Down to earth, not good?
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Does girls really prefer guys who're always giving surprises and being romantic?
I don't seems to know how to be a romantic guy but I'm always doing things that're more rational and boring. Things that I do are pretty much the same too as in outing programmes and stuffs.
Further more, I don't club and party so I really don't have a big circle of friends.
I wish to hear from you people that if guys like me are not really fancied by girls? Any ways to really attract girls with traits like mine? -
me like u leh.
bt u muz hv aspirations k.
and muz action on it one ok.
gimme a ring when u r there. -
be down to earth before a relationship, try to be romantic and spontaneous in a relationship
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Agreed.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:be down to earth before a relationship, try to be romantic and spontaneous in a relationship
& It's not impossible to find a girl that suits you
(Doesn't mind you not giving suprises & being romantic etc) -
to each his own. different girls have different likings. find out and work on it.
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To Seph:
Being romantic isn't easy. It comes in a lot of form I believe. Girls are very strange creatures from Venus, a kiss may be sweet and romantic enough but some might think buying lotsa gifts are. It differs I guess. I'm like, hard to crack my brain trying to give surprises to ppl I like. Bah~ >.<
To Yuki:
Thanks, hope it's somewhere around me and not too far away. Lol.
To Hello Kitty:
I do have aspirations.
Guys also sometime shy what. Cannot say action then action de. LOL.
Give you what ring huh? -
its easy. finding out is the hard part.
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i think you know. being a friend and being a couple is very different.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:its easy. finding out is the hard part.
might click very well and be all close as friend, but suddenly when the role of the relationship changes. u might even lose that friendship. it's kinda typical and i think those taiwan or hongkong dramas got the same scene. =D
anyway, this a just a blattering post. ignore me if i'm bullshitting or ignorant.
lol. btw, i'm taking this chance to make more friends too. hahaha -
This is my fearOriginally posted by Leonlum:i think you know. being a friend and being a couple is very different.
might click very well and be all close as friend, but suddenly when the role of the relationship changes. u might even lose that friendship. it's kinda typical and i think those taiwan or hongkong dramas got the same scene. =D
anyway, this a just a blattering post. ignore me if i'm bullshitting or ignorant.
lol. btw, i'm taking this chance to make more friends too. hahaha -
finding out about what she likes.
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=(((Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:This is my fear
understand your fear... -
no u are not talking crap, it makes sense..Originally posted by Leonlum:i think you know. being a friend and being a couple is very different.
might click very well and be all close as friend, but suddenly when the role of the relationship changes. u might even lose that friendship. it's kinda typical and i think those taiwan or hongkong dramas got the same scene. =D
anyway, this a just a blattering post. ignore me if i'm bullshitting or ignorant.
lol. btw, i'm taking this chance to make more friends too. hahaha
diff kind of ppl diff character, when timing comes(u will noe more or less),it's time to strike...
Good luk dude
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Down to earth is fine but just don't be too wood-headed..
If you are in love, you would want ur gf to be happy. Naturally, you could think of ways/perhaps some surprises to make her happy.
Most importantly, you must not feel that you are boring. You must enjoy what you are doing.. even by conventional norm, it is boring in other people's eye but you are enjoying it becos it makes your own life fufiling.
if you think what you are doing is boring. Why ? Maybe you can make your life more interesting by changing. -
If its a relationship, i believe making my own life fulfilling would not be enough.Originally posted by Isis:Down to earth is fine but just don't be too wood-headed..
If you are in love, you would want ur gf to be happy. Naturally, you could think of ways/perhaps some surprises to make her happy.
Most importantly, you must not feel that you are boring. You must enjoy what you are doing.. even by conventional norm, it is boring in other people's eye but you are enjoying it becos it makes your own life fufiling.
if you think what you are doing is boring. Why ? Maybe you can make your life more interesting by changing.
naturally, i cant differentiate between wood headed and down to earth. lol.
i would want my gf to be happy and of cuz, give her surprises. but despite the fact that i want. it doesnt mean i can. surprises are not easy for me. i can do it once, twice. but i wont be able to do it often. i dun mind ppl seeing me as boring but i do not wan my gf to feel that way.
changing oneself is not an easy task. especially when i've been living my life like that for 22 years. changing takes alot of time.
i appreciate your advices and i hope some of them would work for me. oh ya, i din mention that i'm not those hunky, good looking guys out in the street. lol. -
diff girls have diff preference what
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being down to earth is not the same as not giving surprises to her u know..
u can be down to earth and still give her surprises and stuff..
