Feeling lonely and terribly depressed
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Recently, I'm having an emotional breakdown. I felt so lonely and depressed. The relationship between my wife and I is not like it was used to be when we are still young. My wife and I rarely talk and we don't have any sexual intercourse since the age of 50. Now I'm 61, 11 years of loneliness.
This pass weeks, I went out to socialize and I've met women which their age are much younger than me. About 25-35. Some of them are particular friendly. I've met a wonderful blossom woman, assume her name is Selena, she's 26 and a florist. We never out of topics despite our age gap.
The problem is we are very close and close each day. And I started to pour some feelings towards her but I don't want to scared her off. Beside that, I also don't want to do something stupid which will embarrass my wife and kids.
I'm feeling so confused, this loneliness and the need of companionship might lead me to the wrong way.
Fellow SGF friends, I'm in agony and I need your advices. Please help me to solve this situation. Thanks a lot.
JoySoyLake
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yayaya.. u better go kill urself now or wait for admin to kill u.
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Go talk to Chu Mei Feng...
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What's wrong with you? Why admin want to kill me? Izzit AA is no place for old folks to share feelings?Originally posted by browniebaobao:yayaya.. u better go kill urself now or wait for admin to kill u. -
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hebe, selena.....den when is ella's turn?
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61 still so horny?
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It's not horny, just lonely....you will get what I mean when you reach at my respected age.Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:61 still so horny? -
Stupid clone
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I see a lot of older men with younger PRC women at Geylang.... I don't know if they actually do it, but they spend lots of time chatting at the coffee shops...Originally posted by JoySoyLake:It's not horny, just lonely....you will get what I mean when you reach at my respected age. -
Hook up with PRC is just not right. It's sad to hear that there are so many people visit Geyland for sex services. I, as a former specialist in health field, feel concern for the next generation.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I see a lot of older men with younger PRC women at Geylang.... I don't know if they actually do it, but they spend lots of time chatting at the coffee shops... -
Originally posted by JoySoyLake:Hook up with PRC is just not right. It's sad to hear that there are so many people visit Geyland for sex services. I, as a former specialist in health field, feel concern for the next generation. Hello, I am talking about men older than you... I was at one of the coffee shops with my wife and I was telling her to llok at a PRC and an old man... they were holding hands but if you looked carefully, she was holding him just in case he fell walking down from the coffee shop on to the road... what 'next generation'?
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Hello.
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Wow, older than me? 70? 80? 90?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap: Hello, I am talking about men older than you... I was at one of the coffee shops with my wife and I was telling her to llok at a PRC and an old man... they were holding hands but if you looked carefully, she was holding him just in case he fell walking down from the coffee shop on to the road... what 'next generation'? -
I'm shagged.
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...the woman thought it wise to hold his arm when he walked down from the coffee shop walk-way down to the road...Originally posted by JoySoyLake:Wow, older than me? 70? 80? 90? -
the light is so bright.
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:...the woman thought it wise to hold his arm when he walked down from the coffee shop walk-way down to the road...
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it is a very common sight in Geylang. No wonder you are lonely... you should go out more and experience life more...Originally posted by JoySoyLake: -
I'm a respectable former specialist in health industry and you expect me to do that? I'm not that desperate though.....Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:it is a very common sight in Geylang. No wonder you are lonely... you should go out more and experience life more... -
... I asked you to walk around Geylang, go for a meal or a drink or buy durians... nobody asked you to have sex... you find it impossible to even walk around Geylang and you complain you are feeling lonely? How do you expect to live a fulfilling and meaningful live when you are filled with so many fears?Originally posted by JoySoyLake:I'm a respectable former specialist in health industry and you expect me to do that? I'm not that desperate though.....
You fear what other people think of you, you fear going to Geyland... and what else do you fear? -
I'm fear of hidden CCTV!Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:... I asked you to walk around Geylang, go for a meal or a drink or buy durians... nobody asked you to have sex... you find it impossible to even walk around Geylang and you complain you are feeling lonely? How do you expect to live a fulfilling and meaningful live when you are filled with so many fears?
You fear what other people think of you, you fear going to Geyland... and what else do you fear?
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... are you an ex minister of health?Originally posted by JoySoyLake:I'm fear of hidden CCTV! Scared of this and scared of that, how do you expect not to be lonely?
When I was living in Bangkok, many old Caucasian men (retired) were living with young women they picked up from bars... -
Don't attempt to pollute my healthy mind!Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:... are you an ex minister of health? Scared of this and scared of that, how do you expect not to be lonely?
When I was living in Bangkok, many old Caucasian men (retired) were living with young women they picked up from bars... -
you asked for advice how not to be lonely right?Originally posted by JoySoyLake:Don't attempt to pollute my healthy mind! 