Broke 2 girls' heart
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I feel like a jerk ..
Read this :
Fabulous days to be overwritten by one incident? Nah, I think both Weiting and I will never get affected by such minor thing. Never
Go on (my name), be incensed, be agitated, be annoyed.
I know you have enough, but the both of us had enough too.
I know you want to get things settled as soon as possible, I want too.
I think it is just the fact that we don't know each other well. We don't know the way of how we speak, or even how we think. You are used to your friends and I am used to mine. Our own style of speaking and blogging, its different. It is opposing one another.
You might ask yourself, why do I have to write these in my blog instead of clarifying things with you personally?
Reasons are simple : Because the both of us are hot-tempered and short-tempered. When there is something we want to defence ourselves, we would get really annoyed easily. We were never calm, because when you feel uneasy, you let it out.
You'd complain, you'd ask.
I wrote everything here, because I never have my piece finished.
I did not quarrel too much with you today, because I know its useless. I can't talk with you and your humongous eyes, with people there intruding in the silence, with you wanting to bash us both till our teeth drops and bleed, with a hot-tempered defenders, who just want to claim the rights for themselves.
Go on, let others read my blog. I could care less because it is something I wanted to say- but I never wrote it all out.
Frankly, I fear you.
You are sensitive, I know you hate it when I said that you were an extra.
But have you ever thought how we felt when you said that we were @ the bowling centre?
You gave in to us when we insulted you. Do you think that we did not?
Most importantly, why do I always give you a cold shoulder while others are just humble and bubbly? Because I fear you. I feared and I fear.
Don't ask me why I fear, because even myself don't know the answer. It is just a feeling that comes to you obliviously.
you are different in MsN and real person.
You could make people trust you so much in Msn, and when it turns out in real life, you because really ironic.
I know you want to defend yourself now, you want to say something. But do you know that this will never come to a stop?
because we can't get along with each other well during CIP today(thanks to Thaven, mainly).
We never get along. It is just like a vicious circle, it comes along one another. One incident causes another and the situation worsen. (Think of this when you thought of Vicious Circle).
I know we both want to ask, HOW TO SETTLE IT?
I want. I fear. I dare not.
Do you understand me?
After talking with Guocong, I understood your position.
You are sensitive and you felt hopeless because you are defening yourself ALONE.
Although you told me to remove your permission, please read this one last time. As my post to you. For you only.
Just remember this day when you have gotten stronger. I felt myself stronger, do you?
Anyway, CIP today was really fun and I am totally enjoying it.
We were competing which group would get it done first, but in the end it turns out that everybody are helping one another.
It is really a meaningful CIP...))))))))))))))
Guocong, Wenhao, Nichelle, Yirong, Weiting, Thaven, Boonkiat,Junteck, Michelle, Yingyuan and Zulaikha. I know we are going to have a tremendous day next Friday. I love our cooperation, team work and determination. The concern for one another's safety and the compassion for those children with cancer. It¡¯s so beautiful, reallyyy(: I have the best classmates everrr. Thank you. " -
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What should I do ?
I asked alot of my friends if I am different in MSN and RL and they said YES.
What should I do to ask for forgivness from the girls ?!
I am dead -
Too many words. My eyes hurt.
Can explain in simple sentences what happened? -
u can tell ur feelings, but to be practical, what happened would be best
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summary pls.
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pls summarize in a small paragraph...
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First of all, you failed at paragraphing your whole entire composition, and your grammar really....... and lastly, why do you even want to give a damn to those woman, they are putting you down, you don't have to please them, you know!
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Paragraph your msg an write in language that all can understand.
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1) I believe what she say is true but are u willing to change for the better? No point saying just start to change slowly.
2) It is not your fault since you are born like that, is either you change or just find another gal. -
Don't post so much names here next time ok? sgForums is not a place for you to post so much identity-revealing names.
This is my advice for you.
Anyway, your Sec 2 friend is still young.. So probably you bring her out for a 'apology dinner' at some high class restaurant and pay the bill for her.
I understand that you're still a student and doesn't have much earning power.
So maybe you can try buy some cute stuff that she likes.
