How do you hate someone?
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I was asking myself, is there any particular person i hate?
I find the word dislike more appropriate.
Is there anything wrong for a person who dun know how to hate? -
why hate
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Dun know?Originally posted by de_middle:why hate
Just never had the feeling of cursing them.
Even if i have, it will be a very short period of time.
just wondering does hate really lessen the pain.
Why do ppl hate?
How do they come about doing it? -
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Hate is lead by anger.
I never hate a person for long, I only had anger.
Hate doesnt lessen pain but it causes unhappiness between more people.
Its just an human expression that is trigger out by unpleasant happening.
By cursing its a form of releasing of your anger out to lessen the uncomfort feeling of compressed stuffiness in your chest. Often angry words are hurtful but you may not mean it just said it out of anger. It come out as a defense for yourself.
If you choose to be angry for a long period of time it become hate.
Gotta let go of it, free of all angry thoughts.
There not enough space for happiness if its fully store with anger.
Learn to forgive and forget
Its healthier for our mental health. -
Hatred is a curved blade.
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i seldom hate ple, but there is particularly one guy which i utterly hate now.
he is my colleague and has been very very nasty and against me.
its wrong to hate but sometimes i just cant help to have tat feeling towards him. -
I have seems ppl who have lesser pain.Originally posted by Patrik:Hatred is a curved blade.
Perhaps blaming another person will ease ur pain? -
Aint it great that you dont hate anyone?Originally posted by abterror:I have seems ppl who have lesser pain.
Perhaps blaming another person will ease ur pain?
hating others is a very tiring thing. And usually the hater will be bitter and wont feel good. -
Is hate in ur case, a defense machanism to ward from away from you. so he wont have the chance to harm u in any ways?Originally posted by Cool-gal:i seldom hate ple, but there is particularly one guy which i utterly hate now.
he is my colleague and has been very very nasty and against me.
its wrong to hate but sometimes i just cant help to have tat feeling towards him.
Any advantages of hating someone? -
yeah, and to love is one of the commandmentOriginally posted by Cool-gal:i seldom hate ple, but there is particularly one guy which i utterly hate now.
he is my colleague and has been very very nasty and against me.
its wrong to hate but sometimes i just cant help to have tat feeling towards him.
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It is good if u dunno how to hate, then u will treasure love more. There is nothing wrong about not knowing about hate, as the opposite of Love/like is Hate.Originally posted by abterror:I was asking myself, is there any particular person i hate?
I find the word dislike more appropriate.
Is there anything wrong for a person who dun know how to hate?
Learn to love and like other more ya. -
When u dun hate, you have no excuse to pin pt or blame others.Originally posted by angel7030:It is good if u dunno how to hate, then u will treasure love more. There is nothing wrong about not knowing about hate, as the opposite of Love/like is Hate.
Learn to love and like other more ya.
Any failure, you will tend to find everything to bear with.
Ain't it great to push all the blame to others. -
It is just a form of escape.Originally posted by abterror:I have seems ppl who have lesser pain.
Perhaps blaming another person will ease ur pain? -
If you keep pushing all the blame to others, keep hating, you will find that you will be alone, for no one will want to stay by your side.Originally posted by abterror:When u dun hate, you have no excuse to pin pt or blame others.
Any failure, you will tend to find everything to bear with.
Ain't it great to push all the blame to others. -
Of cos hate in slience.Originally posted by blu_sky:If you keep pushing all the blame to others, keep hating, you will find that you will be alone, for no one will want to stay by your side.
Any quarrel = condamn the person.
Death sentences. The Dead dun speak. -
you think you will be happy if you are blaming others, hating others sliently?Originally posted by abterror:Of cos hate in slience.
Any quarrel = condamn the person.
Death sentences. The Dead dun speak. -
Dun know, never try tat b4.Originally posted by blu_sky:you think you will be happy if you are blaming others, hating others sliently?
I will usually blame myself more than i blame others.
Maybe blaming others is a cure? -
Then you will be degenerating. You will probably feel more and more unhappy.Originally posted by abterror:Dun know, never try tat b4.
I will usually blame myself more than i blame others.
Maybe blaming others is a cure? -
Its a double-edged sword...
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To make frens is as simple as ABC,Originally posted by abterror:When u dun hate, you have no excuse to pin pt or blame others.
Any failure, you will tend to find everything to bear with.
Ain't it great to push all the blame to others.
But to make an enemy to be your fren, it is as hard as climbing everest. But if u succeed in making your enemy yr frens, you hv also succeed in removing hatre. And in such cases, usually the enemy that turn to fren are good fren, because both of you know your limit and respect each other thought and space. -
What about the other way round. someone close whom had succeed removing friendship and choose to end all ties.Originally posted by angel7030:To make frens is as simple as ABC,
But to make an enemy to be your fren, it is as hard as climbing everest. But if u succeed in making your enemy yr frens, you hv also succeed in removing hatre. And in such cases, usually the enemy that turn to fren are good fren, because both of you know your limit and respect each other thought and space.
Making foes is as simple as XYZ~ lol
It is as hard as jumping down from everest. even if u have the guts. you probably wont live to tell ur friends about it~ -
It is always easier to be stubborn and 'zuan niu jiao jian' than to open your mind and listen to what others have to offerOriginally posted by abterror:What about the other way round. someone close whom had succeed removing friendship and choose to end all ties.
Making foes is as simple as XYZ~ lol
It is as hard as jumping down from everest. even if u have the guts. you probably wont live to tell ur friends about it~
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Ts,Originally posted by abterror:Dun know, never try tat b4.
I will usually blame myself more than i blame others.
Maybe blaming others is a cure?
U know... it isn't any cure to play the blaming game. It the same thing, blame yourself, blame others. Blame here.. blame there.. blame everywhere, anyone and everyone but in the end, cannot change a thing.
People are not perfect person and they always make mistakes. Be gentle to yourself too. Learn from your mistakes and you will grow wiser. After learning the mistakes, you must also learn to let go of the unnecessary sh!it that associated with it. There the key of learning too. Sometime, some people just love to carry there excessive baggage around. Worst, they love to climb uphill with there overload "bigger than life" backbag. If you want to go uphill or anywhere else, it is best to learn to throw away the unnecessary invisible baggage.
It is not healthy to hate someone. Hating someone is like hurting yourself and on the contary, it does not hurt others as much as it does to you. People often mistake anger and hatred as a form of self-defensive mechanism but it never was. Let go and stop resisting.. so that better things in life can flow into your life smoothly. -
My name is Ti, Seoti
I hate no one.