suffering from bully
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one of my fren complain to me tht he has been the bully victim by his friends..they like,always make fun and laugh at him, now his self-esteem has become very low..so he ask for my help..and now i ask 4 u guys 4 help,how to help this guy fight the bully they throw at him and stop people frm making fun of him..fyi, this guy is kinda shrewd kind of guy, a lil bit sissy, and kinda fat too..
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Ask him go go the gym
and train hard until like
Triple H
that will do the trick
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He's shrewed and you tell me he's a bully victim?
Come on, he can do better. He just need the right sparks. -
can i bully him?
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he asked u for help, com'on go help him...dun ask us
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can i bully him?
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Stay with him then if u are truly his friend.Originally posted by fareez:one of my fren complain to me tht he has been the bully victim by his friends..they like,always make fun and laugh at him, now his self-esteem has become very low..so he ask for my help..and now i ask 4 u guys 4 help,how to help this guy fight the bully they throw at him and stop people frm making fun of him..fyi, this guy is kinda shrewd kind of guy, a lil bit sissy, and kinda fat too..
He needs console at times like this. -
What is the activation energy he required?Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:He's shrewed and you tell me he's a bully victim?
Come on, he can do better. He just need the right sparks. -
Given his shrewdness, something will trigger that brain of his to think of some plans to fight back.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:What is the activation energy he required?
Fight doesn't mean physical fight... shrewd people don't fight physically... -
hw bout u tell him hw much u like abt singaporean girls and dat u're livin in borneo, sarawak, or wateva fark...
keep openin topics abt dat until he becomes more shrewd n pissed, den when he see those bullies he'll retaliate... -
this is the best formula, tried and tested by my friends.Originally posted by noahnoah:Ask him go go the gym
and train hard until like
Triple H
that will do the trick -
How old is your friend ?
People who put others down are the ones who have inferiority complex.
so ignore them.. find better friends. -
ever seen that episode of simpsons - The Homer They Fall? it's the way forward for all fat kids who get bullied, honestly. just don't let it turn into columbine that'd be a bit...
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TS, u tokin about yourself is it?
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Go seek help from ppl in a better position to resolve
Dun ever get into any confrontation -
Your friend need to toughen up.
I hate to be fatalistic, but think of it this way.
Your friend was made to be bullied, so that he'd wake up and toughen up for the life ahead.
He has to rise up to the challenge. Or he'll be a wimp all his life.
The best way to deal with bullies is to stand up to them.
Stand up to them. And if push comes to shove, fight!
Sometimes just a fierce stare is enough to end the problem. -
TS sounds primary school to me
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If I were TS's friend, I'll use psychological attack.Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Given his shrewdness, something will trigger that brain of his to think of some plans to fight back.
Fight doesn't mean physical fight... shrewd people don't fight physically... -
hey , who and what is TS?
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Thread starter.. duh...Originally posted by fareez:hey , who and what is TS?
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Work on raising that low self-steem first which seems to be the root of the problems because confidence in standing up to the bully is the best way to handle the bully. Alas, where got confidence to do this because of the low self-esteem?
A large part of that low self-esteem could probably be caused by being over-weight. Fat people are especially susceptible to this problem. If so, go work it out physically. When you are physically fitter, you will feel much better about yourself too. Best part is that confidence comes as a package!
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hey yeah,this is the best advice so far..alright,i will say this to him right away..but if there is any more good advice,just tell me ya..thanxOriginally posted by :Work on raising that low self-steem first which seems to be the root of the problems because confidence in standing up to the bully is the best way to handle the bully. Alas, where got confidence to do this because of the low self-esteem?
A large part of that low self-esteem could probably be caused by being over-weight. Fat people are especially susceptible to this problem. If so, go work it out physically. When you are physically fitter, you will feel much better about yourself too. Best part is that confidence comes as a package!
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he needs to fight back. seriously. or prolly just ignore em. they'll die down soon.
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if they are still his friends ... then he's either kong kam .... or he enjoys being bullied, no ? ...
life is very simple sometimes ....