Determining the right one..
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How do u noe whether the person u're with now is the rite one for u? Wat if there's a little voice inside saying that there's another one out there waiting, does it mean that this person is not the rite one?
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follow ur heart lah
anyway, when u have this tot, it just shows u are not confident of the current rship... might as well move on or wait for the next chun tian......
if u tink there is a better one out there, then wait loh
but then, who is to say wat will happen in future?
wat if u wait but no one come? -
Your hunch is most likely correct.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How do u noe whether the person u're with now is the rite one for u? Wat if there's a little voice inside saying that there's another one out there waiting, does it mean that this person is not the rite one?
Anyway, so what if the rite one doesn't come ?
Why settle for someone you know in your heart is not the rite one ?
I heard of a song , dunno what is the name .. it goes..
" Its so sad to belong to some one else, when the right one comes along." -
Remember right is not permenant.
Today u feel this one is right...tomorrow you may feel otherwise due to the fac that your thinking, way of life change as time goes by.
What is important is that this person has the fundamental characterists that you want for the long haul. The rest then you both gotta work on it.
Good Luck..... -
wa.. then if at the point... the person break off with the current bf just to be with a new bf with better feeling... seems very sadOriginally posted by jojobeach:Your hunch is most likely correct.
Anyway, so what if the rite one doesn't come ?
Why settle for someone you know in your heart is not the rite one ?
I heard of a song , dunno what is the name .. it goes..
" Its so sad to belong to some one else, when the right one comes along."
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Well u wont know it for sure cuz u cant see your future, stop thinking bout this and do ur best in your r/s , That is the best way
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that voice will continue to sound every moment u feel let down or when a slight disappointment happens in the R/S. and everytime that happens, don't tell me you're gonna move on
Have some faith & trust for that partner of your will you -
I used to move on fast n swift whenever i hear that little voice. But for him, I've been thru e biggest n most disappointing situations n I've wanted to move on but the situation was so bad that if I had dropped him there n then, I feel tt i'd have been kinda heartless.. haizzz...Originally posted by de_middle:that voice will continue to sound every moment u feel let down or when a slight disappointment happens in the R/S. and everytime that happens, don't tell me you're gonna move on
Have some faith & trust for that partner of your will you -
Have a responsible attitude and doing the right thing are more importantOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How do u noe whether the person u're with now is the rite one for u? Wat if there's a little voice inside saying that there's another one out there waiting, does it mean that this person is not the rite one? -
I found the lyrics of the song from the internet.
It's Sad To Belong
* Performed by: England Dan And John Ford Coley
* From the 1977 album, Dowdy Ferry Road
Met you on a springtime day
You were mindin' your life
And I was mindin' mine too.
Lady when you looked my way,
I had a strange sensation
And, darlin' that's when I knew...
That it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along,
Yes, it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along.
Oh, I wake up in the night
And I reach beside me
Hopin' you will be there
But instead I find someone
Who believed in me
When I said, "I'd always care."
That it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along,
Yes, it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along.
BRIDGE:
So I lived my life in a dreamworld for the rest of my days
Just you and me walkin' hand in hand in a wishful memory
Oh, I guess that's all that it would ever be.
Wish I had a time machine
I could make myself go back
Until the day I was born.
And I would live my life again
And rearrange it so
That I'll be yours from now on.
Oh it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along,
Yes, it's sad to belong to someone else
When the right one comes along. -
U are truly heartless when he knows u dun like him anymoreOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I used to move on fast n swift whenever i hear that little voice. But for him, I've been thru e biggest n most disappointing situations n I've wanted to move on but the situation was so bad that if I had dropped him there n then, I feel tt i'd have been kinda heartless.. haizzz...
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Oh my lord, sister, you have a very unsettling heart, that is bad. Unless your current boy did nothing wrong, why should you dump him? As noti as i am and admire by many, I dun hurt a boy heart, it is very cruel.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I used to move on fast n swift whenever i hear that little voice. But for him, I've been thru e biggest n most disappointing situations n I've wanted to move on but the situation was so bad that if I had dropped him there n then, I feel tt i'd have been kinda heartless.. haizzz...
Dun be a play gal with a flowering heart ya. -
there is no way to tell if he / she is the right one, after all people can change with time... just be with the one u love and dun be with the one u have doubts with.
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Defines 'right'? In a relationship, you're the one who decides who's the 'right one' for you.... Sometimes the 'right' one need not be the best one.... Sometimes you might even end up not meeting the 'right one'....Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:I used to move on fast n swift whenever i hear that little voice. But for him, I've been thru e biggest n most disappointing situations n I've wanted to move on but the situation was so bad that if I had dropped him there n then, I feel tt i'd have been kinda heartless.. haizzz...
"Road is yours, it's just a matter of which way you wanna go....?" -
strange la, if you really like that someone, i don't quite believe that your heart will tell you that there's someone out there better. pretty obvious la, that ain't the right one.
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FI become AA...
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You will never know and you can only look back and say... yes or no.Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:How do u noe whether the person u're with now is the rite one for u? Wat if there's a little voice inside saying that there's another one out there waiting, does it mean that this person is not the rite one?
... but yes or no is also not correct and true because there is no such a thing as yes he was the right one or no, he wasn't the right one. The reality would be that he was the right one in certain ways and at certain times and he was the wrong one in certain ways at certain times...
... if you hear a voice telling you that there is another one out there, you should just ignore the voice... concentrate on the present relationship and if you are happy in it and he is happy in it, you continue and if not, you break up... -
When you feel happy with that person
When you feel that you can grow old together with that person
