About a girl II
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Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas. -
find a new girl.
merry christmas -
merry christmas to you.
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bloody
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Yea.. She's out with the new guy now.
Oh well, anybody wants me? -
Are you goodlooking or not?
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check wealth, face, body, knowledge, u hav any of the 3 infront ?? bcuz she aso hav knowledge, not so much use ..
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Ha
The strangest thing is that I don't feel sad.. In fact, I don't know what I'm suppose to feel anyway.
Think I will just drink away my Xmas -
be happy!!
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Just move on, and never let this affect your life.
If you are still studying, you would be better off concentrating on your studies and work your way through a good degree, and ultimately secure yourself a nice job.
If you are now working, you would be better off concentrating on your career and try to rise your way up the hierarchy.
When you are at the top, you get to be the chooser. -
Yea..I hope so..
Just a point of note, have a relationship in which there's trust. Otherwise, each time your girl or guy goes out, you will start to 2nd guess them. -
Anyway TS, i think u dun really love her, perhaps u are just infatuated as she is the belle in the uni. The reason for my assertion is u dun feel sad or rather u didn't feel the way it should be as per stated earlier in your reply.
Anyway, i think u are kinda possessive in the sense that u concern of who she went out with. I understand how u feel but well she still have to right to choose ya. Therefore, as far as she is concerned, avoid being too nosey about her stuff. Since u say u still like her, well my advice is only be there for her when she needs u. U might be treated as spare tyre though. However, the choice is urs.
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Thanks Uncertain!
I'm not really possessive, I just wish that she'll let me know instead of deflecting questions like that.
I mean she can ask what I'm doing but I can't do the same to her. -
time to a find a new gal
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Just did it..
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new yr soon so new gal !!
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Just wondering..
wads the reason for her to like ignore you in the first place? -
WelcomeOriginally posted by Misogynist:Thanks Uncertain!
I'm not really possessive, I just wish that she'll let me know instead of deflecting questions like that.
I mean she can ask what I'm doing but I can't do the same to her.
Btw, man and woman are very different in first place, be it physical or emotional. Therefore, it is reasonable for her to ask u thing while not answering urs in HER context. Therefore, it is important for u to acknowledge this so that u will feel less pain.
In the case of possessiveness, u said u are not possessive. I trust ur word. However, what really matters is u dun APPEAR possessive.
Imagine u are the girl, how will u feel when someone close to u ask u:"Are u going out with another guy?" This very question is wrong in the first place as the girl will think i go out with who is ur business? I am not even ur gf, u wanna know so much about me for what? Hence, u appear possessive to her.
TS, do remember to go slow. Be her normal friend first and c how it goes. What if one day u discover a habit of her that is so undesirable to u? BGR need not be too official, a simple walk along a road, a simple conversation can spark the beginning of a romance... If u still love her, do befriend her as normal, even if one day u all proceed to become very gd buddies, dun feel sad ya as u make a gd friend instead of a love foe. -
I think U ended up being a "swimming float"...if I were U...I will just send her an SMS asking the reason for her looking pissed at U...Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas.
if she replies...then communicate to sort out the issue.
if she doesnt....forget about her...she may have a lot of other options...and U are not one of them...thats life. -
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Gawd Miso,Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas.
You couldn't have screwed yourself over harder.
She give you that pissed off look FOR A REASON dude.
And you told her she's a lonely person who craves attention ????????? #smack my head hard#... why'd you do that for ?????????????
Yep, next better playa ! -
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Yep..Majorly, thoroughly screwed up down left right center.
I think it's all over unless a miracle happens but in this case, I doubt so.
I don't even know her friends who can help me meditate this situation. -
come date me.
Bloody Christmas.
