Many of you guys and gers may have entered a relationship and one or both of the parties may take things for granted due to comfort or even believe that he/she knows you very well.
It comes in 2 forms in my opinion.
It can either be the kind where you simply switch off when you are with him/her. Slacking at a corner of his/her house doing what you wants to do. Saying tired days after days when she ask you to go shopping with her.
The other kind will be the assuming kind. In which one party will believe what he perceive about you is all right. They will just push you off as what they believed. eg. i knew you will do this but see what happens now. or i feel that you are not suitable for a managerial posision because........
1) Why do this practice exist in a relationship. Is it an excuse for one to slow down their pace or a break pt in the relationship? Any ways to reduce this silence killer? Or can we say that it is a lazy staff working on the job doing things the easy way out.
2)Taking for granted = i dun love you anymore?
3)I had observe how my married friends commit to their marriage. Basically, it is more like working. Formal and self displine even after working hours. Which i think that it is very tired. Working 18 hours a day. Is it the only way in maintaining a healthy realationship? 100% commitment of your time.
4)Lastly, why do they exist and how do they come about? Is there any other defination for their existance? All bad ? nothing good?
We are humans not saint. However i think that this is not acceptable to most ppl.
uh? bound for such things to happen la dude. either over reliance or the sense of over trust in our hearts.