shld u end a BGR??

• subaru67

  4 Dec 07, 15:09

  will u all end a bgr if yr partner is constantly being very imature abt her thinking in love life... like always wanting things to go her ways etc?
• selfobliged

  4 Dec 07, 15:12

  yes. wait for her to grow up
• gigabyte14

  4 Dec 07, 15:15

  tell the xmm to fark off
• subaru67

  4 Dec 07, 15:30

  but if u really like her how? haiz... i know its not gd for a bgr to ren all the way as sometimes it will explode but... i really at a lost...
• rainee

  4 Dec 07, 15:34

  Originally posted by subaru67:

  but if u really like her how? haiz... i know its not gd for a bgr to ren all the way as sometimes it will explode but... i really at a lost...

  How old are the two of you? And how long have you been together?
  
  And in what way has she been immature? Does it happen often?
• de_middle

  4 Dec 07, 15:54

  more details
• caleb_chiang

  4 Dec 07, 15:55

  Wat to do... you must always complete what you started... so end it lor...
• gunner77

  4 Dec 07, 16:12

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  tell the xmm to fark off

  x2
• selfobliged

  4 Dec 07, 16:13

  Originally posted by subaru67:

  but if u really like her how? haiz... i know its not gd for a bgr to ren all the way as sometimes it will explode but... i really at a lost...

  try to talk to her.
• angel7030

  4 Dec 07, 16:15

  Originally posted by subaru67:

  will u all end a bgr if yr partner is constantly being very imature abt her thinking in love life... like always wanting things to go her ways etc?

  Please hor, dun she she here and there, you as a guy maybe the one who is immature to post here saying about your partner, want end , end lor, no big deal.
• sLeEpWaLkErInG

  4 Dec 07, 16:15

  in the first place, y did u choose her, cos she got good figure or nice face?
  
  come'on, be true about it, TS..
• rainee

  4 Dec 07, 16:45

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Please hor, dun she she here and there, you as a guy maybe the one who is immature to post here saying about your partner, want end , end lor, no big deal.

  Post here doesn't mean immature ma
• gigabyte14

  4 Dec 07, 16:46

  she has the mentality of a xmm
• Detached

  4 Dec 07, 17:09

  Sadly, people are forever looking for an easy way out. If she is childish and all, why did you even commit yourself to this relationship?
  
  Don't cook up excuses like "She wasn't like that" or "I didn't know", I don't think that speaks very well for you too.
  
  TS should seek to help each other grow in a relationship; criticizing and finding faults serve no good.
  
  If one lacks tolerance and acceptance, I wouldn't be surprised if he will fail every single r/s.
  
  And remember, if you judge people... you have no time to love them...
  
  
• hisoka

  4 Dec 07, 17:10

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  tell the xmm to fark off

  cannot lah wait sued for sexual harrassment how?
• angel7030

  4 Dec 07, 17:15

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  she has the mentality of a xmm

  And you, XDD mentality.
• angel7030

  4 Dec 07, 17:21

  Originally posted by rainee:

  Post here doesn't mean immature ma

  If I will to love a boy, i will not post on his back about his condition and personality, perhap I will only post to ask question about how to go about a r/s or he is seeing someone etc etc...but I will definitely no expose his characteristics, we choose our partner with eyes open, not close, if you find her/him damn childish, just leave her lor, but if you love her, live with it lor.
  And we are only hearing his side of naive views, what about his gf side of the story???
• hisoka

  4 Dec 07, 17:23

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  If I will to love a boy, i will not post on his back about his condition and personality, perhap I will only post to ask question about how to go about a r/s or he is seeing someone etc etc...but I will definitely no expose his characteristics, we choose our partner with eyes open, not close, if you find her/him damn childish, just leave her lor, but if you love her, live with it lor.
  And we are only hearing his side of naive views, what about his gf side of the story???

  when you ask how to go about the r/s you will have to reveal at least soem of the condition/character..................
• subaru67

  4 Dec 07, 17:25

  Originally posted by rainee:

  How old are the two of you? And how long have you been together?
  
  And in what way has she been immature? Does it happen often?

  both 25... approaching 6 mth...
  
  its like when i am busy with stuffs that i have told her earlier... she said okie... but when that time comes... she will call and say can find her... when i told her that i can... she just hang up the call... i was like???? but then later she will sms me say its okie ask me go do my stuff than end liao then find her
• rainee

  4 Dec 07, 17:26

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  If I will to love a boy, i will not post on his back about his condition and personality, perhap I will only post to ask question about how to go about a r/s or he is seeing someone etc etc...but I will definitely no expose his characteristics, we choose our partner with eyes open, not close, if you find her/him damn childish, just leave her lor, but if you love her, live with it lor.
  And we are only hearing his side of naive views, what about his gf side of the story???

  But usually when you ask questions, definitely need to say a little bit about the personality of the person ma, otherwise how to give advice?
  
  Some degree of childishness is alright in a relationship, but cannot be too often...
• gigabyte14

  4 Dec 07, 17:26

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  And you, XDD mentality.

  i AM a xdd
  
  got problem izzit
• Gasfene

  4 Dec 07, 17:27

  I can understand some gals really have the mentality of a xmm. Not really xmm but some of them are just plain lazy. One girl that i know never read the newspaper nor watch the news at all. She watches tv all the day and i start to wonder if she is a bimbo gf.
• rainee

  4 Dec 07, 17:29

  Originally posted by subaru67:

  both 25... approaching 6 mth...
  
  its like when i am busy with stuffs that i have told her earlier... she said okie... but when that time comes... she will call and say can find her... when i told her that i can... she just hang up the call... i was like???? but then later she will sms me say its okie ask me go do my stuff than end liao then find her

  Hmm...I don't quite understand the situation. You mean you told her you have something to do and she will say okay just that later she will ask you to come and find her even when she is fully aware you are busy with your stuff?
  
  It's okie what, she asked you to go and do your stuff in the end...she didn't throw any tantrums right when you really go and do your work?
• subaru67

  4 Dec 07, 17:32

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  If I will to love a boy, i will not post on his back about his condition and personality, perhap I will only post to ask question about how to go about a r/s or he is seeing someone etc etc...but I will definitely no expose his characteristics, we choose our partner with eyes open, not close, if you find her/him damn childish, just leave her lor, but if you love her, live with it lor.
  And we are only hearing his side of naive views, what about his gf side of the story???

  i agree on yr part... if love her then live with it lor... but long term its not gd ma... the prob isit why it always seem like i am giving it in... when we talked abt it... she sometimes maybe(in fit or anger says: i am like this, take it or leave it) hearing this i also LL lor
• angel7030

  4 Dec 07, 17:33

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  i AM a xdd
  
  got problem izzit

  yr xdd got problem meh?? go see doctor ya.