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How old is ur sis? and how many week have she miss her period? There is a lot of helpline ard, just search on google and give them a ring from a public phone. I am sure they are the best person ur sis should talk to.
Just make sure ur sis dont do anything silly. She is lucky to have a caring sibling like u.
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Y have unprotected sex in the VERY FIRST PLACE? ur sis is punished for her folly that she will not get pregnant.
My advice to u is tell ur sis to tell ur mum. At worst, she will just scold and at most whack her. Dun be foolish to solve the thing by urself, u all are too young to bear another consequences. Be brave to admit mistake and remember ur parents won't kill u but will be extremely upset though.
I am certain ur parents will help u and ur sis out as u all are a family afterall. What done is done. What matters now is to admit ur mistake and most importantly learned from it. Gd luck
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Originally posted by botanyao:hey got to help my sis....anyone know whr in sg cn get abortion...thanks
Hi botanyao,
If you can provide us more details about your sister, forumers here may a clearer idea on what kind of advice she'll need.
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If I'm not wrong, there is no age limit for abortion in Singapore, but if your sister is below 16, she has to undergo counseling before obtaining a certificate.
Only with that certificate can your sister undergo legal abortion in Singapore. For this she should go to the Health Promotion Board Counseling Center (6435 3143).
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The level of danger increases as your sister's pregnancy progresses. How far along is she? Is she 3 months or 6 months pregnant?
What about your dad or mum? Abortion costs can range from $300 - $2000. Where will you guys find the money? Who will be the best person to take care of your sister when she is weak and recovering from the procedure?
These are the questions you might want to think about before you take any action.
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Hmm. I think none of us here can give advice on whether the baby should be kept or not. Even though it's a life, but giving birth to a baby unprepared and not being able to provide a good family to me is just as bad. You have to weight the pros and cons.
No matter what, most important is to find a good doctor if abortion is the decision. Your sis life is very important and abortion can be dangerous if not properly done and it might even affect her future's fertility issues.
Please consult a professional consellor if need be.
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If I am not wrong, polyclinics or public hospitals do conduct abortions for couples (with nothing told to their parents).
Although I am highly anti-abortion, if it's a must, please just go to polyclinics or public hospitals and get a legal abortion done.
In any case, may the little soul rest in peace and do not repeat the mistake.
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I think that it is unwise to do this alone.
Her parents has the right to know. Yes they have the right to be angry and disappointed but to assume that they will KILL her is RIDICULOUS.
Anyway, if she decides to abort the sooner you get the parents to be involved the better it is. Abortions are never pleasant and if it is not done properly there will be traumatic dire consequences. So do not treat this trivaly.
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Originally posted by aluvguru:Hmm. I think none of us here can give advice on whether the baby should be kept or not. Even though it's a life, but giving birth to a baby unprepared and not being able to provide a good family to me is just as bad. You have to weight the pros and cons.
No matter what, most important is to find a good doctor if abortion is the decision. Your sis life is very important and abortion can be dangerous if not properly done and it might even affect her future's fertility issues.
Please consult a professional consellor if need be.
You can always give up the baby to other family who wanted children but unable to.
Please do not kill a life.
My mom would have aborted me, but decided to give me to my grandparents.
If she had chosen to kill me instead, I wouldn't be here to live a life at all.
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Originally posted by botanyao:my sis is still a student no choice and my parents will kill her if they know so..pls help my sis..
Are u so sure she is having a baby? Check it out ya.
As a student below 18yo, you need parents or guardian approval for abortion in a legal clinic or hospital.
If you want illegal ones, go geyland.
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Hi all, first post
To TS,
This should help you
http://www.flowerpod.com.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=12810
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Haaayyyy.... not virgin anymore.... but if you are really the brother you can help your sister to tell your parents about your sister's problem. I am also a parent whatever happen to my children I must be the first one to know. If worst comes to worst you will be the first to be blame and you will live with it in your whole life.
Are u the brother or bf... if you are the bf... it's time to be a man. Face your responsibility...
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dun get
an arbortion.
