how to reject a girl?
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there is a girl who likes me but i hv no feelings for her?
should i reject her straight away or give her a chance? -
give her a chance... but giving her a chance doesnt mean u all go steady and develop feelings..
tell her directly... be straightforward.... so as to not hurt her feelings..
tell her that u got no feelings for her and that u r willing to find that feeling loh -
just ignore her. She'll get tired of it
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most gals hate guys to the core when they r rejected directly in their face. love will turn to hate dat they will do any means to make guys pay for rejecting them.
try beating the bush by giving her some false hope. entertain her but not making first move or active. find excuse like u r busy if she try to date u. sooner or later she will become very tired n focus on somebody else. -
I hate it when guys beat about the bush or give false hope. I feel very cheated in the end. Much better to tell it straight (but tactfully). Otherwise just lie that you already have a girlfriend, or you can run when you see her (ie I just remembered I gotta go) a few times and surely she will get it.
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Or if you want to keep it neutral, just no reaction. No agreement to dates but no rejection either.
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1) you are not interested in a relationship right nowOriginally posted by RSM:there is a girl who likes me but i hv no feelings for her?
should i reject her straight away or give her a chance?
2) she's better than you
3) let's just be friends
choose one of the above. these are the lines that girls use. you can use it back on them. girls can reject guys and guys can reject girls as well.
if you don't like her don't waste her time.
doko -
just dont show any interest or lead her on.
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I don't think you should reject outright to the stage that the both of you cannot be platonic friends.
Just make your stand, that you can be her friend but nothing further so as not to lead her on. There are ways to make ppl see that and I am sure you do not lack that.
Besides it is better to have an additional friend than a foe. -
Seat down and talk with her. face to face.
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Last but not least give her a friendship hug. Which is appopriate to me.
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ignorance is bliss.
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x2Originally posted by 798:most gals hate guys to the core when they r rejected directly in their face. love will turn to hate dat they will do any means to make guys pay for rejecting them.
try beating the bush by giving her some false hope. entertain her but not making first move or active. find excuse like u r busy if she try to date u. sooner or later she will become very tired n focus on somebody else. -
RSM,
The best way to reject a girl is be honest and be discreet.
She also has a pride, and you shouldn't reject her in the presence of anybody.
Privately, just tell her " You are a nice girl, but you are not my type."
Do not let anyone know you rejected her. Because words will get around and gossips/rumours actually hurts more than truth.
If anyone who knows about the issue asks, tell them " WE decided to be friends." -
Pinch her butt and say, "You, me, sex tonight. No? Then get the fuck off my face."
Do it the alpha way!
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Never Say Never!
No feelings for her now doesn't mean no feelings forever........ You just never know!
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yes, i have this question too. For boys out there who have been in relationships, please give us examples of how to reject a girl. and make sure it's short and nice
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its not you. its me.
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send her for defaulter's paradeOriginally posted by RSM:there is a girl who likes me but i hv no feelings for her?
should i reject her straight away or give her a chance? -
should say, "u r a nice gal, but i am not worthly for u, there r better guys out there for u to choose..."Originally posted by jojobeach:RSM,
The best way to reject a girl is be honest and be discreet.
She also has a pride, and you shouldn't reject her in the presence of anybody.
Privately, just tell her " You are a nice girl, but you are not my type."
Do not let anyone know you rejected her. Because words will get around and gossips/rumours actually hurts more than truth.
If anyone who knows about the issue asks, tell them " WE decided to be friends."
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You think girls can't see through this type of lame excuse ?Originally posted by 798:should say, "u r a nice gal, but i am not worthly for u, there r better guys out there for u to choose..."
If you don't want to hurt the girl more, you really shouldn't use this kind of sub intellectual response to her heartfelt confessions.
So please, the only stupid thing the girl did was fall for you........
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trust me, if they r wise enough, they should be backing off.Originally posted by jojobeach:You think girls can't see through this type of lame excuse ?
If you don't want to hurt the girl more, you really shouldn't use this kind of sub intellectual response to her heartfelt confessions.
So please, the only stupid thing the girl did was fall for you........
try saying nasty things to reject women, u may have to face the worst outcomes when their pride is scattered. -
just say sorry, you dont have any feelings towards her except for friendship. take note of your tone when rejecting her.
dont start a relationship with her when you do not even have a liking for her. if the relationship doesnt work out, you may come across as a player leading her on. -
well, sometime u never know gossips n rumours can be work against u even u may be keeping quiet.Originally posted by jojobeach:Do not let anyone know you rejected her. Because words will get around and gossips/rumours actually hurts more than truth.
a rejected gal wif a vengence might twisted the facts n gave her version of story dat u r the one getting the rejection instead. in this kinda society, most pple will rather trust a gal than a guy.
so better dun reject n offence a gal directly. the price is too costly. -
Is it such a big deal to let the whole world know who rejected who ?Originally posted by 798:well, sometime u never know gossips n rumours can be work against u even u may be keeping quiet.
a rejected gal wif a vengence might twisted the facts n gave her version of story dat u r the one getting the rejection instead. in this kinda society, most pple will rather trust a gal than a guy.
so better dun reject n offence a gal directly. the price is too costly.
So you rejected a gal, do you go around telling everyone YOU rejected her ?
So what if people think she is the one who rejected you ? People who knows you knows who to trust.