what if gf is a dominant type. Things must always go her way. in an argument, the fault is yours and she is correct. how do I settle this so both of us can be happy. other than giving in, what can I do? suck thumb

u mean giga giving u problem

unless u wan quarrels, bopian u ve to give in lor.

each party must give and take

you cant be the one who always give in and she always take

talk to her bout it, tell her how you feel bout this r/s (she being too dominant)

if i were in your case, and then after some discussions she still refuses to compromise, then too bad.. i'd say goodbye!

Originally posted by RatedR:

what if gf is a dominant type. Things must always go her way. in an argument, the fault is yours and she is correct. how do I settle this so both of us can be happy. other than giving in, what can I do? suck thumb

As what many mention, Its a give and take situation.. If u keep giving in to her, will not solve the problem.

Let her try the cold war method.. Whenever she starts to flare up again and expect u to admit it's yr mistake. Give her cold shoulder. Do not give in so easily. After a while she realise , she this time gone too far and will reflect of her behaviour and action.

If she don't reflect and treat yr cold shoulder as nothing... I think yr r./s will not last long even u are keen to maintain this r/s.

have you told her that her behaviour ain’t right. you should be firm towards yr gf as much as u love her. tell her that it ain’t right. you guys may have a cold war after you get frank with her. but if she really loves you, she will be willing to change. rather than keeping it to yrself for long and getting tired of the r/s which may eventually cause a bitter breakup or may even cause u to hate her, settle it asap.

suck thumb

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bear wif it until her body is yours.

Originally posted by RatedR:

what if gf is a dominant type. Things must always go her way. in an argument, the fault is yours and she is correct. how do I settle this so both of us can be happy. other than giving in, what can I do? suck thumb

A dominant woman will not find a dominant man.

for me i cannot take it... cause i MCP and i believe most men also do

Originally posted by RatedR:

what if gf is a dominant type. Things must always go her way. in an argument, the fault is yours and she is correct. how do I settle this so both of us can be happy. other than giving in, what can I do? suck thumb

Just because her way is not your way, does not means it is not the RIGHT way.

If she feels it is correct, and it's not going to cost you an arm or a leg. What is the big deal ?

When your woman is happy, and you let her be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.

When your woman is miserable, she'll also make sure you're miserable.

Pride is worth nothing.
But it will cost you dearly if you have too much of it.

tell me about it. switch gf lor

Originally posted by RatedR:

what if gf is a dominant type. Things must always go her way. in an argument, the fault is yours and she is correct. how do I settle this so both of us can be happy. other than giving in, what can I do? suck thumb

I cant really stand too dominant partner

My ex bf is more high ego and dominant guy. even if he is in the wrong he think he is right he will also angry. I would apologise for something I feel I have no wrong.

And I cant eat the food that I like. only can eat with him what he like. its rather tired to be in a relationship that you can only live in ur partner life.

if she is not so extreme still can work out. cause only during arguement right?
u can give in then after that talk to her frankly about how you feel.

Say that she must try to understand you as well and think in your shoes lo.

so.. his pride is worth nothing while her pride is worth everything?

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Just because her way is not your way, does not means it is not the RIGHT way.

If she feels it is correct, and it's not going to cost you an arm or a leg. What is the big deal ?

When your woman is happy, and you let her be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.

When your woman is miserable, she'll also make sure you're miserable.

Pride is worth nothing.
But it will cost you dearly if you have too much of it.

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Just because her way is not your way, does not means it is not the RIGHT way.

Neither does it mean IT IS the right way!!!

If she feels it is correct, and it's not going to cost you an arm or a leg. What is the big deal ?
If she feels it is correct and her partner too, do u think anyone will fight? Of coz both party feel the other other party is wrong!!! That is why ppl fight!!!

When your woman is happy, and you let her be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.
When your woman is miserable, she'll also make sure you're miserable.
Only need to remove the s, wo and er to im

When your man is happy, and you let him be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.
When your man is miserable, he'll also make sure you're miserable.

