one thing you must learn is that... things change and you must focus on how you cope with the change... how you accept the change and how you move on.... don't look back girl... keep moving on forward...Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too?
If you're a girl and you're starting to wonder whether or not he does, chances are your instincts say he probably does.Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too?
Huh, haven't gone out before???, well, it still a long way to go sister, yr guy is getting grown up, try to go out more often and build on it, phone and mail get you no where if you dun meet up. And finally like is not love ya.Originally posted by ghast.:we used to chat kinda comfortably and for really long hours, probably night till morning. but that night we chat only 2 hours and it just didn't feel right lo. awkward replies. we seldom meet and we haven't gone out before
The way you speak to a friend is very different from the way you speak to someone you like.Originally posted by popikachu:"things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore."
weird as in?
move on. Find other guys. No point chasing him.Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too?
That is where the problem begin.Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:nebermind
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wad???Originally posted by angel7030:That is where the problem begin.![]()