If u and ur gf go out..
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then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz.
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if she relli sincere about sharing the burden, then u shd not worry too much lah
love her and treat her well
next time when u fa da rber bring her to mortons and buy her a SLK -
wont leh.
this is male ego la, but den, i think we shld brush aside lo.
next time when u graduate find a job earning lots of money u can always treat her better
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Why would you feel useless?
Both of you know you are not working. You should compromise things. -
you have a sweet gf...
cherish her while you can -
this one no issue lah... a meal oni mah...
u remember not to go out flirt flirt can le.. cherish her... tis kind spore hard to find le -
my ex when i was 17.. she was 6 yrs apart..older than me...
she spend me almost on everything..
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thanks for all ur replies, i think she's sweet too. But i feel kinda useless.
if there was something to do to make me feel less useless -
u're not the only one...i got this kind of problems too..but i just tell myself i would cherish her and wont make her disappointed in the futureOriginally posted by dkmagician:thanks for all ur replies, i think she's sweet too. But i feel kinda useless.
if there was something to do to make me feel less useless -
SLK?!Originally posted by FireIce:if she relli sincere about sharing the burden, then u shd not worry too much lah
love her and treat her well
next time when u fa da rber bring her to mortons and buy her a SLK
hahaha..
TS..
don't feel useless..
she cares for you then wishes to share..
why not?
it shows she's a good girl..
not some kinds who only know how to spend bf money -
i will feel useless and sweet at the same time... ashamed
because i cannot provide for my gf and i cannot pay the bill when i suggested to go to a fancy restaurant...
next time , try another different place.. -
ya, she is a good gf.
rem wad she has done for u.
just continue to shower her ur love and care, i think tats wad she wants in return ba..
now u might be 'useless' but not in the near future. -
good good! juz make sure u dont let her down, if not everything muz give back!
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nuttin to feel useless about
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We once talk on this topic during one of our outing...
Well... Advise from natalie, just take the money...
You can always pay her back by treating her after you earn loads of money...
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So sweet, guess a thing you could do is love her with all you got.
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fireice gives good advice eh
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Feel useless or not depends on one's ego. (For me i have a very big ego
but now if ple treat then why not)
What you can do is to show her more love, and treat her well. She will know it, and feel it
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i tink ur ger is very mature and thoughtful.Originally posted by dkmagician:then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz.
i am sure she is not trying to embarrass you or anything.
all the best. -
hmm.. yup.. thoughtful is the word to use
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Wha! u good life lor, but remember to love her dearly understand, study well and also next time u earn big money, bring her to tour, eat good restaurant foods and alway remember what she did to you now, cherish and love her forever ok, if not I will haunt you down forever.Originally posted by dkmagician:then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz.
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Angel Lucifer -
U r blessed...Originally posted by dkmagician:then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz.
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Congrats, congrats to TS for finding a gem in this girl. Treasure her, treasure her. I for one very proud of your gf who love you enough to share your burden. That means she is sincere about you instead going after your money.Originally posted by dkmagician:then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz. -
wow super ultra rare. one in a million.Originally posted by dkmagician:then u poor student not working , gf working earn lots of $. Then u go fancy restaurant.
She worry that u not enuff $ pay so she giv u money in advance to pay for the meal , but u dun want to take.
Then during the meal you go washroom, wallet at table, then u come back gonna pay for the meal suddenly ur wallet got a lot of $ then u know she put it in, but u keep quiet.
Later then u ask her about it, and want to give her back but she don't want to take back. you say ok.
So do u feel useless? Sighz.
I have meet so many girls in my life never ever seen such a nice gal. Take good care of her.
You are not useless lar.
good couples take care of each other when any one of them is down. Thats what good couples are made of. Is a 2 sided thing.
let me quote you, one bad example.
Guy spend all his monthly salary on his gf. When he do not have enough to eat, the gal force him to buy branded bag for her. When he said that he did not have enough cash, his very own gf force him to write a IOU to her. He must pay her back at 10% interest once he got his next month salary. -
agree. shld cherish her wellOriginally posted by Maith:u're not the only one...i got this kind of problems too..but i just tell myself i would cherish her and wont make her disappointed in the future
dun let her down.