Ani1 had dis problem b4????
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My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guys
o guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis. -
I wouldn't mind a divorcee with kids!
I think most parents are concerned that their children will get conned/cheated in a relationship...maybe you can tell your parents how well she takes care of the child to show that she will make a good wife/daughter-in-law/mother -
For myself, He is going to become a divorcee... soon..
no kids from tat marriage.. but as for myself, i do not know if i should cont to believe him..
I mean, not jus me, there is another gal.. in which he said he broke off with her already...Should i trust him? He said he will marry me...
I look thru his bag, found an envelope addressed to him at his office...in it there was a note by her... besides tat, there was 2 condoms inside his bag.
I feel awfully disappointed.. Is he still looking for a chance to eat out?
In love, I guess we cant choose who to fall in love with.. I jus fell, hopelessly in love... but probably a wrong target... hiaz...
Troubles troubles troubles.... -
How old is your GF...
And your Buy-1-Get-1-Free sounds .. rude. -
Just do what u feel happy
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Why u worry about yr parents, tell them they also get 1 for 1 free, buy one daughter in laws and get one 5 yo granddaughter on the spot.Originally posted by jianjian23:My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guyso guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis.
Dun take gals as sale product ya. -
My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guyso guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis.
1) i dont mind
2) You think shoppin ar? Buy 1 get 1 free, the daughter is the freebies?
3) If it's me i will bring the gf to meet the parents.... dont tell them bout her story first but make sure they like her.... bring her to my house often for dinner.. build good relations.... when they start to have regarded her as daughter-in-law (that is.. they like her), then break the news to them (the daughter part) bring the daughter along next time
then slowly talk bout marriage -
I apologise to all forum members on the Buy 1 get 1 free term. It was meant to b easily understood aka layman term n nt creating insult to the ladies.
As for the suggestions given, reali appreciated. Will try to work things out. -
actually no big problem if both are really serious
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ur parents sure will hv something to say but its ur future... as long as u can prove tat u know wat u doing they will accept sooner or later... go for it...Originally posted by jianjian23:My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guyso guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis. -
Dear jianjian23,
u r not alone. i am in the exact same situation. Mine is with a 1.5 yr old son. -
depends on how old you are and how old she is..
err.. i mean if u are like 40 .. and she is 35.. i think probably not a big issue ba.. parents might fuss a bit but ultimately shd be ok
but err if u are 20 and she is 20 with a 5 year old daughter.. then mebbe.. ur parents might raise more objections cos not sure how stable she is? -
you post this forum asking for help.
We encourage you to go for it if the love is true. and we know that its true so that you will post this question.
=] gogogo we support you -
x2Originally posted by dbowie:How old is your GF...
And your Buy-1-Get-1-Free sounds .. rude.
you sound disrespectful -
follow ur heart. if you love her. shouldnt mind it. it not easy to meet the one u love and love you back.
I agree the term buy 1 get 1 sounds yucky.
If I were her, I read it and felt upset.
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Originally posted by jianjian23:
My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guyso
guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis.jianjian23,
Having a good rapport with her daughter is a very important step. Without her daughter's approval, the relationship will be a very difficult one.
You being the ONLY SON, will pose some problem with your parent.
Surely they'd want to have their own BIOLOGICAL grandchild from you.
Talk to your beau if she plan to have any of your offsprings. If YES, then you should let your parents know of this, VERY IMPORTANT.
Another thing is, how is she doing financially ? If she is looking for a meal ticket, your parents WILL NOT like it.
So brag about her achievements and her background (if any), your parents need to know she is not out to take advantage of you.
DO NOT expect your parents to treat her daughter as their own grandchild. Accept the fact that, your parents will favor your own child. So, as long as you can understand this, you will not have conflict with the difference in treatment later.
Remember, it is not their responsibility to "accept" her just because you are in love with her. It is YOUR duty to "help" your parents accept her.
Most important, you must be happy.
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Guys & Gals, today marks the end of my 3 yrs relationship wif my wife to be. She has decided to back out frm our path to fight for happiness. She has left mi for another guy whom she knew for less than 3 mths. Im truly devasted.
piss no war
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Originally posted by jianjian23:
My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guyso guys mind that their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis.
Depends on your parents loh. Some parents are old fashion one so don't like this buy one get one free situation. Worse, some parents think 'used' goods are lousy.Anyway no matter how you must tell your parents right? After all marriage doesn't just involve the three of you oni. In Singapore sad to say, it involves everybody even though actually not their affairs.
So, find a good day and bring them out all together for a dinner and see how your parents react loh.
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Originally posted by jianjian23:
Guys & Gals, today marks the end of my 3 yrs relationship wif my wife to be. She has decided to back out frm our path to fight for happiness. She has left mi for another guy whom she knew for less than 3 mths. Im truly devasted.
piss no war
/pat pat
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its alright if you 2adults get it right, if there is love. and if you dont mind the reason for your wife to breakup with her ex.husband, then go for it. sit down and talk with ur parents first dude.
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i last time knew one guy wif 3 kids.
nw i tink bk, wah sibei heng ah.
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Well, I had friends who married women with childrens also...
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"Guys & Gals, today marks the end of my 3 yrs relationship wif my wife to be. She has decided to back out frm our path to fight for happiness. She has left mi for another guy whom she knew for less than 3 mths. Im truly devasted." What have you seriously learn? Instead feeling so devasted, reflect on yourself. Was she really worth all the trouble? learn your lesson well and you will be a better man the next time..
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No marnee, no talk...
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it depends on you i guess. marriage itself is a gamble though.