My 2cents worth. -
dunno wat she is toking.. sounds damn super melodrama
unless you have been stalking her.. i don't get all the "i fear! i fear!' part
in what ways u so scary -
wah....tired to read
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de_middle and my tips for you.
go download some porn and pcc and forget everything -
Nah. Just probably another b1tch in school. Someone who has brains won't put up something like this on a blog. Forget about her.Originally posted by MrSotong:I feel like a jerk ..
Read this :
Fabulous days to be overwritten by one incident? Nah, I think both Weiting and I will never get affected by such minor thing. Never
Go on (my name), be incensed, be agitated, be annoyed.
I know you have enough, but the both of us had enough too.
I know you want to get things settled as soon as possible, I want too.
I think it is just the fact that we don't know each other well. We don't know the way of how we speak, or even how we think. You are used to your friends and I am used to mine. Our own style of speaking and blogging, its different. It is opposing one another.
You might ask yourself, why do I have to write these in my blog instead of clarifying things with you personally?
Reasons are simple : Because the both of us are hot-tempered and short-tempered. When there is something we want to defence ourselves, we would get really annoyed easily. We were never calm, because when you feel uneasy, you let it out.
You'd complain, you'd ask.
I wrote everything here, because I never have my piece finished.
I did not quarrel too much with you today, because I know its useless. I can't talk with you and your humongous eyes, with people there intruding in the silence, with you wanting to bash us both till our teeth drops and bleed, with a hot-tempered defenders, who just want to claim the rights for themselves.
Go on, let others read my blog. I could care less because it is something I wanted to say- but I never wrote it all out.
Frankly, I fear you.
You are sensitive, I know you hate it when I said that you were an extra.
But have you ever thought how we felt when you said that we were @ the bowling centre?
You gave in to us when we insulted you. Do you think that we did not?
Most importantly, why do I always give you a cold shoulder while others are just humble and bubbly? Because I fear you. I feared and I fear.
Don't ask me why I fear, because even myself don't know the answer. It is just a feeling that comes to you obliviously.
you are different in MsN and real person.
You could make people trust you so much in Msn, and when it turns out in real life, you because really ironic.
I know you want to defend yourself now, you want to say something. But do you know that this will never come to a stop?
because we can't get along with each other well during CIP today(thanks to Thaven, mainly).
We never get along. It is just like a vicious circle, it comes along one another. One incident causes another and the situation worsen. (Think of this when you thought of Vicious Circle).
I know we both want to ask, HOW TO SETTLE IT?
I want. I fear. I dare not.
Do you understand me?
After talking with Guocong, I understood your position.
You are sensitive and you felt hopeless because you are defening yourself ALONE.
Although you told me to remove your permission, please read this one last time. As my post to you. For you only.
Just remember this day when you have gotten stronger. I felt myself stronger, do you?
Anyway, CIP today was really fun and I am totally enjoying it.
We were competing which group would get it done first, but in the end it turns out that everybody are helping one another.
It is really a meaningful CIP...))))))))))))))
Guocong, Wenhao, Nichelle, Yirong, Weiting, Thaven, Boonkiat,Junteck, Michelle, Yingyuan and Zulaikha. I know we are going to have a tremendous day next Friday. I love our cooperation, team work and determination. The concern for one another's safety and the compassion for those children with cancer. It¡¯s so beautiful, reallyyy(: I have the best classmates everrr. Thank you. " -
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What should I do ?
I asked alot of my friends if I am different in MSN and RL and they said YES.
What should I do to ask for forgivness from the girls ?!
I am dead
And, from the text, are you someone who is trying to win every argument? If so, take note of that the next time you are in one and let go of your ego whenever necessary. -
Wah~ too long to be read.
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yar , maybe just an excuse that she fear me lor .. As if I don't fear her (:Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:dunno wat she is toking.. sounds damn super melodrama
unless you have been stalking her.. i don't get all the "i fear! i fear!' part
in what ways u so scary -
Yar , I am the one which is alway trying to win every argument. Future lawyer Sotong (:Originally posted by LatecomerX:Nah. Just probably another b1tch in school. Someone who has brains won't put up something like this on a blog. Forget about her.
And, from the text, are you someone who is trying to win every argument? If so, take note of that the next time you are in one and let go of your ego whenever necessary. -
iOriginally posted by MrSotong:yar , maybe just an excuse that she fear me lor .. As if I don't fear her (:
i fear her drama.
nothing more scary that intense teenage self-angsty melodrama
*makes some protective sign*
I'm so glad I've outgrown this crap. -
write a summary in less than 150 word pls
my eyes pain -
i lazy to read too..so long
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wa...its really long story man...omg...i too lazy to read too...
