Is fighting an act of passion or an unacceptable act?
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watch this.Originally posted by abterror:Well, we shoot paper targets now.
Sorry to inform you that we have never fire at live target before.
I wonder how many ppl can take it when they see brain flying out, or any other internal organs.
By then, i believe you will see the whole street will be what you see when u want to buy pork.
http://youtube.com/watch?feature=related&v=YoCN18ftKzI -
I guess that is why woman recover faster from failure of relationship and grow faster?Originally posted by jojobeach:The only constant in a woman is CHANGE.
We adapt.
That is why, men has a harder time adapting to family life when a new baby comes along.
Some men actually goes into depression when the dynamics of their family changes drastically.
What is your drive and methodlogy of changes?
Why cant guys adept? -
Gross leh......Originally posted by jojobeach:
Shyt..... I have friends who dare not touch their wife after seeing them giving birth....
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Well, I believe it's part of nature.Originally posted by abterror:I guess that is why woman recover faster from failure of relationship and grow faster?
What is your drive and methodlogy of changes?
Why cant guys adept?
Woman has to endure sudden changes when she gets pregnant.
And the immediate change that ensue after child birth to taking care of kids means she MUST adapt.
Men are the hunters, and food gatherers, so they need to be consistent in his ability to hunt and protect ,so as to ensure survival of his family.
We are all hard wired from birth.
There may be some external influence that changes our personality and how we think.
But the basic survival and behavior are in our genetics.
I watched my 2 nephews and 2 nieces grow up.
And from a very very young age, they already show interests in different things.
Guys like to play with trains.
Girls likes to play with dolls and dressing up.
I tried making the girl play with the boy's toy, but they just chuck them aside and go back to their plush dolls.
Nobody force them to take on such boy/girl roles, but it just IS. -
Is fighting an act of passion or an unacceptable act?
Fighting is an act of passion AND an unacceptable act, not OR -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
Ah Mr Yap, good morning.
[b]Is fighting an act of passion or an unacceptable act?
Fighting is an act of passion AND an unacceptable act, not OR[/b] -
Dawn is coming, it is time for my eternal rest.
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Wah lau eh.
Good morning.
How come u all so early engage in flame war liao?
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Hence man hunt woman, and woman need to change as not to be hunted. lolOriginally posted by jojobeach:Well, I believe it's part of nature.
Woman has to endure sudden changes when she gets pregnant.
And the immediate change that ensue after child birth to taking care of kids means she MUST adapt.
Men are the hunters, and food gatherers, so they need to be consistent in his ability to hunt and protect ,so as to ensure survival of his family.
We are all hard wired from birth.
There may be some external influence that changes our personality and how we think.
But the basic survival and behavior are in our genetics.
I watched my 2 nephews and 2 nieces grow up.
And from a very very young age, they already show interests in different things.
Guys like to play with trains.
Girls likes to play with dolls and dressing up.
I tried making the girl play with the boy's toy, but they just chuck them aside and go back to their plush dolls.
Nobody force them to take on such boy/girl roles, but it just IS.
Good night ppl. -
good nite.Originally posted by abterror:Hence man hunt woman, and woman need to change as not to be hunted. lol
Good night ppl. -
I have been thinking. Why can't ppl let go of their past or what they had lost?
Example: Even the wheels of fate has been fixed and it has been quite a while. Why do we still dwell and ponder what caused it? Finding it somewhat it is a waste that is ended even duo we may know the reason behind it.
So what is the reason behind all these?
1) A person can't put down his/her pride to fully accept reality?
2) A person cannot adept to his/her lost routing?
3) A person cannot accept cos he/she find that it is not being fair to him/her.
4) Miss him/her cos they still love them?
if so, what kind of mentality is best used to accept and move on with life?
Some ppl will usually say, keep urself busy, Learn to Hate your partner, Put them all aside.
So what is your stand about the most efffective way or mental state?
Personally, after such a period of time, i still ponder on and off:
1)How can one change in such a short period of time from an angel to a devil.
(Listen to turning a deaf ear)
2)How long is a cool down period?(Switch partner)
3)Why cant there be communiation after a quarrel. In which she chose to escape for months. Waited for her to cool down, when you finally met her face to face and caught her red handed with another guy ehom she ensured me that she will not choose to be with (She just twist her words and said the impossible usually happens), she pretented to be a fierce b|tch which is barking (er ren xian gao zhuan), pushing all the fault to the other party. (Perhaps she has already changed her heart before the conflict happened or perhaps revenge even duo it has been a 3 years issue)
4)Felt betrayed to a certain extend.
Why all these? Why should i bother? Why does the thoughts keep pestering me?
Haiz. I guess memories kills.
How can we seal off all ties?
There is a saying that:
A woman's love it short but intense, fast in fast out, as thick as milo dinosaur.
A man's love is long but brief, slow but long. -
People change and adapt to their environment albeit at a lag.
There may have been enough time for nature to catch up with changes in women's roles in modern societies.
Clinging to Man=hunter, woman=caregiver mentality is a form of "behavioral fundamentalism" -
... I think guys should always give in to the weaker sex.