Pride is worth nothing.
But it will cost you dearly if you have too much of it.
It take 2 to clap and both are prideful to give in. If u hate pride so much, why even end with one that have load of it? Like all thing, too much of anything is never good nor none of it. Beside, this is a thread about TS gf being too dominant and not TS pride getting in his way during any argument.

Deal with the problem and not shoot TS for simply being a guy. Itis a AA thread, not a man/woman bashing thread.

Originally posted by EarlNeo:

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Just because her way is not your way, does not means it is not the RIGHT way.

Neither does it mean IT IS the right way!!!

If she feels it is correct, and it's not going to cost you an arm or a leg. What is the big deal ?
If she feels it is correct and her partner too, do u think anyone will fight? Of coz both party feel the other other party is wrong!!! That is why ppl fight!!!

When your woman is happy, and you let her be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.
When your woman is miserable, she'll also make sure you're miserable.
Only need to remove the s, wo and er to im

When your man is happy, and you let him be happy, you'll have less argument and you'll be happy too.
When your man is miserable, he'll also make sure you're miserable.

Pride is worth nothing.
But it will cost you dearly if you have too much of it.
It take 2 to clap and both are prideful to give in. If u hate pride so much, why even end with one that have load of it? Like all thing, too much of anything is never good nor none of it. Beside, this is a thread about TS gf being too dominant and not TS pride getting in his way during any argument.

Deal with the problem and not shoot TS for simply being a guy. Itis a AA thread, not a man/woman bashing thread.

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So where's your constructive contribution ????

Originally posted by the Bear:

so.. his pride is worth nothing while her pride is worth everything?

Eh, I never say only woman's pride is worth everything hor.

I realized the pride thing, because I too was too prideful.
So it works both ways.

However, if you cannot control the other party, why not control yourself ?

Originally posted by jojobeach:

So where's your constructive contribution ????

I just did!!! By pointing out the error in YOURS so that TS will be safe from people like u!!!

did you imply it?

because it is a give and take...

if she is unable to give at all, he's supposed to give all the time?

some "relationships" are not... it is just one side leeching the hell out of the other...

so.. if he backs down, does it mean he has to back down all the time? because it seems like it's happening...

we love the ones we love.. sometimes, we love them enough to walk away...

what he has to do is to sit her down and talk to her about this.. slowly and calmly.. tell her where he stands.. and she tells him where she stand.. and both come to a compromise..

THIS is the basics of a relationship.. the need for communication..

btw.. try not to give "advice" which is detrimental to everyone?

you seem to have a knack of doing that..

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Eh, I never say only woman's pride is worth everything hor.

I realized the pride thing, because I too was too prideful.
So it works both ways.

However, if you cannot control the other party, why not control yourself ?

Originally posted by EarlNeo:

I just did!!! By pointing out the error in YOURS so that TS will be safe from people like u!!!

Can you come out with something ORIGINAL ?

Originally posted by the Bear:

did you imply it?

because it is a give and take...

if she is unable to give at all, he's supposed to give all the time?

some "relationships" are not... it is just one side leeching the hell out of the other...

so.. if he backs down, does it mean he has to back down all the time? because it seems like it's happening...

we love the ones we love.. sometimes, we love them enough to walk away...

what he has to do is to sit her down and talk to her about this.. slowly and calmly.. tell her where he stands.. and she tells him where she stand.. and both come to a compromise..

THIS is the basics of a relationship.. the need for communication..

btw.. try not to give "advice" which is detrimental to everyone?

you seem to have a knack of doing that..

Yah, detrimental to male pride. I know.

But if you insist on seeing the relationship the MAN way, best you go marry a man lor.

I never say man must back down ALL the TIME.

But I can tell you this, most women will WANT THEIR WAY.

Like one of the forumer who posted , cannot remember who.
" Man has his wills, woman has her way."

It's either you want to put your relationship at risk, or just give in some to make peace.

It's all up to you.

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Can you come out with something ORIGINAL ?

Dun see the need.

Originally posted by EarlNeo:

Dun see the need.

Bravo

Originally posted by jojobeach:

Bravo

Thanks!

Anyway, bear's advise is great enough, dun think I can topple that.

Just 2 words, communication followed by compromise. If still dun work, move on or bare with it.

Good luck TS