current and ex
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I'm currently attached, but I still miss my ex girlfriend.
I find myself wondering how she is occasionally.
And plus, we're in the same school and our classes are just next to each others'
My current gf is from a differnet school fyi.
And I do feel guilty thinking abt her now and then.
But i cant help it, they're just worlds apart. -
i smell disaster...
but its ok to think back ur ex. missing is not wrong as u miss ur good female fren.
but i think u know whom u love more la.. chill out la. ur ex is the history liou.. take a look straight into your current gf's eye and tell urself if you really love her. -
You still in Sec school? JC? Poly? ITE? Uni? Study lar.. don't think too much about relsps for now.
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dun compare, jus look 4ward
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Read well. Dont cling on to the past, as you're in the present right now.
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As a matter of fact, I still prefer my ex to my current =/
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WHy u break with yr ex?Originally posted by iaintmad:As a matter of fact, I still prefer my ex to my current =/
Actually I feel u are immature to handle r/s! Stop hurting 2 gals. -
it's actually not very good to think abt yr ex when u already have a gf. imagine how she will feel if she finds out. i guess, it's uncontrollable so it ain't entirely yr fault after all i believe if you can control yr feelings, you will not be so troubled. but TRY to refrain yrself from getting near her and try to distract yrself. text yr girl more often to constantly remind yrself that SHE IS the current one, not someone else.
gd luck dude -
Hey, you have a girlfriend already leh. Why you still think of your ex.Originally posted by iaintmad:I'm currently attached, but I still miss my ex girlfriend.
I find myself wondering how she is occasionally.
And plus, we're in the same school and our classes are just next to each others'
My current gf is from a differnet school fyi.
And I do feel guilty thinking abt her now and then.
But i cant help it, they're just worlds apart.
You still have feelings for your ex? If yes, you're really a bus-third. -
please be FAIR
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yup..Originally posted by CannyOng:Actually I feel u are immature to handle r/s! Stop hurting 2 gals.
hurting people's feelings is one of the worse thing you can do..
move on..
there's nothing to compare -
thinking about your ex is fine...maybe u need some closure...once u have that u can move on and jus concentrate on your current
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u gotta be fair to your current gf.
if she knows it she will be very sad.
Be clear of what you want, dun confuse yourself and hurt others. -
Nothing wrong with missing someone you still care about.Originally posted by iaintmad:I'm currently attached, but I still miss my ex girlfriend.
I find myself wondering how she is occasionally.
And plus, we're in the same school and our classes are just next to each others'
My current gf is from a differnet school fyi.
And I do feel guilty thinking abt her now and then.
But i cant help it, they're just worlds apart.
A man is strong enough to think something and not act on it. It's children who cannnot. You sound like a man. -
What is stopping you from going back to your ex ? If you need to, go back to her, why made another unhappy over your fickle minded manner ...Originally posted by iaintmad:As a matter of fact, I still prefer my ex to my current =/ -
Sigh , I dont know ah.
Both are equally good to me -
Hi TS,
Take some time off thinking ur ex and focus on ur current relationship.
If you keep thinking about the past, you can never move forward in your current relationship.
If feeling is still strong after a few month, then come to AA again bah. -
Agreed.Originally posted by phil30k:Nothing wrong with missing someone you still care about.
A man is strong enough to think something and not act on it. It's children who cannnot. You sound like a man.
It is either stick with the current and don't look back.
or
Follow your heart and don't look back.
Whichever is right to you. -
since you perfer your ex then go back to her.Originally posted by iaintmad:I'm currently attached, but I still miss my ex girlfriend.
I find myself wondering how she is occasionally.
And plus, we're in the same school and our classes are just next to each others'
My current gf is from a differnet school fyi.
And I do feel guilty thinking abt her now and then.
But i cant help it, they're just worlds apart.
Whats the point of whinning so much?
I pity your gf who loves a guy who thinks about his ex, I feel so disgusted just by looking at your post. You sounded like a sissy who can never made up your mind and will lost everything in the end. -
You might as well break up now. You're being unfair to your current gf. She's being compared apples to oranges.
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i think that ur ex is your first love???
first love is always the most memorable...yea...
i understand how you feel...
but just look forward...
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Both are equally good ?
Then ask yourself, which one makes you happy?
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pity ur current gf
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I suggest you let go of yr current gf if you dont truly love her ONLY. Its impossible to love two people at the same time, you are confused. Its not being fair to ur current gf... no one likes to be treated this way... put yourself in her shoes. You have to be really determined and think it through, only then would you stop having feelings for your ex.
I have been through the same thing as you. Don't spend yr time dreaming abt yr ex even though she does not love you. Don't neglect what you have now and pursue what you don't have... treasure yr current gf, dont take her for granted.... be more thoughtful to her, let yr romance blossom and forget abt yr ex. She deserves more than a guy who is not giving his focused best and love into the Relationship