tired of being too responsible.
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whenever something bad happens to me, i would refrain myself from complaining about the situation and will take responsibility for it. i will think of ways to solve and prevent it from happening again in the future.
i'm proud of being able to initiate positive changes on myself. but there are times when problems all come in a wave, and its not within your immediate control. but i refused to give in, and i disallow myself to complain and whine about it. as a result, this frustration piles up, and affects my overall well-being.
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Learn to take the shit and then dump it somewhere else afterwards.Dont carry it with you.
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I talk to my friends about it. Posted a couple of topics in this forum too. Best is to take it a step at a time...
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those within your control. Do it step by step. Don't burn both ends of your candle. Those you cannot control, let it go and tell yourself... always that you had tried your best and be at peace with whatever you wish to change...
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Getting a pc of good work done is like shitting in your pants. You get a warm nice feeling but NOBODY knows it.
Side note, i think this should be the right attitude in life. It is about builiding up your character and to know how to preservere. It applies the same in future to your married life, your children, or even to your parents.
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yes... it is an unhealthy habit when it is too the extreme..
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people will think you are a mature person...and that's about it.
when you fail in your attempt to solve things though, people will still think you suck.
i think it's an unhealthy habit. it makes you grow old very quickly and feel really stressed.
i used to be like you too...
i think sometimes perhaps you should say out the problem too and ask others to help? instead of just carrying problems all by yourself.
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Having sh1t in your pants is not a nice feeling. Not too good an analogy.Originally posted by New Creation:Getting a pc of good work done is like shitting in your pants. You get a warm nice feeling but NOBODY knows it.
Side note, i think this should be the right attitude in life. It is about builiding up your character and to know how to preservere. It applies the same in future to your married life, your children, or even to your parents.
Respect!!! -
too much of everything is bad.....
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It is good attitude, but you need to let go at times. Thats why men tend to die earlier than women, cos they always bottle up their frustration or stress, while women know relieve themselves.Originally posted by Ray87:whenever something bad happens to me, i would refrain myself from complaining about the situation and will take responsibility for it. i will think of ways to solve and prevent it from happening again in the future.
i'm proud of being able to initiate positive changes on myself. but there are times when problems all come in a wave, and its not within your immediate control. but i refused to give in, and i disallow myself to complain and whine about it. as a result, this frustration piles up, and affects my overall well-being.
is being too responsible, an unhealthy habit, when taken to the extreme? -
haha yeah.Originally posted by blu_sky:It is good attitude, but you need to let go at times. Thats why men tend to die earlier than women, cos they always bottle up their frustration or stress, while women know relieve themselves. -
thanks, mistyblue. for always being there to provide comfort for me n to those who needs them.Originally posted by mistyblue:those within your control. Do it step by step. Don't burn both ends of your candle. Those you cannot control, let it go and tell yourself... always that you had tried your best and be at peace with whatever you wish to change... -
you are human, rmb that. it's natural to feel tired of being responsible all the time. get help, you have no supernatural powers. no one has it, that's why we have family and friends.
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You need a channel to channel off some off your stress.Originally posted by Ray87:whenever something bad happens to me, i would refrain myself from complaining about the situation and will take responsibility for it. i will think of ways to solve and prevent it from happening again in the future.
i'm proud of being able to initiate positive changes on myself. but there are times when problems all come in a wave, and its not within your immediate control. but i refused to give in, and i disallow myself to complain and whine about it. as a result, this frustration piles up, and affects my overall well-being.
is being too responsible, an unhealthy habit, when taken to the extreme? -
Sadly, yes.Originally posted by Ray87:is being too responsible, an unhealthy habit, when taken to the extreme?
You shouldn't stick your head in to atone for someone's sh*t.
Kick ass if need to, sometimes. Otherwise, they'd never learn. -
Hi,Originally posted by Ray87:whenever something bad happens to me, i would refrain myself from complaining about the situation and will take responsibility for it. i will think of ways to solve and prevent it from happening again in the future.
i'm proud of being able to initiate positive changes on myself. but there are times when problems all come in a wave, and its not within your immediate control. but i refused to give in, and i disallow myself to complain and whine about it. as a result, this frustration piles up, and affects my overall well-being.
is being too responsible, an unhealthy habit, when taken to the extreme?
Try to reduce unncessary stress by
- Sports
- Music
- Relaxation techniques
- other relaxing hobbies to unwind.
- Find a friend to talk about your problems does not = complaining. You are just looking for emotional support which is necessary.