just be sincere and everything will be ok from there, even if ur surprise is screwed up, she will love it all the same.. -
what a statement.Originally posted by tut4nkh4m3n:diff girls have diff preference what
u win!! =/ -
Some girls do not need some fancy surprises but only want you to love them wholeheartedly. You are talking here as if you are already attached. When in love, it can change a person. Don't assume so early yet.Originally posted by Leonlum:If its a relationship, i believe making my own life fulfilling would not be enough.
naturally, i cant differentiate between wood headed and down to earth. lol.
i would want my gf to be happy and of cuz, give her surprises. but despite the fact that i want. it doesnt mean i can. surprises are not easy for me. i can do it once, twice. but i wont be able to do it often. i dun mind ppl seeing me as boring but i do not wan my gf to feel that way.
changing oneself is not an easy task. especially when i've been living my life like that for 22 years. changing takes alot of time.
i appreciate your advices and i hope some of them would work for me. oh ya, i din mention that i'm not those hunky, good looking guys out in the street. lol.
No change, no improvement. Only you, yourself resist the change.. so stop thinking that you can't change becos u have been living for 22 years. You still have so many years ahead of you to live for.. so live it well, even you are not living it to the fullest. Help others to make themselves living their life good also can.
There are so many not yandao men attached. No need to compare yourself to others cos everyone ( included the yandao) has their own good points and bad points. Some girls like guys who are stable.. good husband quality. -
dang. good point there but not able to accept all of them though. i agreed with u though. changes need to be done. i wonder, if changes are done. will feeling change too? its very hard to say when will the right girl comes ya?Originally posted by Isis:Some girls do not need some fancy surprises but only want you to love them wholeheartedly. You are talking here as if you are already attached. When in love, it can change a person. Don't assume so early yet.
No change, no improvement. Only you, yourself resist the change.. so stop thinking that you can't change becos u have been living for 22 years. You still have so many years ahead of you to live for.. so live it well, even you are not living it to the fullest. Help others to make themselves living their life good also can.
There are so many not yandao men attached. No need to compare yourself to others cos everyone ( included the yandao) has their own good points and bad points. Some girls like guys who are stable.. good husband quality.
ah! no change doesn't mean no improvement leh....... i can improve but don't change what. =P no la.. i think i have probs changing, alot of factors to consider. its hard to really spell it out though. yeah, and i like my life now. it's just i wonder ppl like me really doesn't attracts girl or wad cuz i got a few friends being good looking and u know, has lotsa chicks around him. **envious**
oh well, i think i got a good husband quality! muahahaha... anyway, guys got probs with girls... go find Isis. she's good~ as in with advices. =X -
that was what i had been sayingOriginally posted by Leonlum:what a statement.
u win!! =/
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u need not go club to hv a big circle of frens... as long as u put an effort u should b alright...Originally posted by Leonlum:Does girls really prefer guys who're always giving surprises and being romantic?
I don't seems to know how to be a romantic guy but I'm always doing things that're more rational and boring. Things that I do are pretty much the same too as in outing programmes and stuffs.
Further more, I don't club and party so I really don't have a big circle of friends.
I wish to hear from you people that if guys like me are not really fancied by girls? Any ways to really attract girls with traits like mine? -
lol... paiseh, maybe i a bit bodoh so never catch the meaning.Originally posted by sEphIrOth:that was what i had been saying
my bad dude. xD
diff girl, diff preferrence. it doesnt really help much though. LOL.
that statement is general. too wide. hard to understand.
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i like down-to-earth guys.
doesn't matter if he is not romantic.. coz to me, it's a bonus.
wat matters is, he wun cheat. -
hmm, i duno if u can link non-cheating guys with down to earth. baobao believe in horoscope? taurius guys are very devoted. u might wanna hunt in that direction.. lol..Originally posted by browniebaobao:i like down-to-earth guys.
doesn't matter if he is not romantic.. coz to me, it's a bonus.
wat matters is, he wun cheat.
well, isn't it sad that a girlfriend would two timed u when u're serving NS? isn't it sad that she hide it from u and ignore u when u're in camp? isn't it sad that u manage to find out only when u brought a birthday cake to find her on her birthday and she told u she had a bf already? LOL... -
pat pat*Originally posted by Leonlum:hmm, i duno if u can link non-cheating guys with down to earth. baobao believe in horoscope? taurius guys are very devoted. u might wanna hunt in that direction.. lol..
well, isn't it sad that a girlfriend would two timed u when u're serving NS? isn't it sad that she hide it from u and ignore u when u're in camp? isn't it sad that u manage to find out only when u brought a birthday cake to find her on her birthday and she told u she had a bf already? LOL...
u mean u are taurus ma?
i believe in horoscopes..
but i duno y i tend to fall for virgo, aquarius and leo..
so far, there's no chemistry between me (aries) and a taurus.