Dilemma..

• Parity

  27 Nov 07, 03:25

  There's Girl A and Girl B. I've known both for around 3-4 months.
  
  I am quite close to Girl A, we spend lots of time in school together, and I can tell that she likes me cause she always me ask to go out together(Just 2 of us) and she drops hints there n there. I feel very comfortable with her and enjoying spending time with her, but everytime I'm with her i can't feel that kind of special feeling for her.
  
  Girl B is pretty distant from me, in sense that i get to see her during lessons now and then, and we do talk sometimes on MSN/SMS, but i can't even say i know her really well. But problem is compared to Girl A who is quite close to me, I feel like i really like Girl B, like i keep thinking about her and even though i'm not even close to her.
  
  Should I just try to stop having contact with Girl B and try to develop feelings for Girl A, maybe someday I will start having feelings for her too?
  
  Or should I just try to ask out Girl B? Which is like super risky(or even stupid) cause i don't even know her well? I thought about trying to get close to her as a friend, but doesn't seem anything i can do without being damn obvious that i like her.
• Hello Kitty

  27 Nov 07, 04:05

  dun like ppl, dun waste ppl's youth.
  
  ppl dun like u, dun waste ppl's time.
• Darkness_hacker99

  27 Nov 07, 05:22

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  dun like ppl, dun waste ppl's youth.
  
  ppl dun like u, dun waste ppl's time.

  x2.
• Hello Kitty

  27 Nov 07, 05:33

  darkieeeeeeeeee
  
  wo hao xiang ni wor!
• popikachu

  27 Nov 07, 07:49

  You can't force yourself to like A also right?
  Then just treat her as a good friend bah...
  Or make it clear to her that you both are just close friends...
  
  For B, why not give it a try? you will never know ^^
• Darkness_hacker99

  27 Nov 07, 17:14

  Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

  darkieeeeeeeeee
  
  wo hao xiang ni wor!

  Me too..
  
  Just now I dreamt of you..
• EarlNeo

  27 Nov 07, 17:21

  Lol... ppl normally like what they couldnt land their hands on. When u got what u initially thought u couldnt have, will that feeling still remain the same?
  
• de_middle

  27 Nov 07, 17:47

  after spending so much time with A, still no special feelings.....then no point
  for B, u can always try...never know till proven
• Hello Kitty

  27 Nov 07, 19:01

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Me too..
  
  Just now I dreamt of you..

  wat dream.
  
  pm me leh.
  
  
• teddybear10

  27 Nov 07, 19:16

  Originally posted by Parity:

  There's Girl A and Girl B. I've known both for around 3-4 months.
  
  I am quite close to Girl A, we spend lots of time in school together, and I can tell that she likes me cause she always me ask to go out together(Just 2 of us) and she drops hints there n there. I feel very comfortable with her and enjoying spending time with her, but everytime I'm with her i can't feel that kind of special feeling for her.
  
  Girl B is pretty distant from me, in sense that i get to see her during lessons now and then, and we do talk sometimes on MSN/SMS, but i can't even say i know her really well. But problem is compared to Girl A who is quite close to me, I feel like i really like Girl B, like i keep thinking about her and even though i'm not even close to her.
  
  Should I just try to stop having contact with Girl B and try to develop feelings for Girl A, maybe someday I will start having feelings for her too?
  
  Or should I just try to ask out Girl B? Which is like super risky(or even stupid) cause i don't even know her well? I thought about trying to get close to her as a friend, but doesn't seem anything i can do without being damn obvious that i like her.

  You still in school? Concentrate on studies!
  
  Talk on MSN/SMS doesnt necessary mean anything. Some pple when they talk on MSN/SMS like really very close friends with you, but they may not mean anything u know...Its possible that the way she talks makes u like her a lot...
• Uncertain

  27 Nov 07, 19:35

  Actually, it is better to be loved than to love
  
  But loving someone u desire, can be more fulfilling
  
  So is up to u to choose between the upper and the lower sentence.
• FBI

  27 Nov 07, 20:10

  take the girl that is most suitable for u.
• Resentment

  27 Nov 07, 20:16

  Remember TS no matter what choice u make , we will always behind u!! YOU WILL NEVER WALK ALONE.
• Ferret

  27 Nov 07, 20:19

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Me too..
  
  Just now I dreamt of you..

  
• qrex

  27 Nov 07, 20:21

  give girl B a shot, u never know. however, once u do get her to be ur gf, ur feelings towards her might change.
• Nadare

  27 Nov 07, 20:49

  One thing; cherish those who love u.
• evilsars

  27 Nov 07, 22:30

  been loved = blessed
  love someone = curse
  so make ur mind up...
  
  
• ghast.

  2 Dec 07, 07:42

  haiyo, pretty obvious you don't rly have interest in girl A then just forget it lo. but since u like girl B, try lo. but i must agree that. msn/sms expresses different meanings, don't use it excessively to communicate to the girl you like despite its convenience.