what should i do now
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i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too? -
"things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore."
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we used to chat kinda comfortably and for really long hours, probably night till morning. but that night we chat only 2 hours and it just didn't feel right lo. awkward replies. we seldom meet and we haven't gone out before
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*shrugz*
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one thing you must learn is that... things change and you must focus on how you cope with the change... how you accept the change and how you move on.... don't look back girl... keep moving on forward...Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too? -
If you're a girl and you're starting to wonder whether or not he does, chances are your instincts say he probably does.Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too?
Who initiates a contact more often?
An boy who likes you will be interested in finding more about you, does he give you attention when you're hanging out? Or does he only talk about himself all the time?
Is he self conscious and nervous around you? Or is he completely relaxed as though you're his buddy? -
If u are decent-looking and very good personality when u are with him, then u stand a good chance. Most guy wants to have an understanding and loving gf and not one who grumbles and kpkb all day long one.
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Huh, haven't gone out before???, well, it still a long way to go sister, yr guy is getting grown up, try to go out more often and build on it, phone and mail get you no where if you dun meet up. And finally like is not love ya.Originally posted by ghast.:we used to chat kinda comfortably and for really long hours, probably night till morning. but that night we chat only 2 hours and it just didn't feel right lo. awkward replies. we seldom meet and we haven't gone out before -
The way you speak to a friend is very different from the way you speak to someone you like.Originally posted by popikachu:"things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore."
weird as in?
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sad to say..tht might maybe means he's just using u to kill his time..
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he has lost interest, dun wait anymore
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move on. Find other guys. No point chasing him.Originally posted by ghast.:i have this male friend. we met since i started secondary school. we chat sometimes online, not regularly but just voluntarily when we see each other online but it isn't too often. probably once or twice a month or sometimes even lesser. i realised i developed some liking for him. but he's some sorta introverted guy, kinda "shy" and quiet. sometimes i feel like he does show some sorta interest for me but then again, he probably shows such interests for other girl friends. i don't know how to find out if i'm really special to him. he said he coincidentally "waited" for me after my working shift the other day and when we chatted online that very night, things turned out really weird and we didn't speak like before anymore. i was really sad.
what should i do? i don't know if i want to take it further between us because he is a really good friend and i don't want to lose the good friendship we've built up over the years. but i do know that i really like him. how do i know if he does or does not too?
Find someone who is more outspoken, cause I'd dated someone who was an introvert. It was really boring! -
just cheekily ask him " eh, do u have any gf now ? "
see if he got reply lor... if he say yes,
den u prepare for the worst lor -
nebermind
i still here
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Perhaps there was something on his mind. Give him a week or so to sort it out.
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That is where the problem begin.Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:nebermind
i still here 
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think bout how u feel as if he is in your place. one of u must act instead of thinking too much.. grow up
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wad???Originally posted by angel7030:That is where the problem begin. -
Have a good talk with him.