Then she must be bored with the relationship and / or bored with you.Originally posted by moletan2003:yes i spent almost everyday with unless it is work which prevented me from keeping her company
bro same sameOriginally posted by moletan2003:Hi I am having some problem with my girlfriend and need some advice. Recently, my girlfriend have been going out with this particular guy for about 5 times since may this year. I ask her why is it that she is going out with him? and she explained that it is because that she just wants to know more friends.
I understand that it is perfectly fine to know more friends, however I think that the guy is interested in her hence his persistence. And I did voice out my concern to my girlfriend and she promised me she will not go out with him again. That was 2 months ago. Yesterday, she went out with him again.
Today, I told her in person that we should stop seeing each other for a month and really decide on whether we should continue with this relationship. She agreed.
I have been with my girlfriend for about coming to 2 years. Currently I am a civil servant but come next year Jan I will be quitting my job and concentrate on my degree. I took this step to enhance my paper qualification so as to increase my chance of getting a better paid job. She is supportive but she also understand that I will not be able to be as stable as before when I quit my job.
I am sad that this has happened but I also need some assurance from her. Am i selfish in asking her to stop seeng this guy?? objectively there is nothing wrong with her seeing other guys. emotionally, i am actually quite bothered by her willingness to go out with him. I am very sad cause I have put in alot of effort in maintaining this relationship but she is just not being helpful.
U need to understand. WhAT u really need to spend with her is quality time and not quantity time! U may spend 24hrs a day, 7 days per week but just doing all the same routine things is not going to boast yr r/s or bring it to another higher lvl.Originally posted by moletan2003:yes i spent almost everyday with unless it is work which prevented me from keeping her company
where she go wif him? club? movie? if u so concerned then request to join in ithe outing lo... become his fren... tink theres something missing here....Originally posted by moletan2003:Hi I am having some problem with my girlfriend and need some advice. Recently, my girlfriend have been going out with this particular guy for about 5 times since may this year. I ask her why is it that she is going out with him? and she explained that it is because that she just wants to know more friends.
I understand that it is perfectly fine to know more friends, however I think that the guy is interested in her hence his persistence. And I did voice out my concern to my girlfriend and she promised me she will not go out with him again. That was 2 months ago. Yesterday, she went out with him again.
Today, I told her in person that we should stop seeing each other for a month and really decide on whether we should continue with this relationship. She agreed.
I have been with my girlfriend for about coming to 2 years. Currently I am a civil servant but come next year Jan I will be quitting my job and concentrate on my degree. I took this step to enhance my paper qualification so as to increase my chance of getting a better paid job. She is supportive but she also understand that I will not be able to be as stable as before when I quit my job.
I am sad that this has happened but I also need some assurance from her. Am i selfish in asking her to stop seeng this guy?? objectively there is nothing wrong with her seeing other guys. emotionally, i am actually quite bothered by her willingness to go out with him. I am very sad cause I have put in alot of effort in maintaining this relationship but she is just not being helpful.
Today, I told her in person that we should stop seeing each other for a month and really decide on whether we should continue with this relationship. She agreed.readily? then her lack of objection would be telling...
If she goes out with other male friends regularly but only this particular chap is making you feel uneasy, then trust your gut. You have no real confirmation whether there is something fishy going on between them but dude, this line alone is bad enough - when your woman is ok with a cooling off period without putting up a fight or wondering why, her interest in you is waning. The real problem isn't the guy, because even if you manage to bash this one with a stick, there will come another, and another.Originally posted by moletan2003:Today, I told her in person that we should stop seeing each other for a month and really decide on whether we should continue with this relationship. She agreed.
broOriginally posted by moletan2003:Hi I am having some problem with my girlfriend and need some advice. Recently, my girlfriend have been going out with this particular guy for about 5 times since may this year. I ask her why is it that she is going out with him? and she explained that it is because that she just wants to know more friends.
I understand that it is perfectly fine to know more friends, however I think that the guy is interested in her hence his persistence. And I did voice out my concern to my girlfriend and she promised me she will not go out with him again. That was 2 months ago. Yesterday, she went out with him again.
Today, I told her in person that we should stop seeing each other for a month and really decide on whether we should continue with this relationship. She agreed.
I have been with my girlfriend for about coming to 2 years. Currently I am a civil servant but come next year Jan I will be quitting my job and concentrate on my degree. I took this step to enhance my paper qualification so as to increase my chance of getting a better paid job. She is supportive but she also understand that I will not be able to be as stable as before when I quit my job.
I am sad that this has happened but I also need some assurance from her. Am i selfish in asking her to stop seeng this guy?? objectively there is nothing wrong with her seeing other guys. emotionally, i am actually quite bothered by her willingness to go out with him. I am very sad cause I have put in alot of effort in maintaining this relationship but she is just not being helpful.
Wah kao... why so jaded? It's still worth it finding the right girl to mull over and share your weekends with. Be a bit more positive dude.Originally posted by Guardx:bro
finishing uni = better pay and better gals
why worry about a gal who prefers other guys who are stable?
Is not her fault rite? Sad but true lar let her go.
If she cannot stick to you during tough times do you think she will do it in the future?
this is a real world. Got money you chose people, no money you got to let people chose you.
"I have put in alot of effort in maintaining this relationship but she is just not being helpful"
Wahh I did that in past also but so what? A handsome guy or a rich guy comes along and all the efforts are wasted.
Enjoy life man why brother about doing so much?