I need a Guys Decoder
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1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ? -
1) You were not what he was expecting. After the first few sms he realize you fell short of his expectation or maybe you came on too strong you frighten him off with your replies.
2) Why wait for him to approach you first? You can always take the initiation and make the first move assuming you read his intention correctly. But if wrong hor just grin and bear it lor. -
u hw old oladi stil so hua chi.
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jus go wif feelings. In rship, dun gek gao so much
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1. he has found other targets or he is planning to ask u to join him in mlm.Originally posted by Sodalicious:
1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ?
2.who cares what he thinks. go talk to him, ask him questions etc. maybe one day in front of him, address your boss as "Mr. xxx" then he will get it one. but 1st thing is to find out if he is attached anot before making ur moves -
lame sia....NPNT.... -
Talk to him lah....
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i need a girls decoder...
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maybe he think ur boss is ur bf so he restrains himself from talking to you. so, now, the ball is in your court. you must make ur move on him so at least, he knows who that guy is and from there, he can do whatever hey may want to with you..Originally posted by Sodalicious:2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ?
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1. He test water and ... maybe it is too hot or too cold and he is looking for water that is just the right temperature...Originally posted by Sodalicious:
1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ?
2. Find a way/time to causally mention to him... hahaha, come to class with my boss is very uncomfortable... and he will like "huh?" and you will like, "that one sitting next to me lor... he is my boss... sianz... see him at work bad enough, still have to see him in class..." -
Got it, set and ready to use. Please encode now.Originally posted by kct360:i need a girls decoder... -
Which one you like...??Originally posted by Sodalicious:
1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ? -
u not only huachi. but also have a flirtatious mindset.
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tml going to work, u will receive a rhk in your face
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What is huachi?? funny word use here, i dun understand??Originally posted by dbowie:u not only huachi. but also have a flirtatious mindset. -
Here's another "assumption":Originally posted by Sodalicious:
1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ?
1. This guy just happened to lost his cell phone and too embarrassed to mention and even ask for your number again.
2. That look could be for another person at approx. around your angle?? and with your reservations and a little conservative on your end I probably think you will need to wait out on both ends. -
exchanging looks at each other also counted as interest?
wow. ok. -
Just go and open your mouth. "hi! I've noticed you have been beo-ing me for quite a while or was it my boss you were beo-ing?"
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Yes exchanging look on more then one occasion and with smile on it is as good as saying, HI with eye alone.Originally posted by Pitot:exchanging looks at each other also counted as interest?
wow. ok. -
i will look at anyone if im bored. or not. actually, i just like to look around and stare at people. if that person looks like someone i know, chances are, i'll stare more and for a longer period of time cos i wanna try to remember who he/she reminds me of.
must u iways sit next to your boss??? next time sit next to him then u can start talking. or one day u can choose to 'meet' him at the door and say hi and erm...start talking.
as for the guy who msged u....depends on what he msged u abt. but i dun like pple who get my info without asking me. -
TS frightened by the overwhelmong responce?
Or are u confused whether all of us is interested in u? -
what do you want in the 1st place
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Originally posted by dibilo:1. he has found other targets or he is planning to ask u to join him in mlm.
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lol i could very well be that guy who asked u your no.Originally posted by Sodalicious:
1. This guy asked for my contact number thru my staff, but why didnt he constantly sms me ??? i mean he just sms a few n then stopped. Does it mean he is not interested or he just take my number for record keeping?
2. I have a liking of a guy in my night class. we xchange eye contacts alot. The prob here is, i guess he is afraid to talk to me, cos my boss is sitting beside me during the class. But he doesnt know thats my boss, not my bf.
I am also very reserved to talk to him... if then, how can we progress from such situation ?
ok i've got ur no, i sms and the reply was luke warm, so i couldn't and dunno wat to say to u anymore, if you could just show a little initiative and sms first for at least 1 time i would be happy to know that u don't mind chatting wif me at all, makes sense?
u see, to me good conversation is 2 ways. can't expect the guys to talk all the time rite? i personally would feel that i'm an irritating person talking to someone who doesn't response to wat u talk.
ps i'm not that guy u gave the no to, i was not in any classes at all. it's just that i'm trying to help u "decode" the guy from my real life experience
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1) after a few sms, he find that you are not his type.
2) Try to be alone in front of him like maybe shake your boss off for a while when he is around. If he really interested, he would initiate, else you go ahead and talk to him first lor. like ask for notes or something...