if wanna marry into a muslim family, must convert to muslim isit? no other alternatives?
die die must convert?
bery troublesome sia...

anyone encounter tis or smth familiar? wan ur thoughts. pls share.

what is dont convert, what will happen go jail

stoned to death if u are in the middle east.

dont want to convert then run away to another country.

Originally posted by RatedR:

if wanna marry into a muslim family, must convert to muslim isit? no other alternatives?
die die must convert?
bery troublesome sia...

anyone encounter tis or smth familiar? wan ur thoughts. pls share.

what is dont convert, what will happen go jail

Nah it's because the father gotta lead the family.

There are couples though who stick to their own religion. Wife christian and
husband muslim. They don't make religion an issue.

die die must convert lor
my teacher convert from a catholic to muslim

i heard for guys...

must cut also...

you are the wife or husband to be?

My friend, a guy, a muslim married a Catholic and registered in ROM and legally married.

but ROMM (registry of muslim marriage) asked him to come to their office and tell him to ask wife to convert.

2 weeks later, he just told ROMM that he told his wife to convert but she don't want. ROMM also suck thumb never do anything.

they are still married as of now.

u marry a cow lor…. no need to convert

Originally posted by BaByBoY:

i heard for guys...

must cut also...

circumsize

let me guess, u like this hot mina, and it’s lust, lust and lust

Originally posted by RatedR:

if wanna marry into a muslim family, must convert to muslim isit? no other alternatives?
die die must convert?
bery troublesome sia...

anyone encounter tis or smth familiar? wan ur thoughts. pls share.

what is dont convert, what will happen go jail

nope, in singapore not a must to convert. but the religious fanatics esp in the family might have some issues

Originally posted by Ponders:

you are the wife or husband to be?

My friend, a guy, a muslim married a Catholic and registered in ROM and legally married.

but ROMM (registry of muslim marriage) asked him to come to their office and tell him to ask wife to convert.

2 weeks later, he just told ROMM that he told his wife to convert but she don't want. ROMM also suck thumb never do anything.

they are still married as of now.

How about non-Muslim husband and Muslim wife? Must the husband convert? I know in Malaysia and Middle Eastern, a couple will not be legally recognised as married if one is a Muslim whereas the other is not.

Not fair! If I happened to marry a Muslim lady, I will refuse to convert.

Originally posted by hisoka:

nope, in singapore not a must to convert. but the religious fanatics esp in the family might have some issues

x2. singapore wont do anything, its juz the family or the muslim community because they r strict on the converting part, esp if xx religion male, muslim woman, wan to continue the family line i guess.

... its a standard procedure. how can husband and wife live with each other with completely different beliefs?

yes its a must for the husband or wife to convert. but they convert also is convert for God,not just solely because of his/her love.

before anyone question me, im mixed.i have a chinese dad and a malay mom.
but my dad was already on conversion to Islam b4 he met my mom.

my dad's side,so many husband buddhists than their wife christian/catholic, SO MANY issues they argue over.fight fight fight. father tell son be buddhist.mother tell son be catholic.both teach different teaching. poor kids.ive seen it.it will be a huge conflict. christmas mother wanna bring son to church, but dad ask son to go temple offer joss sticks hope for a better new year. sigh. really pity my cousins.

why u guys scared to circumcise? go google know more about circumcision la,its not cut cut cut la.its cut the excess skin only... so many doctors and angmohs circumcise, it really is a problem in our asian society i guess,esp us chinese haha [im circumcised la].

for the case muslims marry catholic wives. well,the muslim knows its wrong.the catholic/christian knows it wrong as well. what to do. RED light not supposed to cross,some ppl still cross,cannot say anything ba.

[quote]Originally posted by buffered:
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kinda disagree because i feel that quarrels are issues that are disputed, but i feel as long as they have agreements and make decisions well, there should not be a problem, only the community that has a problem, seen as a deviant act which defies moral values not to convert.

Originally posted by buffered:

... its a standard procedure. how can husband and wife live with each other with completely different beliefs?

yes its a must for the husband or wife to convert. but they convert also is convert for God,not just solely because of his/her love.

Quite true. Both why can't it be the Muslim convert to his/her spouse' religion?

I know it is a sin under Islamic law to convert out of Islam. Similarly, for some other religions, it is also a sin to convert out. Then how?

Let say if I have a Muslim wife. I wont force her to convert but definitely I wont convert to Muslim for her sake. Cos non-Muslims must also be considerate to their family and relatives' feeling too.

And the same go for Christainity, Hinduism etc...

isnt it the same like saying they cant have tattoo or drink. but u still see ppl doing it

ya i encountered once le..
as my ex was a mly..

even though we get along really well,
her family(her dad) insist me on converting while her mum was ok wif it if i nv convert..

but den her dad was the head of e family..
so as u said, die die mz convert..

in e end, we broke up le..


but i tink diff families got diff culture bah

It is a matter of by right and by left stuff.

Originally posted by RatedR:

isnt it the same like saying they cant have tattoo or drink. but u still see ppl doing it

deviant acts, always be people breaking tradition. but only if u can accept anot lor.

Originally posted by RatedR:

if wanna marry into a muslim family, must convert to muslim isit? no other alternatives?
die die must convert?
bery troublesome sia...

anyone encounter tis or smth familiar? wan ur thoughts. pls share.

what is dont convert, what will happen go jail

In Asia, You don't want to convert, then very hard to marry her lah.

Because if she marries you, then her whole family will disown her.

I know of one couple... one muslim one catholic. Falls in love and married.
Both sides family totally cut off contact from them.
They migrated elsewhere live their own life lor.
Got kids but didn't force them on religious issues lah.
So one kid married a indian and the other one is dating a am buddhist.

Originally posted by Spartans:

If I happened to marry a Muslim lady, I will refuse to convert.

One golden piece of advise for you.

"Never say never."

Is it halal for a muslim to kiss another person's lips that has chewed Maling brand luncheon meat?

To a devout muslim, this is a serious matter.

me prefer uncirc******* one.

msian chinese nit to cut one anot?

Originally posted by jojobeach:

One golden piece of advise for you.

"Never say never."

I use the term " I will refuse to convert", hence giving myself some room to backtrack.

That's why I dun use the world 'never'.

love is my religion,
wife is my GOD.