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reject???
i can't reject my dad rite??
i can't reject my gf rite??
sitll have to do my own stuff...
den gf pms then have to pacify her..
my dad's comp sound got problem.. went to help him then found out he never switch on the speaker power and he expects me to switch it on for him.. i was like can't u switch it on urself!
feeling very tired.. haiz...
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sometimes it's not even the amount of work tat's killing me ..
it's the headaches..
i mean. my gf can help by giving me less headaches.. i'm trying so hard to pacify her le.. then wasted 1 whole nite just to pacify her.. end up din manage to do my work..
tehn nw she come telling me i dun need to send her home since i got work to do.. it's nt the time spent sending her home.. i dun mind sending her home.. i just hope that she can give me less trouble sometimes.
yet i think it's kinda stupid tat if she has trouble and doesn't look for me and instead look for someone else. i should be fullfilling my duties as a good bf.. yet sometimes i feel i just need to run away from everything!
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Originally posted by ahhaoz:sometimes it's not even the amount of work tat's killing me ..
it's the headaches..
i mean. my gf can help by giving me less headaches.. i'm trying so hard to pacify her le.. then wasted 1 whole nite just to pacify her.. end up din manage to do my work..
tehn nw she come telling me i dun need to send her home since i got work to do.. it's nt the time spent sending her home.. i dun mind sending her home.. i just hope that she can give me less trouble sometimes.
yet i think it's kinda stupid tat if she has trouble and doesn't look for me and instead look for someone else. i should be fullfilling my duties as a good bf.. yet sometimes i feel i just need to run away from everything!In a r/s situations can be really contradicting, but I think it would be good if you could just spell out your boundaries to her. Everything has its limits and boundaries so do you. Also, a little prudent time management might enhance your predicament too.
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Originally posted by ahhaoz:sometimes it's not even the amount of work tat's killing me ..
it's the headaches..
i mean. my gf can help by giving me less headaches.. i'm trying so hard to pacify her le.. then wasted 1 whole nite just to pacify her.. end up din manage to do my work..
tehn nw she come telling me i dun need to send her home since i got work to do.. it's nt the time spent sending her home.. i dun mind sending her home.. i just hope that she can give me less trouble sometimes.
yet i think it's kinda stupid tat if she has trouble and doesn't look for me and instead look for someone else. i should be fullfilling my duties as a good bf.. yet sometimes i feel i just need to run away from everything!what kinda trouble is she facing?
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In every successful boy, behind stand a supporting gf, if your gf is not supporting you and instead making trouble and uneasiness for you. u should reconsider your situation.
As for parents, you should be filial to them, remember how they brought you up, nevermind waking up late at nite feeding you, why is it that your Dad wanted to switch off something which he may not know and asked you for help, you make such a big issue out of it.
Remember Parents cannot be change, but gf or bf, wife and husband still can change ya.
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Since they come to you, you must be great or something or else they won't ask any help from you. If you dun want to help them just act humble can le.
If you help people stay with the mentality that Wo Bu Ru Di Yu Shui Ru Di Yu (if i dun go to else, who else will) ? Like that you will be more willing to do stuff when you are tired or something. But trust me you wouldn't like continue to help everybody.
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