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What to do ?
Now all the teachers know about it.
I talk to the councilor yesterday outside the staff room. All the teachers were giving me the black face and disappointed look. I had never ever get into these things.
Now the councilor and the FT will arrange for a "talk" on Monday. With the two girls. I don't know how to face them and others too. My fame is gone , respect is left abit and things get worst.
This is what I found on the girls blog.
"i heard some bad news too.i tot the matter could rest off when he shut up his mouth and we shut ours to0.we didnt bad-mouthed him.it's all abt truth.cher just ask why n we tell the truth!!dont tell me he didnt do the same thing.?!is lik WTF when i heard we are going to spent time talking abt someone we dont even care .why bother.?.. like.. we have lots thing better to do rite.?i just don have the idea why he did everything.(good thing tat u print it out again n show it to others! but don waste yr printer's ink coz ppl will just believe watever shit u sae n forget my talk,tat's it)i dont want to argue or debate anymore with kids lik u who dont even let ppl finish their sentence."
Sorry I really got no energy left to make a summary for you people.
Calling me "extra" and talking things about me to her friends isn't it bad-mouthed ? They never give me the chance to listen to their sentence either and neither did they let me have the chance to finish mine too.
I don't know what to do .. I am sensitive and these sentences really give me the flame.. I am jealous when they can still laugh these few days .. I really hate them but I don't know how to hate.
And the councilor , i just wanna things to be settled between us and not the FT and councilor .. it's like being forced to.
Advise pls... i really nid alot of help and i got no one to talk to. -
I too once hurt one of my classmate...
It was all about the Family Day for our class stall...
Well things didn't turn out well totally... Or should I say, things was never good good before...
We solve that conflict of us easily... Well... Physically easy but not mentally...
A word is all we need.
"Sorry..."
Yup.
A number of people is totally different when they are using keyboard to communicate, or their mouth...
I'm too...
I'm never good with words that's why I don't really like to communicate with others during real life...
but then, am totally different in msn...
You can try to write an message to her to really explain to her and say sorry...
But, make sure you are not trying to defence yourself again, or put in more offence in your words... Choose your words wisely...
Well... Maybe you both won't be friends again, but still being neutral is still better...
I know... It may be different from totally fresh anew...
just like akaline and acid adding together, although is neutral, but still not as pure as water...
but still, it is better this way...
Cheers -
What if you were with her for 3 years , superb friend ... and now you can't get used to it. You feel the urge of talking to her but you can't .. and she and her friend are still talking about you ?Originally posted by popikachu:I too once hurt one of my classmate...
It was all about the Family Day for our class stall...
Well things didn't turn out well totally... Or should I say, things was never good good before...
We solve that conflict of us easily... Well... Physically easy but not mentally...
A word is all we need.
"Sorry..."
Yup.
A number of people is totally different when they are using keyboard to communicate, or their mouth...
I'm too...
I'm never good with words that's why I don't really like to communicate with others during real life...
but then, am totally different in msn...
You can try to write an message to her to really explain to her and say sorry...
But, make sure you are not trying to defence yourself again, or put in more offence in your words... Choose your words wisely...
Well... Maybe you both won't be friends again, but still being neutral is still better...
I know... It may be different from totally fresh anew...
just like akaline and acid adding together, although is neutral, but still not as pure as water...
but still, it is better this way...
Cheers -
Friends for 3 years...Originally posted by MrSotong:What if you were with her for 3 years , superb friend ... and now you can't get used to it. You feel the urge of talking to her but you can't .. and she and her friend are still talking about you ?
That is even better and easier...
As you all are once close friends...
A sorry in this case is even more powerful...
And if you are superb friend, real friend will forget after some times... -
She said that she fear me .. and don't even know the reason... I myself hurt her alot of times ... with words .. she never show her feelings but this time its different.. haiizzOriginally posted by popikachu:Friends for 3 years...
That is even better and easier...
As you all are once close friends...
A sorry in this case is even more powerful...
And if you are superb friend, real friend will forget after some times...