why am i always the person people avoid?
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sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its like they can still communicate with others but NOT me. i confront them and they always say its not my problem. so whose problem is it? theirs? i have no idea why.. is it with my personality that i talk too much or something.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help! -
Block you? in MSN?
I block several of my friends due to some reasons like propagating their religion, spam when I am online, over proud, etc. -
lol.. u have other friends right ?Originally posted by pinkroses:sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its like they can still communicate with others but NOT me. i confront them and they always say its not my problem. so whose problem is it? theirs? i have no idea why.. is it with my personality that i talk too much or something.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help!
it is not like you are always blocked. -
dun get bothered by it too much
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come on, don tink too much.
ur fine
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Another mid life crisis....
they block you... you block them all back lor.... fair what... -
Face it.
YOU SUCK. -
we duno u leh.
how do u expect us to tell u why? -
need to understand more.Originally posted by pinkroses:sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its like they can still communicate with others but NOT me. i confront them and they always say its not my problem. so whose problem is it? theirs? i have no idea why.. is it with my personality that i talk too much or something.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help!
Did you do anything that annoys them? -
Its not your problem.
Really. -
I block those who always come online and talk wu liao things with me when we have nothing in common. But it could be they are not your friends at all..no point being sad over it.
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Maybe you're annoying and your friends aren't really your friends, you just thought they were and in reality they actually dislike you. No they're not anti-social they just don't like you.
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becoz u is a pink rose which is nice to see but get hurt when kena the thorn..
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I block those who are irritating
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Many reason...Why people blocked....
Friends dont like you for many reasons...Most of the time it leads to jealousy -
Heck care meh/.
Ignore ignore lo.
Keep moving forward ba. -
hmm...what i can say is that the more you mind this, the more they will block you...Originally posted by pinkroses:sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its like they can still communicate with others but NOT me. i confront them and they always say its not my problem. so whose problem is it? theirs? i have no idea why.. is it with my personality that i talk too much or something.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help!
life is not only about msning...they maybe sweet talkers but dun mean anything they say also...
you may not be the most popular person in the world...but so what...they want to block then block lo...it may not be ur fault also...
if its really affecting you a lot, then dun msn lo...people dun usually mean wat they say on msn anyways...
Keep your chin up! -
maybe u're not a chatty person?
maybe they got attitude problem.
aiyah, in some point, bounds to have ple who blocked u.
maybe u will block someone in future or oredi blocked b4.
block better than ugly confrontation ma..
relac la. -
....ya...and also maybe you got attitude problems, maybe your mouth stink, or maybe you body odour smell bad, or maybe you like to say bad about others, or maybe you got no money.
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BTW, some people may also be very popular and say very sweet words until everybody wants to talk to them on msn...but then they dun mean wat they say also.Originally posted by pinkroses:sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its like they can still communicate with others but NOT me. i confront them and they always say its not my problem. so whose problem is it? theirs? i have no idea why.. is it with my personality that i talk too much or something.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help!
u want to be like that meh? -
well, the thing is, we are good friends and we used to share everything. and i dun annoy them seriously. we used to be good at least in my point of view.. we shared secrets etc etc. real life friends, not friends you meet online for those who thought so.
and yes, like what some of you say, i may suck. yea. whatever. i just asked for advice. you dun have to flame me.. you dun even noe me. -
Since they say it is not your fault, then take it as it. Why complicated things here?
You might consider them as good friends but they probably don't.
If you still bothered with it, ask your friends who know u. -
huh? i didnt flame u le, did i? anyway, i also got a fren who is like that. we were good frens and also shared jokes etc...later i left for studies, but still in the same co as part-time. however, she overnight changed & everytime i try to talk to her, she always say she busy...but she always chatting up with her new colleagues around her...Originally posted by pinkroses:well, the thing is, we are good friends and we used to share everything. and i dun annoy them seriously. we used to be good at least in my point of view.. we shared secrets etc etc. real life friends, not friends you meet online for those who thought so.
and yes, like what some of you say, i may suck. yea. whatever. i just asked for advice. you dun have to flame me.. you dun even noe me.
looking back, i think some pple are naturally very close to pple who are around her also...but at that pt u may mistakenly think they treat u as good fren...but she is good frens with those who are around her...if u left, then u are no good fren anymore...its difference in perspective...as u said, from ur point of view. from their pt of view, they may just take it as a form of entertainment. if there are more fun pple out there, they forget all abt u liao.
BTW, she blocked me also...anyway, i also blocked her back...dun demean urself...
of course, there maybe a million maybes in the world...
the best advice i think i can give u is this -
dun initiate contact with them anymore. if they want to talk to u, ok. otherwise, just bochap abt them. life is not only abt these pple, ok?
dun try to find out the reason why. coz u will never know. [period] -
Originally posted by pinkroses:
sorry missed out on this. perhaps if u dun have anything urgent to talk abt in msn...go out and directly talk with frens la...no need msn
sorry guys, i am bothered by something so decided to come here during my break from work to type this.. i just found out that another of my friend [b]blocks me because she feels anti-social. previously, another good fren of mine did this to me too.
its very annoying and i hate it. someone help![/b] -
huh, no. you didn't. someone above above. thanks for trying to explain =D Appreciate it.Originally posted by teddybear10:huh? i didnt flame u le, did i? anyway, i also got a fren who is like that. we were good frens and also shared jokes etc...later i left for studies, but still in the same co as part-time. however, she overnight changed & everytime i try to talk to her, she always say she busy...but she always chatting up with her new colleagues around her...
looking back, i think some pple are naturally very close to pple who are around her also...but at that pt u may mistakenly think they treat u as good fren...but she is good frens with those who are around her...if u left, then u are no good fren anymore...its difference in perspective...as u said, from ur point of view. from their pt of view, they may just take it as a form of entertainment. if there are more fun pple out there, they forget all abt u liao.
BTW, she blocked me also...anyway, i also blocked her back...dun demean urself...
of course, there maybe a million maybes in the world...
the best advice i think i can give u is this -
dun initiate contact with them anymore. if they want to talk to u, ok. otherwise, just bochap abt them. life is not only abt these pple, ok?
dun try to find out the reason why. coz u will never know. [period]
I understand but perhaps i am just sensitive and very perfectionist that i like things to be the way i want them to be =D