How to make relationship more interesting?
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Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. He says i'm boring. Im not the type who socialize easily. I dun really get along with pple easily. any suggestions on how to improve my relationship? I really dont know wat to do? Its always movies, dinner, window shopping. Any ideas wat i can do together with my bf or where can we go, in Singapore?
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u come my house cook, i go ur house cook
join salsa class together
do volunteer work together
try out wind-surfing, diving, ice-skating together
give him some surprises like bake a cake, wear a teddy, drop by his workplace with bento -
why don't u shoot him back...Originally posted by chickadees:Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. He says i'm boring. Im not the type who socialize easily. I dun really get along with pple easily. any suggestions on how to improve my relationship? I really dont know wat to do? Its always movies, dinner, window shopping. Any ideas wat i can do together with my bf or where can we go, in Singapore?
' As a guy,it is yr job to make it interesting! '
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Why don't you ask your boyfriend where he wants to go ?Originally posted by chickadees:Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. He says i'm boring. Im not the type who socialize easily. I dun really get along with pple easily. any suggestions on how to improve my relationship? I really dont know wat to do? Its always movies, dinner, window shopping. Any ideas wat i can do together with my bf or where can we go, in Singapore?
If he suggests something you don't like to do, just try it, you may like it after all. -
2 person en ai enuf oladi wat.
wat excitement he seeks? -
Dun pick too much on small little thing, self- contradict is a problem to many r/s.Originally posted by chickadees:Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. -
prawning
go beach chill + smoke (at night)
camping
go to a food blog and eat at some good random far place
go jb tgt
go to flea markets
club tgt
bake cookies -
Date a married man like me and you your love life will be interesting!!!ahhaha *kidding*Originally posted by chickadees:Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. He says i'm boring. Im not the type who socialize easily. I dun really get along with pple easily. any suggestions on how to improve my relationship? I really dont know wat to do? Its always movies, dinner, window shopping. Any ideas wat i can do together with my bf or where can we go, in Singapore?
Differences is what make a relationship interesting...how ironic. The only issue is that both parties have to be gallant and understanding enough to accept and compromise that as adults.
All the advises here are great so basically you know what to look out for - activities together. You might hit a snag since you may choose salsa but your bf can't even stand the tight pants, etc...
What about getting a clique together? I like to meet my JC friends for pot luck and a little talk cock session over whiskey....you need to do some planning and inevitably requires some efforts.
Go camping, pulau ubin, sentosa, labrador park, mount faber, sungei buloh, bukit timah nature reserve, macritchie reservoir, run, swim, exercise, learn self-defence, try metal-detecting, etc...!!! -
Originally posted by FireIce:
hmm.what is wear a teddy?? y not dress up like rabbit xp playboy sign.heheh.
u come my house cook, i go ur house cook
join salsa class together
do volunteer work together
try out wind-surfing, diving, ice-skating together
give him some surprises like bake a cake, [b]wear a teddy, drop by his workplace with bento[/b]
well, maybe u two can add a new baby to ur life.. buy a hamster or some pet to shower your love on to..can shop tgt for pet, shop tgt for pet stuff, play with pet, bring pet go see doc.. (:
if little money, buy fish (:
if no money, catch ants to rear..
when go window shopping, u two can try clothes for each other mah. u try bikini let him see, he try bra let u see (: exciting or not ^^ -
funnyOriginally posted by dearie^^:hmm.what is wear a teddy?? y not dress up like rabbit xp playboy sign.heheh.
well, maybe u two can add a new baby to ur life.. buy a hamster or some pet to shower your love on to..can shop tgt for pet, shop tgt for pet stuff, play with pet, bring pet go see doc.. (:
if little money, buy fish (:
if no money, catch ants to rear..
when go window shopping, u two can try clothes for each other mah. u try bikini let him see, he try bra let u see (: exciting or not ^^ -
this is teddyOriginally posted by dearie^^:hmm.what is wear a teddy?? y not dress up like rabbit xp playboy sign.heheh.
i think the guy would prefer this to a .......wat? rabbit!??!?!?!?! -
more intimate time??
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Find common interests/activities to engage in or cultivate a new hobby together...
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oooo nice teddy. lol
find things that are new to you both and learn them tgt. for example he likes computer games, then u go learn so you can play with him then you both will have smth intersting to do lo. -
go hotel 81
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Well, if both of you can carry on a conversation for hours, that is a good sign. Does that happen? "Too many differences" might just be a delusion.
Surprises help in keeping a relationship alive. Make gifts for him, remember dates (e.g. birthdays, anniversaries) and celebrate festivals with him. -
use imagination
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I like the way you thinkOriginally posted by CannyOng:why don't u shoot him back...
' As a guy,it is yr job to make it interesting! ' -
Maybe he is the one who is boring or both of you are equally boring..Originally posted by chickadees:Ive always been arguing with my bf due to same reasons. We've got too much differences. He says i'm boring. Im not the type who socialize easily. I dun really get along with pple easily. any suggestions on how to improve my relationship? I really dont know wat to do? Its always movies, dinner, window shopping. Any ideas wat i can do together with my bf or where can we go, in Singapore?
It depends on how both of you make the best out of your life mah.