... or LOVE the person who love you? choose one

who love you

it has to be both way.

love the person i love and who loves me.

me rather choose the one who makes me feel loved.

the first cos that insinuates the love's both ways

Originally posted by Hello Kitty:

me rather choose the one who makes me feel loved.

Its hard nowadays to find someone who makes you feel loved besides your flesh and blood. So the 2nd option indeed is the right choice in my opinon

Originally posted by felirox:

Its hard nowadays to find someone who makes you feel loved besides your flesh and blood. So the 2nd option indeed is the right choice in my opinon

tt true... but since u dun like the person, y must you still carry on a relationship with him?? cuz i tink its nt fair to treat a person who love you, this way... its like hurting the other party.. haaa

Love the person whom you truly love, and loves you.

One sided love, be it from you or the other party, results in tragedy

it'll be much easier to be loved

who love u

hahahahaha wtf?? is it possible to NOT love the person you love?

You should hate the person you love ya, my mom used to scold my Dad, "I hate you" but actually it is love. Hate=Love too ya.

I hate u because u make me love u. I hate u, i hate u!!! but to us gal actually it means I love u!! i love u!!!.

in any rs. it takes both answers… whoever choose only one answer really need to grow up

Originally posted by angel7030:

You should hate the person you love ya, my mom used to scold my Dad, "I hate you" but actually it is love. Hate=Love too ya.

I hate u because u make me love u. I hate u, i hate u!!! but to us gal actually it means I love u!! i love u!!!.

I think sometimes this one of the primary reasons that a r/s breaksdown. What is said is always perceived differently.

Sometimes I just wished that life would be simpler if we really learn to say what is in our heart and mean what we say.

Again, humans just like to be deceptive and complicated sometimes. To the extent we don't even understand ourselves.

Originally posted by aremeis:

I think sometimes this one of the primary reasons that a r/s breaksdown. What is said is always perceived differently.

Sometimes I just wished that life would be simpler if we really learn to say what is in our heart and mean what we say.

Again, humans just like to be deceptive and complicated sometimes. To the extent we don't even understand ourselves.

That is why u must be smart in love too, there are alot of emotions and sensitivities in love relationship, one wrong connection will black out the whole relationship.

So, in love relationship, words can be perceiving, dun trust them completely because exchange of words can destroy a relation even tho deep inside both of them, there lies the love. Go for the feeling, talk less, make love and be happy. If you said you love me, I will ask you how much, can you descirbe it? can you count it? can you prove it? can you show it?

The answer is no, you will never give a satisfactory answer because love is a feeling, words dun come easy to substitute it.

feeling loved is important but loving someone is more fulfilling. communication is really very important in r/s. sometimes words are perceived wrongly, especially in msn and sms where ur tone cannot be understood perfectly.

hahahahaha wtf?? is it possible to NOT love the person you love?

hey jondizzle...yes its possible though nt in a literal sense...its called loving love...u enter a r/s purely cos of wad tat person did in ur life n nt cos of who the person is...so in a semse u r NT loving the person u love cos while u enjoy being wif him/her, ultimately, its the pampering, care n concern the person show towards u tat causes u to 'love' him/her...

nw i am nt saying tat we shldnt choose someone who treat us well...in fact we shld...wad i am saying here is we shld nt enter a r/s solely based on the fact tat the person love us but we shld also consider whether do we love the person in return...a r/s has to be 2-way traffic...if onli 1 party is doing the loving, the other is doing all the receiving...then its NT a r/s...

its also impt to note tat love is nt juz a feeling...its also a choice...while u feel loved by someone, tat love must be reciprocated by u making a choice to love in return...wads also impt is tat there r counterfeits for love...u must be careful for they r very close to the actual thing(love)...they come in 3 basic forms: 1) gratitude, 2) affection, 3) lust...the one thing these 3 have in common is tat they r all based on feelings alone...but love has one extra element, which is choice...

u may like to go to the forum: Deeper Truths n read up from a thread titled: is there love at 1st sight???

no one loves me..

for those interested to noe more abt love...check tis out...http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=221569

Originally posted by despondent:

hey jondizzle...yes its possible though nt in a literal sense...its called loving love...u enter a r/s purely cos of wad tat person did in ur life n nt cos of who the person is...so in a semse u r NT loving the person u love cos while he enjoy being wif him/her, ultimately, its the pampering, care n concern the person show towards u tat causes u to 'love' him/her...

nw i am nt saying tat we shldnt choose someone who treat us well...in fact we shld...wad i am saying here is we shld nt enter a r/s solely based on the fact tat the person love us but we shld also consider whether do we love the person in return...a r/s has to be 2-way traffic...if onli 1 party is doing the loving, the other is doing all the receiving...then its NT a r/s...

its also impt to note tat love is nt juz a feeling...its also a choice...while u feel loved by someone, tat love must be reciprocated by u making a choice to love in return...wads also impt is tat there r counterfeits for love...u must be careful for they r very close to the actual thing(love)...they come in 3 basic forms: 1) gratitude, 2) affection, 3) lust...the one thing these 3 have in common is tat they r all based on feelings alone...but love has one extra element, which is choice...

u may like to go to the forum: Deeper Truths n read up from a thread titled: is there love at 1st sight???

Oh right...so it's pretty much not REALLY loving the person you love

Originally posted by akinos:

no one loves me..

Including you, Yourself?? Do you love yourself??

Lesson 1. If you want to love or be love, you must first learn to love yourself ya.

Originally posted by angel7030:

Including you, Yourself?? Do you love yourself??

Lesson 1. If you want to love or be love, you must first learn to love yourself ya.

you are rite love yourself=confidence.. with confidence, ppl 'cai bu hui kan bu qi ni'..

See who she is first lo.

To Love is Better than To Be Loved

To Love is Better than To Be Loved

tats a gd statement...sadly, many choose to believe tat to be loved is better than to love...cos to love means to give but to be loved means to receive...ppl would rather receive than to give leading to loving love n bad, unhealthy r/s...

in fact the very meaning of love is to give, to sacrifice...so if one enters a r/s solely cos of wad the other party has done for him/her instead of who the other party is, is tat love???