anything about this.I knew that she had rejected a guy who planned romantic birthday for her but never knew that sheÂ’s been liking this guy and she felt helpless sometimes when she dun get the reciprocated love. And from what I know,they can be together anytime.
I m rather confused to whether should I still confess to her although it seems that the chance of me getting her is like 10%?.. Cause she may not know that I like her as a girl NOT as a friend only, donÂ’t feel like giving up. Juz wanna bring my point and thoughts across. Being there for her and stuffs made me happy for so long.So,what should I do..
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your situation sound like him.... learn from him and maybe you can end up like him..... all the best
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Just tell her you like her. AT the most kena rejectOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:even u thought probably i have some hope,so can't really help the fact that i thought so all along ...but haix.It's confirmed,the guy isn't me.Some one else which i don't know much.Don't know face,study or working,age..maybe i should start popping up the question-"u fancy anyone now?'
Got many gal friends. They said that as gals are passive, if you don't tell them, you are only a very very good friend.
Once you ask, then they might think carefully about it.
I have several friends that actually confess to their gal friends, and some succeeded. Mostly its becoz after confession, the gals start to think and consider seriously. -
the guy likes her, she likes the guy...
advise u not to chup ji kar..
coz u will end up getting hurt. -
hey man ! i thought so...i watched this show already...really can relate to him..love this show lots too...Originally posted by NewAgeSensitiveBoy:your situation sound like him.... learn from him and maybe you can end up like him..... all the best -
wad is that show?
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heart of greed aka tang xin feng pao.Originally posted by cutie-pie:wad is that show?
well.It affected me so much so that i dun have the mood to talk to her in msn today.She felt something's bothering me but i told her i dun wanna tell her...still sms me telling me she's around for me.Haiz.Gd in the sense that she still cares,but only as a fren...probably she's thinking abt that guy also... -
If its really bothering you that much...tell her. I told her so that i'll stop thinking about herOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:heart of greed aka tang xin feng pao.
well.It affected me so much so that i dun have the mood to talk to her in msn today.She felt something's bothering me but i told her i dun wanna tell her...still sms me telling me she's around for me.Haiz.Gd in the sense that she still cares,but only as a fren...probably she's thinking abt that guy also...
If you dun want to damage this friendship...well think about it Cheer up, dude -
Well.. You must be hurting badOriginally posted by F.raon.I.R:heart of greed aka tang xin feng pao.
well.It affected me so much so that i dun have the mood to talk to her in msn today.She felt something's bothering me but i told her i dun wanna tell her...still sms me telling me she's around for me.Haiz.Gd in the sense that she still cares,but only as a fren...probably she's thinking abt that guy also...
( But to be honest you don't seem to have much of a chance wor. Haiz
But what you *can* do is to tell her... Then see if she can still be a worthy friend by judging her response, whether she still cares that you are hurting, etc.
However the most impt thing is that you realise, and accept the fact that you will be the one hurting and you must bear that pain and move on to better things! -
Since u like her, tell her..
Does she like u too?
Ask whether you have any chance?
Give her a period of time to think through.
Does she has feeling for u ?
Then the worst, she rejected u,
u can consider whether u still want to be her friend
Or u just continue be friend with her..
u confess to her.
what is the reactions?
did she say anything else?
dun think so much! -
see ur luck now... go temple pray... wait for gd chance then give her flower n confess...
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if u can take rejection, then give it a shot and confess....
if u can't, please go elsewhere to look...women are everywhere -
You need to be a begger because you know you can't be a miilionaire? What warped reasoning twat. LOLOLOL @ YOUOriginally posted by de_middle:u need to stop being too nice coz u can't handle it.